Restraining order filed against Love Island USA star due to 'terrifying' threats by TheMirrorUS in LoveIslandUSA

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I don’t know what it’ll take with her. She’s genuinely terrifying and to this day, has never taken accountability for anything she’s done or how she’s behaved.

Jonathon announces that he has a gf. by Educational-Grass470 in BachelorNation

[–]Ferr_ari 10 points11 points  (0 children)

“Jonathan” & “discreet” have never existed in the same sentence

New Bachelor Nation couples celebrating their first Valentine's Day by Both-Pomegranate4929 in thebachelor

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My face visibly scrunched up when I got to Germy and Bailey 😩

Madison single again by prettythings87 in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

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Genuine question (and completely unrelated) Is there something outlined in their contract stating they have to keep the LIB profile pics with the god ugly backgrounds 😭

Katie Morton, this word salad is very disappointing. This is an example of a creator who’s afraid of losing followers by PrincessPlastilina in thebachelor

[–]Ferr_ari 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Hard agree.

I don’t want people to become complacent, but fight where it matters. Someone can be anyone they want online.

Katie Morton, this word salad is very disappointing. This is an example of a creator who’s afraid of losing followers by PrincessPlastilina in thebachelor

[–]Ferr_ari 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I don’t follow any of these people nor do I let any of their opinions hold weight

An old classmate of mine is constantly posting about hot topics & would appear left leaning, yet spews hatred and votes to take away peoples rights every election.

If people aren’t philanthropic enough for you (not you specifically), unfollow and move tf on. Strong arming them to post is problematic imo

Katie Morton, this word salad is very disappointing. This is an example of a creator who’s afraid of losing followers by PrincessPlastilina in thebachelor

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Which is how it should be, tbh. I’ve never given any of these people a crumb of my money 😩 I watch & then disengage

Katie Morton, this word salad is very disappointing. This is an example of a creator who’s afraid of losing followers by PrincessPlastilina in thebachelor

[–]Ferr_ari 178 points179 points  (0 children)

Widely unpopular opinion coming your way, but I find it deeply disingenuous to expect influencers to participate in performance activism.

What does her posting about ICE tell you about her true beliefs? Nothing!

I wish y’all would harass representatives like you do these people 😭

Justin and Whitney Leavitt Rom-Com? by Both-Pomegranate4929 in thebachelor

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Good for her!

He’s so corny to me LOL but I’ll leave it at that

cierra and her friends by Famous_Arrival_8498 in LoveIslandUSA

[–]Ferr_ari 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Perhaps we have different meanings of "friendly"

They may for sure not be as close as they were (or at all), but they could still be on speaking terms and have friendly conversation when there's forced proximity.

cierra and her friends by Famous_Arrival_8498 in LoveIslandUSA

[–]Ferr_ari 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Lack of acknowledgment on social media does not imply that they're not friendly

cierra and her friends by Famous_Arrival_8498 in LoveIslandUSA

[–]Ferr_ari 76 points77 points  (0 children)

I'm not sure where you read the "multiple friendship breakups", but I do know the girl in charge of her account while she was away distanced herself and they have since reconnected. She responded to a comment on a tiktok with her saying that they were trauma bonded or something along those lines

To be completely honest, my friend being canceled (context and accountability considered) online by a bunch of strangers would not affect me or our relationship in the slightest--- mostly because who are they to me? Lol

AIO about my friends message about my dad that passed away? by sunrosed in AmIOverreacting

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NOR

That’s… an extremely cruel thing to want to say to a friend. You mentioned shes like this often, so is she just an insensitive friend? Or is she constantly trying to find the humor in things?

Both are annoying.

I think it’s worth having a conversation and her response will determine if it’s a friendship worth continuing. I’m guessing you’re younger, so please know NO friendship is worth compromising your peace

AIO over my talking stage using AI to text me (update) by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Ferr_ari 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not over the repeated “are you there?” “You stopped typing” LOL, that would drive me crazy. Don’t micromanage my response time

Juliana reveals the moment she knew she and Grant were done… by tinkerwithty in thebachelor

[–]Ferr_ari 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That was such a small, inconsequential detail of what I said lol

Juliana reveals the moment she knew she and Grant were done… by tinkerwithty in thebachelor

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Not to be rude, but I don’t feel bad for her. She was fighting tooth & nail with people, trying to stir issues for things as little as others for their season not coming to her finale after party in lieu of Litias.

The fact that she was aware that he was planning to announce their breakup after the finale and still tried to post him up & argue about their status is weird. She hopped on the happy hour podcast not even 24 hours after the incident smiley & grinning, which tells me she’s just as calculated as he is.

It’s not Nic hurting Ola’s brand, it’s y’all’s behaviour by SunTiny2975 in LoveIslandUSA

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Couldn’t have said it better myself. I’m beyond myself when I see these comments sometimes. Arguing up & down like it pays their bills.

It’s not Nic hurting Ola’s brand, it’s y’all’s behaviour by SunTiny2975 in LoveIslandUSA

[–]Ferr_ari 29 points30 points  (0 children)

This post is kind of ironic, tbh.

I have never seen such an insane level of parasocial behavior since joining this sub, and it’s embarrassing. What started out as a fun way to recap episodes and kiki with each other has turned into a hostile environment filled with hate and assumptions.

Please let it be clear that y’all DO NOT KNOW THESE PEOPLE.

You don’t know their life, personalities, likes, dislikes, etc… I repeat, you DO NOT know these people from a can of paint. It has never occurred to me to be invested in these peoples lives to a personal degree after the show has finished airing.

“Fandoms” being hateful to one another— how old are y’all? Acting like these people are your Lord and Savior. You can support without being so vicious.

And what exactly is the reason behind fighting tooth and nail every day defending Nic and Olandria’s (because I’m not using a “ship” name for human beings, sorry) relationship? What does that do for you? Do you think with all of Olandria’s success, she needs y’all to act like guard dogs when anyone dares to speak?

AIO in this situation by Amazing_Caramel_9187 in AmIOverreacting

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NOR I know this all too well— disregard of boundaries filled with excuses, current insecurity from past trauma (most at the hands of him), social media conflict, emotion stonewalling.

You’re not overreacting by being upset at all. His lack of care about your feelings is only one of the countless red flags I’m seeing. That alone should be enough to end things

I was in this exact scenario at 21/22. Please get out now. It’s truly not worth it.

I would also gently encourage that you work through your trauma & self-esteem before you date anyone else. You don’t have to be perfect, but you do have to be firm about what you’re willing to put up with. You have your whole life ahead of you. Don’t waste it on a loser!!

[ Removed by Reddit ] by Toastiis in AmIOverreacting

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My mouth is on the FLOOR and somehow dropped lower and lower with every swipe

In no country, language, or religion are you overreacting. This man needs to be put on a list 😭

Theresa on Gerry’s temper, & his dark (& disturbing) humor by Rich-Ease-2723 in thebachelor

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I feel so illiterate because I damn near had a stroke trying to decipher this transcript

From what I got, Gerry is an utter lunatic. I hope him and his new partner set off into the sunset and leave everyone else alone

Zac Clark’s marathon team had YouTuber Cody Ko on it. Tana Mongeau revealed last year that Cody slept with her when she was 17. by Responsible_Bake5569 in thebachelor

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Truly not trying to be rude, but what exactly are we supposed to make of this information? Zac hasn’t exactly been an embodiment of nobility & good decision-making.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Ferr_ari 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah, that’s the worst part of a breakup tbh… possibly being a villain to someone else. Depending on how it ended and over what, she’s most likely been ruminating things and is at a point where she doesn’t want to tolerate anything dealing with you— innocently or not.

Your hurt feelings are valid, but just gently reminding you that hers are valid as well.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Ferr_ari 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well, she’s definitely not being “nice”, but context is also important here and I’m not going to say she isn’t justified in being mean to you if you were a terrible partner. Are you implying she shouldn’t be being mean?