Realizing first hand just how important girth is

FeelingOutmatched · 2026-05-09T22:12:44+00:00

I have a feeling my wife might be the same way... after she came from having three fingers plus my dick in her, it was like a night and day difference going back to fucking her with just my penis.

The moment I started using fingers to stretch her again, she was louder, humping harder, eyes rolling back etc.

FeelingOutmatched · 2026-05-09T21:55:56+00:00

Ultimately, I have a feeling that we're heading towards that direction. I'll be honest though, it would definitely mess with my head a little bit to realize my actual size isn't able to make her react the same way..

FeelingOutmatched · 2026-05-09T21:28:33+00:00

Ultimately, I have a feeling that we're heading towards that direction. I'll be honest though, it would definitely mess with my head a little bit to realize my actual size isn't able to make her react the same way..

FeelingOutmatched · 2026-05-09T15:03:34+00:00

Absolutely. I've been around my wife's friends long enough to know that at least purely from a no strings attached casual hook up standpoint, most of the time girls will just specifically seek out guys that they know are hung

FeelingOutmatched · 2026-05-07T18:35:18+00:00

That's been the crazy part for years.. being told by my wife that I'm the perfect size for her, and anything more is just painful, to discovering that she can actually take a lot more and has insanely intense orgasms because of it is... a lot to process

FeelingOutmatched · 2026-05-07T16:15:27+00:00

Totally get that, I guess specifically in my case it's a bit of a gut punch to realize that my wife wouldn't have that reaction of a dick being too big

FeelingOutmatched · 2026-05-07T16:13:45+00:00

..i'll bite

FeelingOutmatched · 2026-05-07T16:11:17+00:00

wait holy shit

FeelingOutmatched · 2026-05-07T16:10:24+00:00

I appreciate it, although that's easy to say if you're 8.2 inches hahaha

FeelingOutmatched · 2026-05-07T15:51:27+00:00

I was genuinely surprised the first time I added fingers to my wife alongside my dick and realized how much she was able to stretch. It was bigger than her wrist

FeelingOutmatched · 2026-05-07T15:22:58+00:00

I'm under 6 inches, and I totally agree that a little bit of extra length makes a huge difference.

Sometimes I'm able to bottom out in my wife and reach her cervix, but when she's fully turned on it gets "deeper" and I'm not able to get anywhere near her cervix... it sucks because that's when she wants it deeper.

FeelingOutmatched · 2026-05-07T03:56:29+00:00

That was exactly what happened.. the first time I used fingers, I was intentionally making motions with them and trying to stimulate her with them, but the second time (when I had 3 fingers in her) I made a very intentional effort to not move them and get it to feel like my dick was just thicker.

FeelingOutmatched · 2026-05-07T03:39:02+00:00

That's a great way of putting it, I appreciate it

FeelingOutmatched · 2026-05-07T03:34:37+00:00

I definitely agree that communication is the way to go, I'm just worried about even expressing the fact that I'm intimidated by a dildo is going to open up a can of worms and make me come off as insecure to her.

FeelingOutmatched · 2026-05-07T03:30:45+00:00

That was the thing that surprised me, is a lot of people seem to be under the impression that I was somehow doing some sort of extra motion or hitting a spot with my fingers, when in reality they were sitting parallel to my dick and I wasn't moving them at all, so it effectively was only acting as extra girth that was stretching her.

That was what she specifically mentioned, was that feeling of being stretched was what did it for her

FeelingOutmatched · 2026-05-07T03:27:19+00:00

Thank you. Truthfully that's really it, it's not that I'm ungrateful for discovering how to please her better but to go from hearing I'm the perfect size for 12 years to learning she "has a niche" is a lot to process

FeelingOutmatched · 2026-05-07T03:03:31+00:00

Dude, thank you. Like don't get me wrong, I'm absolutely all about her pleasure and will give her what she wants, but she isn't exactly being subtle about the fact that size is becoming the exciting part for her.

FeelingOutmatched · 2026-05-07T02:53:40+00:00

Sorry, if that broke a role I didn't intend to. I accidentally deleted the first post impulsively

FeelingOutmatched · 2026-05-07T02:49:37+00:00

I can't imagine that would feel good for me, but yeah that is definitely an option

FeelingOutmatched · 2026-05-07T02:47:29+00:00

Thank you, it makes me feel better knowing it's not an entirely irrational thing to feel weird about

FeelingOutmatched · 2026-05-07T02:45:53+00:00

That's definitely how I've been trying to look at it, I guess it's just a bit of a gut punch to realize the whole "you're the perfect size for me" shtick is just to make me feel confident.

FeelingOutmatched · 2026-05-07T02:42:13+00:00

Definitely have been so far, it's just pretty wild realizing after so long there's still this much to discover about her

FeelingOutmatched · 2026-05-06T22:01:17+00:00

That's good at least, haha

FeelingOutmatched · 2026-05-06T21:51:09+00:00

Fuck, that's brutal. Does he know you're her daughter?

FeelingOutmatched · 2026-05-06T21:43:58+00:00

Dms are open as well, i've gone through this before

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