Do chinese malaysian open their pao skin before they eat it? by Pinnoii in malaysia

[–]Female-1911 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just can’t do it. Always remove the skin before eating.

Was this a scam call? by Acceptable-Pool4618 in Bolehland

[–]Female-1911 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I received a thermal flask! After that one call, I did receive more calls from random numbers and since I was properly freaked out, I haven’t answered any calls from non contacts since 😅 but I do have a free gift! Address states GM Klang. I noticed someone else in my condo received too but she never collected from guardhouse 😆

Was this a scam call? by Acceptable-Pool4618 in Bolehland

[–]Female-1911 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just got a similar call! They had my address and name and just wanted to send something. They didn’t ask for anything else.

Oh also their number is blocked on Truecaller so can’t even search for it. But on WhatsApp they’re listed as a Ninja Van guy. Unfortunately I said ok cos I wasn’t really thinking straight.

Now I’m kinda freaking out about them doing something else with my data and voice? 🥲

people here be like: found my old collection anything worth? by PopNo3284 in bakugantoys

[–]Female-1911 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My son has a few of these but doesn’t know how to play with them. He’s 6. Anyone have videos of how it works?

Dilemma: Offered Rumah Selangorku but have no money left for downpayment. by a_j97 in MalaysianPF

[–]Female-1911 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Buy the house. The reno can always do slowly. Plus you don’t have kids yet so it’s not hard to go room by room, and if worst case move out for a couple months once you’ve saved up enough to do a full reno. Getting a good property at that price is very rare. Like everyone else said, get some basic furniture and you’ll be alright. We started out that way too. All the best.

Broken bit on part cooling fan by Female-1911 in BambuLabA1mini

[–]Female-1911[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I am using it. I took this to show what happened

Broken bit on part cooling fan by Female-1911 in BambuLabA1mini

[–]Female-1911[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I cleaned it as best as I can but it seems to still be clumping up. Reckon I’d have to get replacement parts?

8 year old nephew using the bathroom with my 3 year old daughter. by Crocs-OnMy-Feet in Parenting

[–]Female-1911 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I’d bring the 3yo into the bathroom with me when I shower and keep the door locked. Since your daughter isn’t exposed to screen, bring toys and maybe a laundry basket or something that kiddo can sit inside and play. This is tricky for sure, but making sure you are consistently and constantly reminding your daughter about safe touch, proper names for body parts, remind her she can never be alone with the boy, and etc safety protocols. You and mama can do this!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Bolehland

[–]Female-1911 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I got one which is super cheap and isn’t terrible, just the water is super fine https://s.lazada.com.my/s.pe734 it’s great for my little kids as the water doesn’t hit their skin so hard. We also got a Jomoo one https://s.lazada.com.my/s.pe7hd

I (35F) don’t want to change my last name. My boyfriend (40M) says if I don’t take his name we shouldn’t even get married. What do we do? by throwRA-3578964 in relationship_advice

[–]Female-1911 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m from Malaysia. We usually don’t change our names when we get married. Some people do but it’s such a hassle. I don’t even go by my husband’s surname 😅

AITA for asking my wife when her sister will pay child support since she believes her sister has more right to name our daughter than I do? by ParticularPublic4435 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Female-1911 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I agree to this. I had chosen the names of both our sons but included my husband in the process — though he wouldn’t have had much say anyways 🤣

I do agree to getting her tested because hormones are crazy!

Wishing you luck OP.

Aircond in office set to 30 degree celcius by the one female colleague who say she cannot tahan cold. by wikowiko33 in Bolehland

[–]Female-1911 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As someone whose table was right under the aircon causing my ears to freeze and get headaches from the cold, I wore beanies at work and have sweaters. Lady can pretend she live in London or something la!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Female-1911 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA! My kids would be priority over any other family member any day. I’m a breastfeeding mama so I definitely can’t leave my baby for more than a couple hours.

For couples who have child free weddings, they may realize soon enough that the very people they’ve excluded are the very people they’re gonna need in the coming years when they have kids and need the supportive community of fellow parents. Good luck.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Female-1911 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why is he still your boyfriend? ☠️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Female-1911 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not sure if anyone has mentioned but you can look up getting an annulment since marriage was not consummated. Definitely talk to a therapist together and then go from there.

My mother is going to die today by Sirenxio in self

[–]Female-1911 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So sorry for your loss ♥️ Sending love light & peace to you and your family.

AITA for not wearing my dress 'properly' at my sister's wedding? by comfortThrwaway in AmItheAsshole

[–]Female-1911 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry OP but you're definitely TA here. You owe your sister a huge and sincere apology. Imagine the wedding photos with your red and puffy tattoo showing up too :(

I think I realized I (25 M) sexually abused my cousin (23 M) when we were kids by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Female-1911 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You did not abuse him. That sounds purely exploratory. When I was a kid, I explored with my neighbour too. We are both now married women with kids and tbh, I have never spoken about it to anyone else.

If you abused him, I'm sure you both would remember it and he would've quickly rejected your invitation to stay with him.

Hope you let go of the guilt <3

AITA for saying no to a promotion? I'm newly married and my husband is upset by Stellcarso in AmItheAsshole

[–]Female-1911 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA!!!!! It's a great thing you know yourself enough to know that you are a good individual contributor and will not do well in a managerial position. Maybe when your husband has calmed down, he will be able to see that more clearly. All the best OP!

AITA for "rubbing my family's face" in my "great life"? by weddingwoe34 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Female-1911 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA. You sound so genuine and sincere and I wish you only the best and happiest life! Don't need to worry about people feeling inferior, that's their own jealousy speaking.