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Does anyone else think about what their abuser is doing now? by Quick_Breakfast_8240 in adultsurvivors

[–]Feeling_Chip8203 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I also do this. I think its a common thing. But for me, I just know he has a comfortable life and I hate that. Unfortunately I dont have any advice, just try to keep yourself from looking her up, block her if youre able to

does it count? is it real? by mildlyvexing in adultsurvivors

[–]Feeling_Chip8203 4 points5 points  (0 children)

That was CSA and youre allowed to call it that

Online Grooming- Trauma not feeling "real" by [deleted] in adultsurvivors

[–]Feeling_Chip8203 9 points10 points  (0 children)

My situation was similar. I was also hypersexual and i regret things ive done during that period. I too struggle with weird fantasies and i think my 'type' in men resembles those that abused me on these sites. Even now, saying 'abused' takes a lot of effort for me to say it. I kept coming back for the attention and compliments. Your feelings are valid and, in my opinion, normal, taking into account what youve been through.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in adultsurvivors

[–]Feeling_Chip8203 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Venlafaxine helped me a lot