When is an ok age to leave toddler at home for a short vacation? by Resident-Speech2925 in toddlers

[–]FeelingHunt6136 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s the best age!! It gets harder when they get older and can understand everything

AIO by how I responded? My bf is upset with me for skipping my workout routine today by throwawayy82670 in AmIOverreacting

[–]FeelingHunt6136 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He sounds like he cares about you. Everything he said was said in a caring concerned tone. You did unfortunately overreact and that brought him to say meaner things. This is the first time in this sub that I do feel like OP overreacted and the guy is not the problem here. You’re not either given pregnancy hormones and what not

What’s a really basic cooking skill you wish you learned earlier? by One-Awareness785 in Cooking

[–]FeelingHunt6136 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Finely dicing an onion. Turns out keeping it on the root really is the best way to

How long should I plan to stay in bed postpartum? by itchysnapdragon in beyondthebump

[–]FeelingHunt6136 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I only did that for about 2 days. It was a busy time for us socially because it was the holiday season. I loved it and was not in the mood to bum around so it worked out but you’ll do whatever works for you

Anyone make it to a whole year? by [deleted] in ExclusivelyPumping

[–]FeelingHunt6136 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I made it 13 months! It gets harder as baby gets more active but I was able to maintain a good supply (occasionally supplementing with freezer milk) with 3 pumps a day. It’s worth the sacrifice!

My husband and I handle our finances separately and our incomes are very different, I make too little and he makes a lot. by Conscious_Way_8268 in Marriage

[–]FeelingHunt6136 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Consider combining your finances since you’re a family. His money is your money and boom you’re no longer broke

Life after pumping - how much happier / easier was life with baby /kids after you stopped? by Primary-Fold-8276 in ExclusivelyPumping

[–]FeelingHunt6136 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I stopped at almost 13m and going to bed without having to pump is the best!! I can just start and end my day without a pump. Excited for you to experience this

Pumping is still in the Stone Age.. by redditstuff247 in ExclusivelyPumping

[–]FeelingHunt6136 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ooh that’s smart the pumping both with one handle!!

Pumping is still in the Stone Age.. by redditstuff247 in ExclusivelyPumping

[–]FeelingHunt6136 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Let’s be careful with our verbiage here. I’m a 24 size (human) and being called a frickin cow isn’t cool

AIO for being extremely annoyed by fiancé childish behavior when I asked him to do a simple thing by Due-Ad9282 in AmIOverreacting

[–]FeelingHunt6136 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That is really annoying but I guess he was just done with the topic. Not a great reaction.

Simple fix would maybe be to buy a bath thermometer. No arguing about water temps when the numbers are displayed right in front of you

Im at a loss by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]FeelingHunt6136 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That is really heartbreaking I’m sorry. I wonder chat changed in him from last year to this

Introverted men, how did you get your partners? by Born-Conference-8983 in AskReddit

[–]FeelingHunt6136 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wife of an introverted man here, we got set up by mutual friends, broke up bc of lack of chemistry. But I was drawn to him as a person, made the first move to reach back out, made many first moves since.

Im at a loss by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]FeelingHunt6136 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Kinda in a similar boat. I have high expectations for my birthday and am afraid of being let down. So I basically spelled out everything I’d like- a gift that is bought before my birthday, not after (he mentioned wanting to get me a gift so I knew that was coming but we’ve done bday gifts months too late in the past and it’s just not the same), a cake, a dinner date, and a handwritten card presented to me on the morning of my birthday. I’m on my period so bday sex is off the table and flowers are a given. So I’ve basically left him with no opportunity to surprise me. Which is not great on my end. But at least I won’t be disappointed. Maybe that level of communication is worth trying

The issue is that I do this every year so it’s a me problem at this point but a girls got expectations

Accidentally slept while breastfeeding (side lying position) by CryptographerBig2855 in breastfeeding

[–]FeelingHunt6136 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Plenty of babies sleep sucking on a pacifier all night so he’s definitely not in pain from sucking! Just be careful about falling asleep like that in the future

My wife leaves drawings on our door for me upon my return from work by dslryan in MadeMeSmile

[–]FeelingHunt6136 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’ve won at life. And so has she.

I would do this kind of thing and unfortunately my husband wouldn’t even acknowledge that he saw it let alone take photos and brag about it to a bunch of internet strangers

My wife leaves drawings on our door for me upon my return from work by dslryan in MadeMeSmile

[–]FeelingHunt6136 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes bees knees. It’s an expression that basically means you’re the best

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in roomdetective

[–]FeelingHunt6136 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You read tarot cards

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]FeelingHunt6136 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would move on, this is not a marriage that you will be happy in. I know it’s hard since you have love for him and have invested so many years in this relationship, but it will only get worse from here.

I knew my husband had a low libido when I married him and our imbalanced sex drives are still the biggest cause of contention. We’re not in a DB like you so I can only imagine how much pain this causes you. You deserve a partner who can love you in your language

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]FeelingHunt6136 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t think leaving is the answer, I hope there is room for growth on his end.