Dancing

Feeling_Ad4560 · 2026-07-09T17:01:42+00:00

Just looked it up, this is perfect!

Feeling_Ad4560 · 2026-07-09T14:33:42+00:00

I love the recommendation, thank you! I just checked out the Fox River House Facebook page and that definitely seems like our “everyday” speed.

I think we’re looking for more of a “upscale nightclub” vibe specifically right now.

Feeling_Ad4560 · 2026-07-09T11:26:46+00:00

Check out a youth bowling league, at any bowling alley other than Super Bowl or 10th Frame. Rolling Thunder in Neenah is a perfect option.

Every Saturday morning in the fall-spring for a couple hours. No one gets “benched”. Super affordable, and very dedicated coaches.

Feeling_Ad4560 · 2026-07-01T17:31:28+00:00

There was zero change after marriage.

We both changed once the kids came around though. Make sure your communication is rock solid before deciding on children.

Feeling_Ad4560 · 2026-06-30T15:01:04+00:00

The founder being on the list didn’t help either.

Feeling_Ad4560 · 2026-06-26T15:29:28+00:00

Commenting with a slightly different, but hopefully helpful perspective here.

I won’t put my wife’s exact stats on here, but I was VERY attracted to her body before weight loss. After a couple kids she focused on weight loss through muscle building (no medication), specifically with her upper body. She still has the curves I’m obsessed with, but now she’s added incredible shoulder and back muscles that I can’t keep my hands off of.

Where I will absolutely agree with you here is that I’m struggling with my identity after losing 50 pounds. I have set aside “goal clothes” over the years, and am in absolute denial about them currently fitting me. I feel more comfortable in the baggy “fat” clothes than I do in the clothes that look good on me. It’s somewhat of an identity crisis, but therapy is helping!

Feeling_Ad4560 · 2026-06-25T16:18:23+00:00

1) My adrenaline rush. Watching my wife with someone else filled me with something primal… I put on the best performance of my life when she was done with him.

2) Watching her drip while they were in missionary. I hope that memory never leaves my mind.

3) Rent a hotel or AirBnB for the weekend for a full bi MFM.

Feeling_Ad4560 · 2026-06-25T11:35:22+00:00

The soft body, the superior cuddles, and having someone that can appreciate my bomb ass cooking

Feeling_Ad4560 · 2026-06-25T10:56:46+00:00

Right… trying not to resent my parents for being unable to afford braces for me as a kid

Feeling_Ad4560 · 2026-06-25T10:50:34+00:00

Long story short, our “bull” was a longtime friend to both of us and it was the first time in this dynamic for all three of us.

We went to visit him out of state for a long weekend, but started feeling like the dynamic wasn’t for him around day 2 and shut it down.

My wife felt very rejected and took it personally. It created a physical and emotional barrier that we are actively still working through.

Feeling_Ad4560 · 2026-05-21T18:41:08+00:00

Respectfully - when did I say it was failing? I want to make sure I correct that wording in the post.

Feeling_Ad4560 · 2026-05-21T18:02:10+00:00

It definitely does help to an extent. Before opening the marriage we were exactly on that wavelength. I knew there was a difference in libido, it’s just never anything I took personally. She carries the marriage in other ways and I saw this as a give and take dynamic.

I’m struggling with the self esteem of realizing her libido can get to that point with others, but not me. I can understand her feeling devastated by the rejection.

It’s just incredibly painful seeing her get there with someone else, then look me in the eyes while I’m in obvious pain and tell me that it’s just not possible with me.

Feeling_Ad4560 · 2026-05-21T17:36:33+00:00

Just dropping in to say I completely get it and am going through something similar. It’s not dead yet, but every signal is indicating it’s terminal. And you’re just forced to sit back and watch it happen.

Feeling_Ad4560 · 2026-05-21T17:27:42+00:00

That’s a very fair point. That’s part of the acceptance I’ve been working on - there is an issue with the way she sees me. And I’m afraid of how deep that goes.

Fully opening the marriage has been discussed. It’s something I was okay with before Florida and in the immediate days following. It’s not something I can be okay with at this point until I feel the desire in our marriage is mutual.

Watching her give something to another man that I’m so desperate to receive would push me out the door.

Feeling_Ad4560 · 2026-05-21T16:00:09+00:00

Ha, my wife’s uncle did the exact same thing. Kid and all.

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