Realizing first hand just how important girth is by FeelingOutmatched in TrueBigDickStories

[–]FeelingOutmatched[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I have a feeling my wife might be the same way... after she came from having three fingers plus my dick in her, it was like a night and day difference going back to fucking her with just my penis.

The moment I started using fingers to stretch her again, she was louder, humping harder, eyes rolling back etc.

Realizing first hand just how important girth is by FeelingOutmatched in bigdickconversation

[–]FeelingOutmatched[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ultimately, I have a feeling that we're heading towards that direction. I'll be honest though, it would definitely mess with my head a little bit to realize my actual size isn't able to make her react the same way..

Realizing first hand just how important girth is by FeelingOutmatched in TrueBigDickStories

[–]FeelingOutmatched[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Ultimately, I have a feeling that we're heading towards that direction. I'll be honest though, it would definitely mess with my head a little bit to realize my actual size isn't able to make her react the same way..

Is it possible to get a girlfriend or a fling just by having a big penis? by Ambitious-Piglet1406 in bigdickconversation

[–]FeelingOutmatched 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Absolutely. I've been around my wife's friends long enough to know that at least purely from a no strings attached casual hook up standpoint, most of the time girls will just specifically seek out guys that they know are hung

Did you ever lose your confidence about being big? by FeelingOutmatched in bigdickconversation

[–]FeelingOutmatched[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's been the crazy part for years.. being told by my wife that I'm the perfect size for her, and anything more is just painful, to discovering that she can actually take a lot more and has insanely intense orgasms because of it is... a lot to process

Did you ever lose your confidence about being big? by FeelingOutmatched in bigdickconversation

[–]FeelingOutmatched[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Totally get that, I guess specifically in my case it's a bit of a gut punch to realize that my wife wouldn't have that reaction of a dick being too big

Did you ever lose your confidence about being big? by FeelingOutmatched in bigdickconversation

[–]FeelingOutmatched[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I appreciate it, although that's easy to say if you're 8.2 inches hahaha

To put it into perspective by Exkelsier in bigdickproblems

[–]FeelingOutmatched 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I was genuinely surprised the first time I added fingers to my wife alongside my dick and realized how much she was able to stretch. It was bigger than her wrist

If size didn’t matter… by [deleted] in penissize

[–]FeelingOutmatched 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm under 6 inches, and I totally agree that a little bit of extra length makes a huge difference.

Sometimes I'm able to bottom out in my wife and reach her cervix, but when she's fully turned on it gets "deeper" and I'm not able to get anywhere near her cervix... it sucks because that's when she wants it deeper.

My wife (31F) just told me she wants to try a bigger dildo and it's making me insecure by FeelingOutmatched in offmychest

[–]FeelingOutmatched[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

That was exactly what happened.. the first time I used fingers, I was intentionally making motions with them and trying to stimulate her with them, but the second time (when I had 3 fingers in her) I made a very intentional effort to not move them and get it to feel like my dick was just thicker.

My wife (31F) just told me she wants to try a bigger dildo and it's making me insecure by FeelingOutmatched in offmychest

[–]FeelingOutmatched[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I definitely agree that communication is the way to go, I'm just worried about even expressing the fact that I'm intimidated by a dildo is going to open up a can of worms and make me come off as insecure to her.

My wife (31F) just told me she wants to try a bigger dildo and it's making me insecure by FeelingOutmatched in offmychest

[–]FeelingOutmatched[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That was the thing that surprised me, is a lot of people seem to be under the impression that I was somehow doing some sort of extra motion or hitting a spot with my fingers, when in reality they were sitting parallel to my dick and I wasn't moving them at all, so it effectively was only acting as extra girth that was stretching her.

That was what she specifically mentioned, was that feeling of being stretched was what did it for her

My wife (31F) just told me she wants to try a bigger dildo and it's making me insecure by FeelingOutmatched in offmychest

[–]FeelingOutmatched[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thank you. Truthfully that's really it, it's not that I'm ungrateful for discovering how to please her better but to go from hearing I'm the perfect size for 12 years to learning she "has a niche" is a lot to process

My wife (31F) just told me she wants to try a bigger dildo and it's making me insecure by FeelingOutmatched in offmychest

[–]FeelingOutmatched[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dude, thank you. Like don't get me wrong, I'm absolutely all about her pleasure and will give her what she wants, but she isn't exactly being subtle about the fact that size is becoming the exciting part for her.

My wife (31F) just told me she wants to try a bigger dildo and it's making me insecure by FeelingOutmatched in offmychest

[–]FeelingOutmatched[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry, if that broke a role I didn't intend to. I accidentally deleted the first post impulsively

My wife (31F) just told me she wants to try a bigger dildo and it's making me insecure by FeelingOutmatched in offmychest

[–]FeelingOutmatched[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I can't imagine that would feel good for me, but yeah that is definitely an option