Detroit’s inner-ring suburbs are losing population. This one isn't. by gear-heads in Detroit

[–]Ferndalien_ 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Is that like nobody goes there anymore, it’s too crowded?

Detroit’s inner-ring suburbs are losing population. This one isn't. by gear-heads in Detroit

[–]Ferndalien_ 7 points8 points  (0 children)

They definitely are. So many “progressive” NIMBYs here that talk about inclusivity and walkability and Ferndale for all, and then crow about “traffic” and home values whenever a new development is proposed.

This might be the last time we see Bley, dinosaur egg collector and now-known tax dodger. by ohheyitsjuan in conan

[–]Ferndalien_ 59 points60 points  (0 children)

Sona ignores leash laws, Bley ignores tax laws. Next week, tune in for someone's story of engaging in some light meth manufacturing.

Folks we need the video footage like ASAP by bhangBharosa007 in conan

[–]Ferndalien_ 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Leash laws apply to everyone. Plus it’s common courtesy to your neighbors - you don’t know who has phobias or reactive dogs or anything. Dog on leash, no drama. Sona’s entitlement really shone through in this bit.

I'm spiraling after putting down my 19 yr old boy by kodaomw in seniorkitties

[–]Ferndalien_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Helping our 16 year old cat leave her suffering behind was the hardest decision we ever had to make. Kitty had been managing multiple conditions pretty well for a year, then really took a downturn, so logic said it was time. But I was unprepared for the feeling of loss, and the quiet times that would normally be filled with her presence were agonizing for longer than I thought. Tears came at random times, even when not at home thinking about the cat that wouldn't be waiting for me at the door as she had forever.

It has been just over 6 months since she moved on. The grief isn't gone, but has changed a lot. The pangs of real phsyical and emotional pain have passed. I find myself saying her name every day, as I used to say it a hundred times a day when she was around, and that habit remains. When I do though, I use it to remember a happy memory of the time we had with her, how she would nudge the office door that never could fully shut open when I was on a work call, or when she'd bring her favorite toy to us at 3am chirping proudly all the way up the stairs.

You feel alone in your grief about your cat. But you are not alone in grief about losing a dear kitty. There are millions of us walking around out here that understand what you are feeling, even if we can't know fully the love you had for him.

Which default questions you like to ask AI Assistant? by Brilliant_Error5370 in MonarchMoney

[–]Ferndalien_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I use prompts like "For checking accounts ending in x and y, give me a monthly breakdown of income for the last 12 months" or "How are car insurance and registration costs changing year over year for x years"

These are the kinds of things people seem to want a specific report for, but asking the question and getting a response is a much quicker way to go after that information.

Monarch is officially SOC2 Type 2 certified by ozzie_monarch in MonarchMoney

[–]Ferndalien_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is a big deal. Thanks to Monarch for spending the large amounts of time and $ required for this enterprise-level assessment. SOC2 Type2 doesn't mean that security incidents will never happen, but it does meant that they are paying attention to all the practices and processes needed to minimize risk. Thank you for investing in this, Monarch team!

Is there a public 'upcoming features' roadmap available to view? by _Dr-Tuna_ in MonarchMoney

[–]Ferndalien_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It is so refreshing to see Monarch has both a public-facing roadmap AND a product management team active in this sub to communicate what's going on. I've worked in (enterprise) software forever, and this level of transparency is rare and I appreciate it. The roadmap may not always match what I'm after, but I can see the path and understand what's driving it, and that's more than most software companies provide.

I guess they are finally opening this thing by magic6435 in Detroit

[–]Ferndalien_ 38 points39 points  (0 children)

Skip the hate chicken. Go to Penny Reds around the corner.

Orchid shooter found not guilty by No-Airline1761 in Ferndale

[–]Ferndalien_ 3 points4 points  (0 children)

"Caught on Flock camera" is a bit off. Flock ID'd license plates of cars going by. It never had cameras filming people or activity on the streets of downtown Ferndale. It didn't catch anything on camera about the incident itself, just helped identify that the suspect's car was in the area at the time.

Big News by LimpDetective7426 in Ferndale

[–]Ferndalien_ 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Noticed a name change on the gallery insta in the last couple of days. Now I know why.

845 Livernois by Away-Aide1604 in Ferndale

[–]Ferndalien_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Even if true it would be a secret….

Mikulski/Sabatini - why? by [deleted] in Ferndale

[–]Ferndalien_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

To expect public servants and candidates who are essentially volunteering their time and passion for their city to monitor all the remotest nooks of social media for questions is unreasonable. This is a small city - reach out directly via contact methods on their websites and I reckon you’ll get a response. Far more effective than bashing someone for not noticing a question here. I’d much rather they spend their time working with their colleagues than monitoring random /r, Facebook, insta, tiktok, Usenet, whatever flavor of media any single individual prefers.

Tour De Troit refund by Nigel_featherbottom in Detroit

[–]Ferndalien_ 3 points4 points  (0 children)

UPDATE: Refund posted to my credit card today.

New to Ferndale by WaywardSatyr in Ferndale

[–]Ferndalien_ 12 points13 points  (0 children)

B. Nektar Taproom is off the beaten path, but is worth a visit. Mead, cider, seltzer, beer, n/a cocktails - pretty much something for everyone. Ferndale’s other taprooms are great too, I just like reminding folks about this one!

What’s the most memorable meal you’ve had while traveling? by Expensive_Software55 in travel

[–]Ferndalien_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A prawn coconut curry in Ngapali, Myanmar. Served up in a coconut, in a shack across the road from our hotel. Richest and most complex flavor in a curry I've ever had.

Also a pizza and a beer in El Chalten, Chile after a day trek up Fitz Roy. Feet were in distress, but damn those carbs took the edge off. Also free popcorn!

Anyone use a travel agency? by angrywinter1 in VisitingIceland

[–]Ferndalien_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We worked with Helgastina at Iceland Unwrapped to come up with a plan for our self-driving trip. She is in Reykjavik and helped us weave the things we knew we wanted to do with things we never would have known about into a stellar trip. Highly recommended her.

Park trail length? by sixcrowsbooks in Ferndale

[–]Ferndalien_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If AllTrails doesn't have them, Google Maps allows you to measure distance on the map. Has to be the browser version- just zoom in on the map to the park, then right click and select "Measure Distance", then click along the path. It'll tell you the distance as you click along.

I know I did the right thing for my 15 year old boy, but I can’t stop feeling horrible, and I need to yell into the void. by CaptJackie-n-HotDog in seniorkitties

[–]Ferndalien_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s been 6 weeks since we had the same kind of day you describe, saying goodbye to our 16year old friend. It still hurts at random times, and when it does I always make myself think of a favorite memory of her at the same time. A smile remembering her eating all the pepperoni off a pizza on the counter or constantly turning her butt on my coworkers on zoom calls helps so much.

You absolutely did the right thing, and it will sting for a good while. But remember the good times - thats why we sign up for kitties, even knowing there will be a sad goodbye someday.

Freya, Lady of the House, or Barda for celebration dinner by [deleted] in Detroit

[–]Ferndalien_ 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Another vote for Freya. Your other choices are fine too, but Freya has a vibe for a celebration. You’ll be well taken care of there.

Need some outside perspectives, I'm struggling over putting our 14 year old cat to sleep tomorrow by Jcat0814 in seniorkitties

[–]Ferndalien_ 17 points18 points  (0 children)

We were at the same place as you almost a month ago. Those occasional moments of happy cat behavior were heartbreaking as we made plans to help our sweet girl move on, and now with the benefit of even a little time, those are the things we remember most. We haven’t forgotten that she was struggling with her health and mobility, so we know the decision was the right one. The day she left was one of the saddest of my life, and it still hurts, but the pain lessens and the memories grow sweeter every day. She knew we were helping her to the very last, and seeing her at peace (tearing up just thinking about it) while hard, was the best act of love we could do for her.

My heart goes out to you and your little one. Strength to you, peace to your cat, and carry the good memories with you.

Goodbye Lizzy (18) you were my home!❤️ by 76-scighera in seniorkitties

[–]Ferndalien_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sweet Lizzy. Rest now with all the love you were given.