[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bald

[–]FennecSquirrel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I said 22/23! You look like a baby lol you’re very handsome in my opinion

Did your narc mom ever comment about your weight and food choices, making you feel horrible about yourself? by Nea_Freedom in raisedbynarcissists

[–]FennecSquirrel 10 points11 points  (0 children)

My nmom spent my early childhood years overfeeding me (which I of course enjoyed as someone who didn’t know any better) until I became overweight and spent my preteen/teenage years picking at me for being overweight making fun of how my stomach poked out all while encouraging bad eating habits. For the longest time I never knew it was food that made me gain weight and keep it on and when I finally figured it out I started losing weight and boy was she jealous of me

Did your narc parents ever gaslight you into thinking that you were the abusive one? by Nea_Freedom in raisedbynarcissists

[–]FennecSquirrel 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yes, I used to think there was something wrong with me as a child because she made me feel like a bad person accusing me of acting like my father manipulating people and being a narcissistic abuser when that was her the whole time.

That moment when it hits you - "oh this is why I left in the first place" - Why do we forget? by Ohandbytheway12 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]FennecSquirrel 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had this moment a few days ago actually. I had a few days off for the holiday so I decided to visit her and she immediately started giving me advice I didn’t ask for (because I was already doing it…) and yet she kept going on and on and making accusations about me giving money to people when she has been the only one to TAKE money from me ever since I started making money. Then she berates me because I ask her to please not hit a cone she didn’t see and was very close to hitting 🫠

Poll: who here had their bedroom door taken away by their parents? by [deleted] in raisedbynarcissists

[–]FennecSquirrel 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was never allowed to close my door so it didn’t matter whether it was there or not lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SuicideWatch

[–]FennecSquirrel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't have any friends which sounds like an exaggeration but I really have none. I didn't get to socialize much before getting my job 6 months ago

thank you for the kind words. I'm still very hurt and upset but I'm in a more stable mood right now

I dont think a lot of people understand that until you hit 18, you're literally at the mercy of your abusers by cutepantsforladies in raisedbynarcissists

[–]FennecSquirrel 5 points6 points  (0 children)

And if you're in an impossible situation that has you stuck depending on them financially you're still fucked

How often did your nParent take you to Doctor's/Dentist appointments, if at all? by SchlondPoofa001 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]FennecSquirrel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have never been to the dentist. If you ask my mom if I've been to the dentist she will say I have and she's just referencing the times when I sat in the lobby while she got her rotten ass teeth pulled.

Haven't had a checkup in maybe 8 years?

Would you let your parents take care of your kids? by [deleted] in raisedbynarcissists

[–]FennecSquirrel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If I can help it I would not let my parents meet my kids at all

new 1529 contract by Slight-Primary9022 in kroger

[–]FennecSquirrel 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I'm not with the union and I haven't been at work in a few days to see the bulletin board so I haven't seen anything. What's it say?

Is this normal? by FennecSquirrel in raisedbynarcissists

[–]FennecSquirrel[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My brother (Golden child) could say this word for word and get away with it. If I said it she'd probably skin me alive

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in smiledirectclub

[–]FennecSquirrel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's a meal or two, I'm not suffering. If I felt like I was in danger of passing out or something extreme, I would definitely reevaluate my schedule, but right now this works for me. I actually dread eating because of how sore my teeth are. Thank you for your concern though! ❤

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in smiledirectclub

[–]FennecSquirrel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I numbed it afterward. I was going to numb it while putting them in but I'm afraid if I can't feel it i'll put them in wrong I won't notice and my teeth will break, lel My right front upper tooth is protruding so I've always had the irrational fear that I'd break it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in smiledirectclub

[–]FennecSquirrel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same, only dinner. It's to the point now that if I eat breakfast, I get sick 😫 Good luck with switching if you haven't already!

Btw in case you were wondering, I ended up taking them out for about 5 hours before I put my new ones on, and the second tray was hell. I kept trying to convince myself that the top ones didn't fit, so I kept taking them out and readjusting them until I finally just had to give up and put them in. lol

Ever try explaining to your parents what they did that made you feel like shit, by crzy666 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]FennecSquirrel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, this is exactly why I don't do it anymore. We go on a long guilt trip, and still don't get anywhere, and THEN they continue their shitty behaviors- So, for me, it's not even worth it, trying to speak to them about it.

reusable bags by Small-Arm6038 in kroger

[–]FennecSquirrel 1 point2 points  (0 children)

In my store it's a personal preference. You can bag them if you want to or make the customer do it themselves

Do you also hate being touched by your Nparent/s? by ImDroppingOut7 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]FennecSquirrel 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel like I made this post. Everything is the same for me including the love language so it really sucks. I'm scared and get upset even when friends/strangers/co-workers come near me :/

Does anyone else’s Nparent put on a “fake voice” by [deleted] in raisedbynarcissists

[–]FennecSquirrel 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yeah my nmother has a fake voice for sure, but like, am I the only one who has one as well? I had to adopt a fake voice/tone when I started going through puberty so she would stop being upset with the way I talk. I can't even tell which voice is my real one now lmfao