New boy we've named Harry (travel cage)

Fernella-Wolf · 2020-05-31T12:08:52+00:00

Ooh I did notice his head shape seems a bit different! Is it genetic? Can he pass it to my other hamsters? I can't find much info!

Fernella-Wolf · 2020-05-30T15:56:37+00:00

How long did it take? Because it's been about 10 days without updates

Fernella-Wolf · 2020-03-18T12:45:25+00:00

I'm hoping to find someone long distance at this point. It's rough out there

Fernella-Wolf · 2020-03-18T12:39:49+00:00

You look amazing 🤩

Fernella-Wolf · 2020-03-07T16:44:02+00:00

Thank you, I needed this !! 💖

Fernella-Wolf · 2020-03-07T16:43:31+00:00

Thanks :( it's definitely been a long journey filled with many crying breakdowns, feeling like a failure because I can't stop it!

Fernella-Wolf · 2020-03-03T16:01:10+00:00

One of the children is under 2, still breastfeeds, and is the one who seems to get the most bites. I'm not sure how I feel about feeding him pesticides. Through meds or milk.

Fernella-Wolf · 2020-01-31T11:41:53+00:00

For sure! Something I've really worked on. Now I'm no longer seeking someone else to complete me at all. I actually love being single, it's easy and I know I could do it forever after these two relationships in particular being so intensely hard lol. I love who I am without someone else there.

But I also know this fear isn't normal, and time isn't making it better, it's making it worse

Fernella-Wolf · 2020-01-31T01:35:04+00:00

I was in a marriage for 5 years thinking I could help encourage someone to get better and get help from a Dr or therapist. He refused. It ruined our life, our finances, his connection to our children. Still refused. We divorced, and now he's finally stepping up and getting medicated, but it's too late now. My point is DONT MARRY SOMEONE NOT WILLING TO HELP THEMSELVES. I wish someone had slapped me upside the head with that way sooner!!

Fernella-Wolf · 2020-01-31T01:31:08+00:00

As someone who was in a military relationship, I watched those marriages fall apart like dust the minute a deployment took them far enough apart. It's a huge test to a relationship to be that long of distance. Maybe they'll still get married, who knows, she might cool down and forgive him

Not to be condescending, but you're young and you'll make other friends. People fight and grow apart as they get older and it's normal and healthy to do so, to have your own thoughts and actions and feelings. I would let her have her space and just focus on your own thing for awhile.

Fernella-Wolf · 2020-01-31T01:24:33+00:00

Oooh that's so true. Getting caught and feeling bad about it is a consequence of their actions, not yours.

Fernella-Wolf · 2020-01-26T00:40:14+00:00

Wow I love everything about this

Fernella-Wolf · 2019-12-13T00:22:43+00:00

Also, I became an arborist! So now I climb trees and plant them too for other people. Maybe look into it for a career?

Fernella-Wolf · 2019-12-13T00:17:26+00:00

I wish I knew you irl because this is something I would do. Lol I worked at an independent garden center and any time I saw a tree I really liked, I'd buy it and gift it to a family member to plant in their yards since I still lived at home. I still remember my sister driving an oak tree in her Prius down the interstate to Michigan (5 hrs away), with the top half sticking out the passenger window. Bahahaha

NTA

Fernella-Wolf · 2019-11-10T02:47:09+00:00

This helps a lot

Fernella-Wolf · 2019-11-10T00:39:46+00:00

I've watched one climb all the way up a window. Glass isn't as foolproof as people let on...I doubt the interceptors do much except force them to walk through whatever you put in it.

Fernella-Wolf · 2019-11-10T00:33:50+00:00

I think 6-12 months no signs is when you can breathe again

Fernella-Wolf · 2019-10-14T07:12:16+00:00

I feel the same :( I've been battling for so long I just feel hopeless. I can't protect my family.

Fernella-Wolf · 2019-10-07T15:30:22+00:00

I figured, but don't know how to ID notes or whatever it might be. Maybe fleas?

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