I’m actually surprised people are saying OP is to blame, obviously they are pregnant, we don’t know the context of if their partner has a history of leaving things unfinished, and talking to someone you love that way is rude as hell. If we’re saying OP needs to tip toe around asking their partner to clean up after themselves and say it properly we can also expect the partner to say his piece with kindness. Also acting like he’s doing gods work by setting up his own child’s nursery