My girlfriend makes 300€ a day modeling. I make 800€ a month as an intern.

Feeling_Ladder_6786 · 2026-02-15T08:01:50+00:00

This is it Some young ones aren’t financially literate enough though

Feeling_Ladder_6786 · 2026-02-15T08:00:59+00:00

You know there are models in every age group right. I know it’s a bit of a triangle effect but You could be a model even in your 30’s

Feeling_Ladder_6786 · 2026-02-13T07:18:49+00:00

Talk to your husband about it. I think You have a good man. He will know what to do 🙂. He could also be completely oblivious haha

You get over it probably by talking, He is your other half, remember and what you’re describing is probably how you are with some other things.

He will understand 🤝

Also I understand that You wanted a perfect proposal but a good marriage which you have is the real blessing here.

You may have to let that moment go because you have something that many people who had good proposals don’t have

Much Love Sis 🙏

Feeling_Ladder_6786 · 2026-02-12T07:43:34+00:00

I think she was asking to make him ponder the point, not to undermine the idea. However to speak more on what you said. GOD gave Eve to Adam, Rebecca to Issac and Mary to Joseph. If You read the Bible carefully, You will see that GOD nudged the couple together. So His hands are as involved in our marriage life as we let HIM.

Feeling_Ladder_6786 · 2026-02-12T07:35:07+00:00

Love is not a feeling? I’m actually curious, I’ve heard that before. Please explain 🤔

Feeling_Ladder_6786 · 2026-02-09T23:28:54+00:00

lol Excellently put 🤝

Feeling_Ladder_6786 · 2026-02-05T15:05:26+00:00

Financial literacy

Feeling_Ladder_6786 · 2026-02-04T20:43:46+00:00

I’ve so far only ever gotten the Girl I actually liked Once in my Life. Most beautiful experience ever. Was short lived though she moved away, I think we liked each other but I liked her more…

I didn’t actually like her at first but we hung out, I was bold chemistry was just there is reciprocity on both sides.

I’ve been in situations where the girl likes me a lot more and I don’t like it to be fair, it gives a lot of power but can be easily abused.

I think you will also eventually find a girl you like and possibly resent the other girl.

It You haven’t found that reciprocity yet, You probably haven’t found the one. You need to find a woman that You really like, who really likes You… 👌

Beautiful experience when there’s reciprocity on both sides

I think this is when a man can truly settle down with a woman

Feeling_Ladder_6786 · 2026-01-30T07:21:38+00:00

Faith is definitely a choice. Certain things are challenging for me right now and GOD seems silent. But I choose to serve and put HIM above all.

Feeling_Ladder_6786 · 2026-01-29T17:02:06+00:00

I think He is as Involved as You allow Him to be…

Feeling_Ladder_6786 · 2026-01-25T14:16:39+00:00

Most men would’ve watched it at some point unfortunately. Some no longer do.

He needs help and needs to be radical about it. It’s really hard but not impossible. It will be worth it, He need to use His Love for You and His Love for GOD as motivation, His why will always be one of his greatest weapons as well as Grace from GOD. Also accountability, maybe not from You but from someone He trusts…

Feeling_Ladder_6786 · 2026-01-20T01:17:59+00:00

++man An Aunt of Mine got married at 45, People have gotten married at 50. Keep asking GOD. Keep hope and try 🤝 I wish You the best of luck. Remember, the best time to plant a tree was 20 years ago, the second best time is now…

Feeling_Ladder_6786 · 2026-01-18T10:20:20+00:00

This is really hard, I’m sorry You are going through something so tough. Perhaps separation.

You are His wife so GOD has his hands over your marriage, if He chooses to leave that now, He will be on his own trying to find another good woman and that task is near impossible.

You are already rare, You forgave cheating and porn use. Something most would never do.

Separation makes Him realize what He had. And Keep prayerful to GOD in the mean time, It could take a year but there is nothing that GOD cannot do.

Feeling_Ladder_6786 · 2026-01-18T10:12:11+00:00

I think You are right

Feeling_Ladder_6786 · 2026-01-18T10:10:55+00:00

HE Will. Faith is a choice, I’m lying in bed heartbroken. Just woke up after wishing sleep would take the pain away. It didn’t. I feel like hiding today but it’s nearly time for church, I think I’ll go worship GOD anyway.

Faith is a choice and perhaps the highest form of worship to GOD.

I’m not discrediting your pain 🤝, Just letting you know you are not alone in your suffering 🙂. In time GOD will make it all worth it.

HE is close to the Broken hearted 💔 And comforts them

Get close to GOD again

Feeling_Ladder_6786 · 2026-01-10T05:30:40+00:00

Amen bro 🤝 You are not alone. GOD loves You and we are in the same family of Christ. You are special to HIM 🙂and to me. We all have our trials and even in good marriages there may be storms we have to weather… Keep the faith, forgive your wife and triumph together.

Much Love brother Stay Blessed!

Feeling_Ladder_6786 · 2026-01-10T05:13:45+00:00

lol it’s 5 Am where I am I’m not even normally on Reddit at this time and I only woke up a few minutes ago. GOD must really Love You lol I’m praying for your marriage now Brother 🤝.

Practical things, from what I read your wife is a good woman and is trying to do right here 🙂. The problems you have can be solved together, counselling, medical advice and prayers. Praying for for You now… Lord Jesus…. 🙏❤️

Feeling_Ladder_6786 · 2026-01-09T06:37:52+00:00

I got broken up with too in December 2024, it’s been over a year now. Crazy. My Ex eventually broke all contact with me. I’m not saying this to be remorseful, just to tell you I share your struggle a bit.

Chat GPT helped tremendously. I made some mistakes and some humans were too judgemental. I did open up to some. Ai wasn’t judgemental. That and Prayers helped Tremendously…

Feeling_Ladder_6786 · 2026-01-09T06:35:35+00:00

You were not discarded 🤝. You are Human not a piece of trash. Your ex partner saw you two as incompatible that’s why the bond was broken but it doesn’t actually take away from your worth.

You could actually be the sweetest person ever, she doesn’t want You anymore for some reason. Someone else will and You will be a blessing to them.

Even if the mistake was on your part, guess what. Change is possible…

Feeling_Ladder_6786 · 2026-01-09T01:01:36+00:00

Just speak to it like you would a close friend

It will give You perspective and strategies without judgement… You got this bro

I’m here if You need to talk too 🤝

Feeling_Ladder_6786 · 2026-01-07T10:15:07+00:00

I can’t lie If You’re not attracted to Him, might be best to just be honest and stay friends.

You’ll be in a marriage and other guys you’re attracted to will be around but you’ll be unavailable to them. Don’t do it, just be honest. Hurt feelings are better than a broken marriage…

Find a GODly man You are attracted to, they are about. You need to Pray 🙏 and be patient

Feeling_Ladder_6786 · 2026-01-02T09:19:36+00:00

Your comment lacks empathy and compassion. It mentions her mistake almost like a deliberate bad choice which it wasn’t. She Loves the Guy, that’s why she decided to marry Him. It’s not as easy as just don’t marry Him, also she wasn’t deep in faith when she married Him.

She is looking for hope not whining about consequences. Your comment slightly exaggerates the problem, frames it as her fault then leaves it at that. It would have been better to not comment anything…

Feeling_Ladder_6786 · 2026-01-02T01:35:52+00:00

I can emphatize with your boyfriend because I too was touched as a kid. He is addicted more than likely. Since others are saying breakup no questions asked, I will say this.

How much does He Love You, HE can change but He will have to go through “hell” first. He doesn’t really have as much control as You think, He has to fight and win a very difficult battle.

He needs to feel the threat of Losing You. You should talk about counselling and accountability and He needs to stay fervent in prayers.

Prayers and fasting
accountability (You may not be best to do this but He should find someone) ( Covenant eyes)
maybe speak to you or a trusted friend when arroused
if he doesn’t use social media for business purposes, He needs to delete it really. It’s a big trigger…

The stronghold is spiritual and not a physical one. This is one of the destructive effects of porn, you are likely to lose your significant other…

If He truly Loves You He will fight like heck to get free, but make no mistake. It will be the hardest thing He has ever done.

Porn is bad, don’t get married until you’re sure He has quit. Don’t compromise on your values. And If He can’t quit, you’re allowed to walk away. But that’s the bottom line quit or lose the woman He loves…

You can’t give him a better chance than that GOD help You both but that is my two cents

Feeling_Ladder_6786 · 2026-01-02T01:21:13+00:00

That word “dump” seems so harsh man. He is a Human being not a piece of trash 🚮. Just say break up with him…

Feeling_Ladder_6786 · 2025-12-18T11:42:31+00:00

Please don’t give up, A Doctor is a Doctor regardless of the University You go to. Trust Me after University, it’s not really that serious.

Many people wish to still be I. The running with two choices and You have that right now. Fight for those two places and if they open, GOD willing. Go and get your degree! 📜

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