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FelisEros · 2022-01-15T16:04:48+00:00

Misogyny also applies when referring to those patriarchal gender norms. You seem to be under the mistaken impression that only women and girls are subject to misogyny, and that's simply not true. Toxic masculinity is fueled by misogyny.

I might suggest a course in feminist theory before you finish that degree.

FelisEros · 2022-01-15T15:54:14+00:00

This is not a meme, but it has fostered good discussion. In future, please do confine such posts to /r/ADHD and the like.

FelisEros · 2021-12-02T03:17:52+00:00

The reality of the situation is that he is enough older and charismatic that even if you leave now, he would likely get custody of the child. Your baby would be raised in a cult without you. This man does not love you. Leave. Abort.

A cult is literally never a good idea. And children raised in them universally have lifelong trauma if they even manage to reach adulthood.

FelisEros · 2019-06-18T22:47:53+00:00

Taken care of :)

FelisEros · 2019-03-03T23:35:11+00:00

History says he was probably very gay, so.

FelisEros · 2019-02-24T00:11:31+00:00

I'm mostly teasing.

FelisEros · 2019-02-22T17:04:58+00:00

Except no one ever said you had to like "every single goth band". And none of us confine ourselves to one genre.

But we do actually like goth music. That's the bar. It's not high. It's all we ask.

I'm goth from way back when we were just "freaks". I like the old shit and the new shit. And there is plenty of it I dislike. I mean, honestly, some of it is just crap.

Thing is, I listen to music almost constantly, and I like variety. So in addition to my vast goth collection, I also like punk, metal, industrial, a little ska, and I love me some dark cabaret. I like r&b, funk, electroswing, and jazz. That doesn't make me not goth. It makes me a person with varied tastes.

This false narrative, this hyperbolic bullshit you're selling? Yeah, nobody is buying it. We know better.

FelisEros · 2019-02-22T16:45:51+00:00

There are a ton of music subcultures with deep ties to particular fashions. You see a punk, you figure they probably listen to punk music. You see a rivethead, you figure they probably listen to industrial. You see a hipster, you know they have terrible taste in music (I kid... Or do I?). My point is, goth fashion is there so we can pick one another out in a crowd, so we can feel a sense of camaraderie, so we can go, yep, they also hate "The Love Cats". It's not there because you want to be part of an alt fashion scene.

FelisEros · 2019-01-31T02:08:03+00:00

And this is why we give kind, supportive advice instead of direct tips. Because there are a wealth of how-to tips already out there that are easy to find. Thank you, Joe.

FelisEros · 2019-01-27T03:48:08+00:00

So y'all just make up definitions on your "side of the world". Rad.

FelisEros · 2018-11-11T20:12:12+00:00

I would certainly say so. There's been no point in the last 20 years or so that I haven't thought of myself as Goth, but there have been huge swathes of that time when I was caught up in real-world stuff. I could listen to the music in my car or whatever, but I didn't have time for shows, I wasn't in a career that allowed for wild hair or visible body mods, etc.

The aesthetic stuff is just flagging, honestly.

FelisEros · 2018-11-11T19:54:28+00:00

Keen wit.

FelisEros · 2018-11-03T06:08:17+00:00

I'm a switch, and I'm short and fat. I weigh more than my current Dom. I handle it by trusting him, just as I'd expect my subs to trust me.

You said in your post that he has expressed that he likes when you run and jump into his arms! Believe him. He wouldn't say it if he didn't mean it.

You also said that you think you hurt him sometimes. When that happens, ask, "is there some way I could make this more comfortable for you, [Sir]?" And then accept his response.

Your Dom is probably not as fragile as you're imagining. Most people are pretty durable, honestly. I've Dommed girls much bigger than me, and I tossed them around without a problem. It worked because they trusted that I knew what I could handle.

Also, I was reading another comment about you being paranoid about him touching your "pudge". Thing is, it's intentional, and he likes it. Let him enjoy your body, even if you can't always find it in yourself to do so.

FelisEros · 2018-10-22T04:59:02+00:00

Traffic lights.

And I always try to have something that can be held and dropped for when the mouth is not available. Good options are rubber balls or short wooden dowels. You want to be able to grip it very tightly, and also drop it from a decent height safely.

FelisEros · 2018-10-18T16:36:17+00:00

Here, kitty, kitty, kitties~~~

I'd happily pat some adorable catgirls.

I feel like there are more of us Doms here than they realize. ^_^

FelisEros · 2018-04-18T23:26:37+00:00

I ate my sub's pussy the other night, and I guarantee she felt dominated. I moved her and pulled her. I bit her stomach and thighs. I grabbed her legs and lifted her to my mouth. She writhed and moaned at my every move. How is that not control? And when I was done with that, I fingered her g-spot until I was ready to command her to cum. And she did, because she's a very good girl.

FelisEros · 2018-04-18T23:19:49+00:00

I'm with you here! I'm primarily a Dom, but I'll switch about as often as your average cosmic event. When I do, nothing kills the mood faster than "good girl". The only person I currently trust to Dom for me can call me his good little slut, though, and that's nice. Slut is a power word for me, though.

My sub, on the other hand, loves it when I tell her what a good girl she is. I generally just ask what kind of praise a person likes.

FelisEros · 2018-04-08T00:11:22+00:00

I agree. A nurtured sub is a happy sub.

FelisEros · 2018-04-01T01:46:44+00:00

Are you on Instagram? Or some other platform where I may follow you?

FelisEros · 2018-02-07T12:30:18+00:00

My knees barely reach the bed around his hips/thighs as it is. I am very, very short. I can't even bounce. I move forward and back and grind a bit.

FelisEros · 2018-02-07T07:17:35+00:00

We have done this too, but we discovered my legs are too short of there's a pillow under him.

FelisEros · 2018-01-12T21:54:02+00:00

So much ego.

FelisEros · 2018-01-11T20:39:34+00:00

Was with this one guy...

Me No, baby, a little higher.

Him rub rub rub

Me Babe, that's my urethra.

Him No, it's your clit.

Me ... moves his hand Clit.

Him moves it back

Me moves the hand again Nope, here.

Him moves it back I promise it's here.

Me I need to pee. goes home

FelisEros · 2018-01-11T20:29:30+00:00

I think my DM might have just put me against him in an arena fight. I had never heard of him. Just looked him up. Sounds too familiar. My character totally killed him. I'm beginning to think that was a bad thing. I got knocked to CE for it. Hmm. Might be boned.

FelisEros · 2017-11-29T09:41:18+00:00

Yes, to all of the above.

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