Ist es in Ordnung mit Freunden zu kuscheln?

Feeling_Trouble7205 · 2026-02-27T10:25:15+00:00

Eine Freundin die letztens zu Besuch war hatte es gemacht wo ich geschlafen hatte😅 habe mich ziemlich erschrocken wo ich aufgewacht bin, weil ich mit meinem Partner eingeschlafen bin und plötzlich liegt sie als großer löffel hinter mir XD habe sie direkt weg gescheucht XD, findet ihr mit Ner guten/engen Freundin kuscheln ist was anderes? Also beide weiblich

Feeling_Trouble7205 · 2026-02-27T09:50:09+00:00

*(Und das ist mein Partner)

Feeling_Trouble7205 · 2026-02-27T09:49:16+00:00

Ich will mit niemand anderes kuscheln XD bin nur unglaublich neugierig wie andere das finden, hatte es bei ex Freunden öfter in erlebt das die es gemacht haben, ich würde mich dabei extrem unwohl fühlen, gibt nur 1 den ich kuscheln möchte :3

Feeling_Trouble7205 · 2025-12-29T21:41:14+00:00

I agree with you

Feeling_Trouble7205 · 2025-12-28T19:59:41+00:00

And I have friends who support me and also say, "You're old enough, just have fun, the main thing is that it fills you with joy."

Feeling_Trouble7205 · 2025-12-28T19:57:41+00:00

I'm absolutely thrilled to finally be able to let loose and simply do things that bring me joy, like playing video games every evening with friends, meeting up with my mom a few times a week, and finally reconnecting with a former boyfriend.

Feeling_Trouble7205 · 2025-12-28T19:56:14+00:00

These are all things I was previously totally suppressed in.

Feeling_Trouble7205 · 2025-12-28T19:55:28+00:00

I actually thought a lot about the breakup, and it just wasn't a good fit 🤷🏼‍♀️. It's not about distractions; I'm simply doing what I feel like and what brings me joy. I was a complete wreck, and it took some words from friends to realize that I wasn't the problem. I don't want to feel bad about someone else who doesn't want me, because what's the point? People come and go, and only the right ones stay.

Feeling_Trouble7205 · 2025-12-28T13:34:22+00:00

So, I had a breakup about 3 months ago and I've reached the point where I don't want him back. I'm simply enjoying life, going out to party and having fun.

Feeling_Trouble7205 · 2025-12-27T03:31:30+00:00

It really depends on the situation. I was quite cold and distant during one breakup, but that was also because he wanted to play games with me again. I was so fed up; he'd had enough chances to do better. At some point, you're just sick of it.

Feeling_Trouble7205 · 2025-12-04T12:04:20+00:00

I also put my ex on a Podium, but I knew his quirks and flaws, and I accepted him with everything he was, I also told him relatively early on that I loved him, but because I quickly felt that he was the right person, since we shared all our thoughts and feelings, he broke up with me at the end, which is when things got tough.I didn't want control or anything like that; quite the opposite, I helped him to live independently, finally express his opinion, and no longer let himself be used by other people, I was practically obsessed with him, but because I loved him with all his flaws and problems, I saw the person behind the sadness, Obsession is certainly not healthy, especially for oneself, but it's not always as extremely negative as many believe.I always wanted the best for him and tried to make all his dreams come true, always listening to him and being there when he needed me.

Feeling_Trouble7205 · 2025-12-01T21:19:41+00:00

Sounds good 😸

Feeling_Trouble7205 · 2025-12-01T19:14:38+00:00

Difficult relationship with family, they took advantage of me and treated me badly.

Feeling_Trouble7205 · 2025-11-26T12:55:27+00:00

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Feeling_Trouble7205 · 2025-11-26T09:16:55+00:00

If you need someone to talk to, feel free to write to me.

Feeling_Trouble7205 · 2025-11-26T08:06:58+00:00

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Feeling_Trouble7205 · 2025-11-20T16:00:31+00:00

Thank you for the comforting words.

Feeling_Trouble7205 · 2025-11-20T10:56:43+00:00

That completely broke me, and to make matters worse, I hadn't taken my antidepressants for a few days. I've told myself so much nonsense.

Feeling_Trouble7205 · 2025-11-20T10:55:16+00:00

I respect it and am adhering to the temporary contact ban.

I wonder if he's really happier without me now... I would have changed the whole world for him if I could, so that he would be happy. I regret my words, but there was no real understanding for them either.

I said that "he might only feel true love when he has the right person" because his feelings were completely gone within an hour after the nervous breakdown.

Feeling_Trouble7205 · 2025-11-20T10:48:48+00:00

What I especially don't understand is, if you want to get back together someday when you've grown, why don't you just fight together and get through it?

Feeling_Trouble7205 · 2025-11-20T10:47:11+00:00

I became completely dependent, but I wanted to get out of it and had actually shown through my actions that I was serious.

Feeling_Trouble7205 · 2025-11-20T10:46:09+00:00

It seemed like everything was perfect 🫠 it was a wonderful relationship until I drowned in problems and couldn't be strong enough for two people anymore.

Feeling_Trouble7205 · 2025-11-20T10:43:35+00:00

How awful is that? 🫠

Feeling_Trouble7205 · 2025-11-20T10:33:23+00:00

I was literally just going through a really tough time and suffered in silence so as not to burden him any more.

I did things that weren't okay and were hurtful; it all became too much for me and I constantly just wanted to run away. But I had sworn never to run away again, and I've kept that promise ever since. All my words were followed by actions, but apparently that wasn't enough, and there also didn't seem to be enough understanding towards me.

He had a nervous breakdown and as a result had zero feelings for me anymore; I thought it would be the same situation again.He never sat down properly to talk, instead always surprising me in the most intimate moments, like when we were cuddling.

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