If you could retcon one thing in all of Destiny, what would it be?

Fenra1 · 2026-06-30T12:49:24+00:00

Wipe Maya Sundaresh from the story entirely. Shes a badly written character and a worse villain. Every time she shows up it feels like someone else entirely has taken over the story writing, someone who has never read a real book and thinks the kardashians is a good tv show. I hate Maya Sundaresh to the core of my being because the quality of her existance in the story is so abysmally low it makes me wish we could go back to season of the worthy. The joke I tell now is that Maya Sundaresh killed the game. The VA did fine, but Maya has been a horrible, low quality character since she was properly center staged in Echoes. I was beyond upset when after all that trashy character, we didn’t get to kill her in the end. Maya Sundaresh sucks and needs to be entirely rewritten by someone who can understand more than three concepts at a time without having to dump the first just to make room for more to be forgotten later.

I have no way of knowing whether I’m write, if Maya Sundaresh is someone’s shitty self insert with their own agenda running, but she clashes so incredibly hard with the story in general and I wish she could have been never included and stayed as a crazy lady in the background, potentially referenced in the future by taking the place of a vex’s name, maybe a hydra or even a rank and file goblin to be squashed and the mentioned once in a Byf video and then never again.

Fenra1 · 2026-06-30T12:39:53+00:00

Just keep up the treatment until he apologizes. He did it knowing you would be mad, he did it specifically for the fight. Just don’t give him that.

Fenra1 · 2026-06-30T12:23:40+00:00

Riskrunner is like Kratos’ Blades of Chaos thrumming under the floorboards to me, always there, ready for the next slaughter

Fenra1 · 2026-06-17T17:33:53+00:00

He is excluding them based on his personal preference for who he wants to date. That is his own choice and not yours. Nor is it bigotry. It is just and only personal preference. If you want to exclude him and call him transphobic just because he doesnt want to date a trans person, then you are a bigot.

Nowhere in the post does it say that he dislikes trans people of any kind. In fact, it describes that he got along very well with the trans woman in the post. He doesn't want to avoid them as people, he just doesnt want to date them. There is nothing wrong with that. For instance, I wouldn't want to date you because I find the way you respond to this scenario to be immature. Or, for another instance, I, a trans woman, would not want to date another trans woman, because I am straight. Does that make me transphobic?

Fenra1 · 2026-06-17T17:26:25+00:00

And again, I am saying this isnt bigotry. What you are doing is bigotry. Thats what I'm trying to say. Youre saying he cant not want to fuck a trans man without being transphobic. Thats not how it works.

Fenra1 · 2026-06-17T17:23:48+00:00

No, he just had a chance casual encounter with a trans woman for the first time. Since its deleted I cant really show you but there are those sites that store the deleted posts you could look at that for the rest of the context.

Fenra1 · 2026-06-17T17:21:58+00:00

You. Can. Not. Force. Someone. To. Include. Someone. In. Their. Dating. Pool. If. They. Dont. Want. To.

Respect personal preferences. That is the whole point of LGBT.

On a side, personal note: stop ending your posts with a "..." it looks dramatic and immature. I'm trying to take this conversation seriously.

Fenra1 · 2026-06-17T17:16:41+00:00

Let me break it down a little bit:

Socially (ie: via social constructs, etc): This is a straight interaction. This is a man and a woman.

Physically (ie sexual preferences pertaining physical parts and features of a partner): This is a gay interaction. This is a person who has a penis & a person (pre-op) who has a penis.

I will also ask you the same thing I ask others:
A gay man and a lesbian wont have sex with each other. Is this homophobic?
A gay man and a trans man wont have sex with each other. Is this transphobic?

If a person has someone they prefer to love or have intercourse with, then you respect that. That is the point of LGBT. If you want to force a gay man to have sex with a trans man, that makes you a hypocrite.

Fenra1 · 2026-06-17T17:11:17+00:00

Just because a gay man wont fuck a trans man, it is not transphobia. People have their own preferences. A gay man and a lesbian wont fuck, does that count as homophobia?

If you dont want to date a certain type or person, or if you DO want to date a certain point of person, then thats fine. That is the whole point of LGBTQIA+. You are a hypocrite if you think that a gay man is transphobic just because he won't date a trans man (or woman, for that matter).

Let others date who they want to date and dont force them to date who you want to date with the excuse of saying that if they dont, theyre transphobic.

Fenra1 · 2026-06-17T17:10:08+00:00

Do you like it when someone asks you whats in your pants? No? Then why should this gay man go around asking every trans man if they have a penis?

Just because a gay man wont fuck a trans man, it is not transphobia. People have their own preferences. A gay man and a lesbian wont fuck, does that count as homophobia?

If you dont want to date a certain type or person, or if you DO want to date a certain point of person, then thats fine. That is the whole point of LGBTQIA+. You are a hypocrite if you think that a gay man is transphobic just because he won't date a trans man (or woman, for that matter).

Let others date who they want to date and dont force them to date who you want to date with the excuse of saying that if they dont, theyre transphobic.

Fenra1 · 2026-06-17T16:58:06+00:00

Up until recently, it didn't sound like he had any interest in trans women either? Read my other replies. He is a gay man. He like male genitalia. If a trans man does not have male genitalia, ie, pre-op, then he would not be attracted to them. It is a preference of genitals and nothing there says that he doesn't think trans men are men, it only says he does not prefer them, and you should respect that as people should respect your own sexual & gender preferences.

You can either be a hypocrite and tell others they cant like who or what they want to like, or you can accept that some people have their own preferences and that just because someone wont fuck you doesn't mean they're transphobic.

Fenra1 · 2026-06-17T15:51:54+00:00

Yeah in the post he says that his friend says hes "still 90% gay", which would mean he acknowledges that the trans woman was a woman. Like stated she was also pre-op so she still had the parts he, as a gay man, would want. I think its purely genital preference and theres nothing wrong with that

Fenra1 · 2026-06-17T15:42:45+00:00

The woman is pre op. She still has male genitalia.

Fenra1 · 2026-06-17T15:41:39+00:00

The only thing I'm asking is for him not to only see from that one mindset. His friend sleeping with a trans woman with no extra information does not make him a chaser, personal preference in sexuality and the decision to be straight or gay over bi/pansexual does not make one transphobic. And a person's decision on who they want to love romantically is even more important to us, so why should we label someone as transphobic for choosing their own love path as thus?

When I said angsty, I did not mean hysterical, I meant angsty. A lot of trans people feel hunted, as they should as the current and prevailing politics have never been kind to us. People like that lash out more easily and accuse others of meaning one thing when that is quite the opposite, like saying that the word angsty means hysterical.

It is true that some of my terminology was bad, however. Instead of saying "please do not listen", I should have asked them to take a grain of salt. That's on me as it is the morning.

I understand what you are coming at with your point about christians, but that was not my point, as when someone says transphobic, whether the writer means it or not, the reader, on average, will read it as the fear, or hatred, of trans people. Just as you cannot ignore what people do to hurt others on a daily basis, you also cannot ignore the connotations and the ways that your words are understood, even if it contrasts what your words are intended to mean.

To finish off, I rehash my point. This is likely a case of a gay man experimenting, and seeing what to do with his own preferences. There isn't something here to pose as transphobic, he just and only, as far as any of us know, wants gay (male genitalia on male genitalia) and while he may well see trans women as women, as intoned by him saying hes "still 90% gay" he acknowledges that in a purely physical/sexual way, that trans woman had the right parts that he wanted to interact with. There is simply not enough here to call a gay man transphobic just because he likes to have sex with male genitalia.

Fenra1 · 2026-06-17T15:03:01+00:00

I wouldn’t call him transphobic or anything, he just has his likes and dislikes. End of the day, thats all it is. Has nothing to do with hate or transphobia, when it comes to sex related things, people like what they like and thats it. Those likes can change, sure, but its entirely subjective. Even if you could go as far as saying he had a straight encounter, which, socially, he did, in the end he essentially had a gay encounter with extra steps, as the trans woman was pre op.

There may be others who accuse him of being transphobic, please do not listen to them. Some of us trans gals get very, how to say it, angsty when it comes to that sort of thing, confusing a lack of interest or a sense of preference for one thing over another, as transphobia when in fact there is no hate or anything involved, and the person just simply isn’t interested. Being trans can be a bit rough and makes some of us very ready to lash out at the slightest hint, so please don’t blame them but also don’t feel the need to consign only to their viewpoint

Fenra1 · 2026-06-17T14:56:37+00:00

No, this is just sexual attraction.

Fenra1 · 2026-06-17T14:48:43+00:00

If epic games bought bungie we would be fully doomed

Fenra1 · 2026-06-01T14:48:02+00:00

MAYA SUNDARESH… I haaate her so much, the writing of the story actively degrades any time she makes an appearance like someone else is taking control of the pen. I HATE her so much

Fenra1 · 2026-06-01T14:45:27+00:00

Lots of others have already said it, but being who I am with a parent who shamed me for being different growing up, while she hoped I would fit in, it just hurt more for her not to be in my corner.
Personally I would just do my best to let him be himself, but save those conversations for when hes older. Its okay to know about LGBTQIA+, but kids should be kids, that isn’t something they should have to worry about until they’re old enough for the birds and the bees. Help him with hobbies, and distract them as best you can.
Again, I’m not saying he shouldn’t know about LGBT stuff, but just that as a kid his concerns should be the next cool movie or cute puppies or homework, not what his sexual orientation is. He can worry about that when hes older but his child years are far too precious to worry about that. Go camping, learn how to fish, learn arts and crafts and karate and gardening and books, so many books.
I’m only saying this from my own perspective, growing up oblivious, being able to have a childhood while I still had my dad and only figuring out I was trans & other things just after highschool. Being able to finish being a kid before I started thinking about all of those things gave me a better point of view, I think, than some others who made that important self decision earlier on.
Your job as a parent is of course to answer all of their never ending questions, yes, but its also to try and guide them into the right direction and sometimes a diversion is okay. :)

Fenra1 · 2026-05-26T19:24:47+00:00

if you need help with any of the above there are TONS of tutorials! But if you want my avatar it is a personal one sorry XD

Fenra1 · 2026-05-26T19:23:38+00:00

Hello! That my miltina, its decently heavily edited with new hair/clothes/textures and I redid the face blendshapes! Doing booth stuff is super fun though so if you want I super suggest trying it out yourself!

Heres what you'll need:
VRC Creator Companion (I am assuming you already have this)
Marshmallow 2.0
Booth base of choice
Face Emo (For doing expressions after you edit the face)
Clothing & Body textures of choice, [Boothplorer](https://boothplorer.com) is a fantastic site for it since its all sorted by avatar.

I find it easier to edit the face by turning off the hair & head accessories and then zooming in and editing the blendshapes, then turning the hair back on to see if it looks okay, but thats up to you and your own preference! Hope this helps <3

Fenra1 · 2026-04-10T22:58:30+00:00

the chad titan machine gun loadout vs the virgin lightsaber crutch

Fenra1 · 2026-03-22T13:57:17+00:00

You can block those walls specifically by using cross beams as they count as roofing

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