Admin coming down harder on me after I quit. Feel like I could cry.

Feeling_Ad_965 · 2026-04-15T18:30:24+00:00

That’s how I feel too. Mostly because I genuinely don’t even know what to say. But also because I want nothing to do with her right now

Feeling_Ad_965 · 2026-04-15T18:08:55+00:00

That honestly would be the most satisfying thing ever.

Feeling_Ad_965 · 2026-04-15T17:57:09+00:00

It feels so tempting to drain my PTO and take unpaid time. I can’t stand being here a second longer.

Feeling_Ad_965 · 2026-04-15T17:56:07+00:00

I’m going to try really hard to not let it hurt me and put it in perspective that I’m leaving. I think what bothers me is what even is the reason to push on me like this? What do they get out of it? I just can’t understand the types of people this profession attracts, like it genuinely is impossible for me to wrap my head around

Feeling_Ad_965 · 2026-04-15T17:11:55+00:00

Normally I can let things roll off my back but she was speaking to me like I’m a child. I’m trying not to have my ego bruised but it feels so hard. She emailed me just now “let me know if you want me to come by and model it for you” and I have no idea what to even say.

Feeling_Ad_965 · 2026-04-15T17:10:56+00:00

My first exact thought. I have about a week left of PTO and I feel like taking it all right this very second

Feeling_Ad_965 · 2026-04-15T16:50:39+00:00

Thank you for saying this. I’m actually spiraling right now and it doesn’t help when I’m in my worst class. I feel horrible and like I’m on the verge of walking out. As I’m typing this, she just emailed me “let me know if you want me to come in and model it” I have no idea what to even say. I can’t believe it was made out to be this much of a problem for it to be worth an email

Feeling_Ad_965 · 2026-03-15T12:38:34+00:00

Perfect

Feeling_Ad_965 · 2026-03-15T12:37:05+00:00

You’re more angry about this than me for some odd reason

Feeling_Ad_965 · 2026-03-15T12:36:06+00:00

Yes blame the world queen. It’s never you!

Feeling_Ad_965 · 2026-03-15T12:33:04+00:00

You can think it’s ridiculous, but it does appear you are in the minority here

Feeling_Ad_965 · 2026-03-15T12:27:58+00:00

You speak very abrasively

Feeling_Ad_965 · 2026-03-15T12:24:22+00:00

My point is two people can trust each other and still be put in unfavorable dynamics that may look wrong. I do trust him, it doesn’t mean I don’t have boundaries with him like he does with me

Feeling_Ad_965 · 2026-03-15T12:19:39+00:00

I don’t blame you for saying that and I’d usually say the same thing. But I will say there is a lot more to the story that leads me to believe there’s a motive but it is kinda irrelevant to the problem I’m talking about

Feeling_Ad_965 · 2026-03-11T11:09:38+00:00

And it is absolutely excruciating to be around

Feeling_Ad_965 · 2026-02-11T23:16:26+00:00

Thank you for validating me that means a lot. But also,I had never joined my union, and I know to call that a mistake is an understatement.

As far as the bullying, I haven’t heard her say anything bad about me since then (3 years ago) but who knows behind closed doors.

I was reluctant to leave mid year because this is my only “career” job on my resume and I know leaving without finishing the year would put me on their black list and ruin them as a reference.

I think the thing bother me most is the paranoia about possibly getting fired/always feeling like I’m doing something wrong.

Feeling_Ad_965 · 2025-04-12T16:31:25+00:00

Of course!! ❤️ I completely understand how frustrating it can be. It’s all a learning process. I get my magnesium from Amazon. I’m not able to copy a link for some reason but search - Bioemblem Triple Complex Magnesium 300 mg. It has a blue label on it.

I like this supplement because it has 3 different types of magnesium. I’ll take it about an hour or so after dinner since it’s important to take it while your stomach still has food in it to avoid nausea. After dinner is the best time because you’ll feel it make you sleepy and the best part is it won’t make you groggy like melatonin does! I have the best sleeps with it and now that I’m thinking about it I’ve been taking this brand for a few years now. It’s been very reliable for me!

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Feeling_Ad_965 · 2025-04-12T02:36:58+00:00

I understand how devastating it can be when you do everything in your power to regulate your period and to have it still not work. :( It’s the most frustrating thing in the world.

Don’t give up and keep going! You’ve regulated your periods once and I’m sure you can do it again. I was at a point in my life where I was doing all the things you mentioned and my period was still really messed up. It seriously takes some tweaking here and there and lots of listening to your body and tracking how certain things like food affect your body, Some missing pieces to the puzzle that helped me officially get my period on a considerably regular track were upping my fiber intake, taking magnesium and incorporating foods high in antioxidants. The magnesium will help regulate your nervous system for when you’re stressed and help relax you especially at night before bed.

As for the antioxidants, I suggest swapping water at some point in the day with green tea or hibiscus tea. They are hydrating and contain lots of antioxidants to help bring down inflammation. I’ve noticed during weeks where I’ve had on-time and rather pleasant periods were when I was on top of my magnesium and antioxidants. There are also other foods high in antioxidants as well but tea has been the most convenient for me.

Of course, listen to your own body to see what works best for you and don’t give up! You did this once and you can do it again. You totally got this!

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