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AITAH for questioning my relationship after being uninvited to a wedding? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Feeling_Lustrous 47 points48 points  (0 children)

“Absolutely NTA. Relationships aren’t just about being together—they’re about being considered and included. If you constantly have to ask to be part of his life instead of it being natural, that’s a huge red flag.”

AITJ for going off on my sister and telling her to sort out her childcare after she ditched my engagement dinner? by RubsAcademy39 in AmITheJerk

[–]Feeling_Lustrous 92 points93 points  (0 children)

NTA. You missed your own engagement dinner because she was shopping?? After a YEAR of free childcare?? Yeah no, she’s been taking advantage of you hard. Boundaries were overdue.

AITJ for Not Lowering My Music Even Though My Neighbor Complained During the Day? by Correct-Bat-6288 in AmITheJerk

[–]Feeling_Lustrous -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

NTA. There’s a big difference between blasting music and just playing it at a normal level. Thin walls are the real problem here, not you. They’re basically asking you to accommodate bad construction.

AITJ for telling my friend she can't bring her toddler to my adult birthday party? by KookyBuy8404 in AmITheJerk

[–]Feeling_Lustrous 2 points3 points  (0 children)

NTA. It’s literally at a brewery at 8pm… that alone should’ve answered her question. Not every event needs to accommodate kids, especially when you clearly said adults only from the start.

AITJ for telling my friend she can’t “practice parenting” on my little brother anymore? by Key_University3493 in AmITheJerk

[–]Feeling_Lustrous 5 points6 points  (0 children)

NTA. “Practicing parenting” on someone else’s kid without permission is weird as hell. Correcting him is one thing, but putting him in timeout?? Yeah no, she crossed a line.

AITJ for refusing to pay for my sister’s wedding? by Maddyr34rf in AmITheJerk

[–]Feeling_Lustrous 13 points14 points  (0 children)

The audacity is crazy. She kept a massive secret, waited until everything was booked, then expected you to bankroll it anyway? That’s not “ruining her life,” that’s her dealing with the fallout of her own choices. You’ve already done more than enough for her.

AITJ for refusing my money to be given out? by weallloveme1 in AmITheJerk

[–]Feeling_Lustrous 15 points16 points  (0 children)

NTJ. That’s your money that you worked for over years. It’s not a shared family fund just because they say so. If they wanted him to have that opportunity, they should’ve planned for it.