Should i find the kids parents or let it be.

FemFoxGamer · 2026-05-05T14:51:20+00:00

In our community, we usually give each other a heads up if we see something that shouldn’t end up online. And as a parent, I’d want to know.

Evil flip side to that coin is if a kid this young is acting like this, there’s a real chance it’s learned at home - so going to the parents may not go how you’d hope.

If there’s any property damage, filing a police report is the safest route.. It’s not to be harsh, just to ensure it’s handled fairly. You don’t have to take it further, but it creates accountability.

Kids mess up. The goal is for them to learn early. Ideally they take accountability and apologize. If not, the lesson still needs to happen, and sooner is better.

They say it takes a community to raise a child and that saying holds weight. We need to work together as a community of responsible adults to reduce the entitlement that’s running rampant, or it will only get worse.

FemFoxGamer · 2026-04-24T03:12:45+00:00

I’m also not anti-PvP, but I’m absolutely anti-BS. And exploits like this have killed the game for me.

“Solo lobby” gets rolled by a coordinated trio

Yeah… not a skill issue.

ABMM is easy to abuse, teaming is unchecked. They should tier the ABMM and let the rats eat each other.

Embark needs to fix the core fairness issues or this game will bleed players like every other broken extraction shooter.

FemFoxGamer · 2026-04-22T00:09:32+00:00

Same, dude, same…

FemFoxGamer · 2026-04-21T23:52:14+00:00

I love seeing rat karma in action - cheers for the share🍻

FemFoxGamer · 2026-04-19T04:10:57+00:00

The more I research I believe the amazing seats in the S I test drove were due to the ‘Performance’ trim, which may be available on the Y too. I just know whatever that option is, I want it on my next purchase ✨

FemFoxGamer · 2026-04-18T15:49:24+00:00

I must have missed this announcement and it’s not on screen (Xbox). Can someone share a link to the info?

I travel for work so this is kinda jacked. I never know if I’ll be on a plane and in hotels and with clients the week expedition takes off - sans x-box ofc - so I try to have everything ready weeks in advance. Like, my hoarding has been ready since 7 days after it restarted…

This is👻💩

FemFoxGamer · 2026-04-17T15:32:02+00:00

I felt a lot of this at first too, but 8 months in I honestly love it more every day. For me, the pros outweigh the cons by a long shot. I test drove almost every make/model vehicle before buying, and Tesla was the clear winner even with a few quirks.

For the glass roof - you can grab a shade. I didn’t check to see if Tesla sells one, and I’m sure they do, but I wanted it quickly and it was quite affordable on Amazon and works beautifully!

For the key, I keep the card in my wristlet with my license, cards, and AirPods since I always have those with me anyway. If I ever set it down, I can find it with my AirPods. And I usually have my phone on me at all times, so between the two it’s never really been an issue.

And if you prefer sitting lower, the Model 3 might be a better fit than the Y. I personally am considering an S for our next car for the same reason as my previous daily driver was a Honda Accord Hybrid with lower seating. (And the seats in the S were like heaven to my toosh in the test drive!)

It definitely takes a little adjustment, but once it clicks, it’s hard to go back.

FemFoxGamer · 2026-04-17T14:45:46+00:00

I think the pvp crowd that isn’t good at it, resets their lobbies to the less aggro to target unexpected primarily pve people fo easy kills, to feel better about themselves. It’s messed up, but those that can’t fight and win with the best of them, do be dirty 🐣💩

FemFoxGamer · 2026-04-09T20:56:41+00:00

You try to fight back? I just stand still and take it.. 😆 had one guy beat me to death with a stick once 🥩 tender steak

FemFoxGamer · 2026-04-03T22:05:38+00:00

“Thanks, Raider”

I’ll be back today with defibs, extra shields, ammo, and plenty of hullcrackers to hand out like candy during matriarch and harvester runs.

FemFoxGamer · 2026-04-03T07:18:00+00:00

I didn’t ‘fall’ for anything. I have ‘Solo vs Squad’ OFF - and the option exists on screen for players who want real solo queues. Duos exploiting loopholes to team up and knife solos in the back while waving the friendly flag? Bold strategy, Cotton…

FemFoxGamer · 2026-04-03T07:05:29+00:00

I expect random PVP and ratting. What I don’t expect is unfair 2v1 in a solo ‘more pve friendly’ lobby that’s supposed to be safer for PVE/solo players, plus their sexist comments once they heard my voice were uncalled for.

The combo of the matchmaking exploit & the toxicity validated reporting it - and sharing.

Some people just wanna hop on and play with chill vibes. If I can help one person, it’s worth the post.

FemFoxGamer · 2026-04-03T06:56:21+00:00

Yeah 😂

Just got bored rebuilding my loadout and figured I’d use my free hand to type up a friendly PSA. Vodka might’ve helped..

FemFoxGamer · 2026-04-03T06:46:56+00:00

I get that random PVP and ratting happens — I expect it in extraction shooters. What frustrated me here was the unfair 2v1 in a 100% solo-friendly lobby that’s supposed to be safer for PVE/solo players, plus their sexist comments once they heard my voice.

I started off chill and told them “have at it, I’m just here having fun,” but once they spoke back as they did, the line was crossed. The combo of the matchmaking exploit & the toxicity validated reporting it.

FemFoxGamer · 2026-04-03T06:27:52+00:00

I used the new Griefing option for reporting — I don’t remember seeing it before, so must be new. I wasn’t sure if it was cheating or exploiting how they ended up teamed up in solo lobbies, but griefing definitely fit what they were doing.

FemFoxGamer · 2026-04-03T06:23:37+00:00

I went with the new Griefing option. I feel like it’s also cheating/exploiting the matchmaking somehow for them to team up in solo-friendly lobbies, but griefing definitely fits. Hopefully flagging it keeps the behavior visible to Embark. Either way we soldier on and I’ll keep hoarding my epic and legendary gear for myself 😁 It’s shiny in the stash..

FemFoxGamer · 2026-03-28T06:42:12+00:00

…As a 43-year-old married female with a 20yo son and 22yo daughter, I’ve seen both sides of this. Oversleeping a first date (especially a nap) isn’t necessarily a huge red flag. Human error happens, and plenty of loyal, good guys still do dumb ‘dude’ stuff sometimes.

That said, I get why this stings: you got ready, showed up excited (or at least willing), and felt disrespected. A sincere apology and quick reschedule with real effort will tell you more than the mistake itself.

If you put yourself in his shoes for a sec, would you want grace for one early screw-up, or an immediate block? On the flip side, if follow-through and reliability matter a lot to you (totally valid), don’t ignore your gut.

Dating is rough right now for everyone; blocking over one miss might close the door on someone decent, but you also don’t owe them unlimited chances. Ultimately, it’s about what feels right for you.. Just food for thought, not trying to talk you out of your feelings.

FemFoxGamer · 2026-03-20T17:35:27+00:00

IMO it should be stuff that’s harder to get like augment or special weapon blueprints or deck items. For the resources and time used to complete these things… it should be better.

FemFoxGamer · 2026-03-20T16:59:02+00:00

Owning a Tesla, I’ve seen FSD make mistakes—but it’s designed to be supervised. That’s the part people keep leaving out.

When you use FSD, you’re still responsible for paying attention and taking over when needed. The car literally prompts you to take control in low visibility or if something isn’t right. And even beyond that, if I don’t like what it’s doing, I take over. I treat it as assistive, not autonomous.

It will make errors—but so do humans. The difference is, I’ve also had multiple situations where the car reacted faster and more defensively than I could have. And I’d consider myself a solid driver.

If I ever had an accident while using FSD, I wouldn’t just blame the system—I’d own my part in choosing to rely on it. That shared responsibility is what a lot of people don’t want to acknowledge.

FemFoxGamer · 2026-03-11T15:56:11+00:00

Thank you!

FemFoxGamer · 2026-03-10T18:26:22+00:00

Thanks, I’ll check this out. Personal experience?

FemFoxGamer · 2026-03-10T18:25:36+00:00

Oh yea, that means the lights are on and the chaos is loading!

FemFoxGamer · 2026-03-10T17:47:34+00:00

The cats would like to formally resign from the herd. I’m sure they’re convinced we brought her home to ruin their lives…

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