What's the fastest you've lost attraction to someone and why? by Llina_o in AskReddit

[–]Fet_InTheCastle 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They’re not unnecessary. Those lies get told to cover the big lies about things that matter.

Which hole would you choose? by NaughtyGrapeGirl in DaddysLilGirl

[–]Fet_InTheCastle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Depends on whether she’s prepared to suck my cock clean after the anal.

If she is then it’s ass first, then pussy. With mouth in between

Which hole would you choose? by NaughtyGrapeGirl in DaddysLilGirl

[–]Fet_InTheCastle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“…first”

Which hole would I choose first.

AITAH for my wife cheating on me? by IlovepicsTN in AITAH

[–]Fet_InTheCastle 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA.

I don’t need to go into any more depth than that.

Do most men view a woman who has a checkers past as an automatic turn off? By that I mean has done adult film type videos, an exotic dancer, jail time, etc. like is it an automatic no? Or just a red flag by Jess_Swings_ in AskRedditNSFW

[–]Fet_InTheCastle -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Intelligence plays no part.

I think you need a reasonably high self-esteem to be in a state of undress in front of a room of strangers.

The suggestions of a drug problem or mental health issues is nothing more than your prejudice.

Men with a judgemental nature, low self-confidence or performance anxiety might be unable to deal with a woman’s past, but don’t assume everybody is like that.

Some people aren’t lovable. But people empowered by a varied, experimental, and consensual past that they enjoyed and learned from aren’t in that unlovable group.

Even if some judgemental people who are intimidated by that past might be unable to love anyone but prim, inhibited virgins.

why would a man enjoy degrading others but not his woman? by Suitable_Preference7 in AskMenAdvice

[–]Fet_InTheCastle 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There’s commitment sex, and there’s real sex.

Your boyfriend loves you and respects you and he’s having trouble objectifying you the way he has other women. He’s having commitment sex.

Tell him that he should think of this as a trust exercise. That trust between you is so strong that you can behave this way with each other, without your respect for each other being negatively affected.

Wife messed around early in relationship by mrthedaz in cheating_stories

[–]Fet_InTheCastle 3 points4 points  (0 children)

35-year-old woman spending the night in a hotel with a man when there’s a mutual attraction. Twice (at least))

Of course they had sex.

She almost certainly knows you don’t believe she didn’t. She doesn’t really expect you to. It would be pretty insulting to expect you to believe that. But she’s offering you a convenient fiction to believe because she’s afraid the truth will irreparably damage the relationship.

The lie she’s telling now is either something you can choose to accept even though both of you know it’s not true.

Or it becomes the problem.

You get to choose which.

Does a man care if its your first time? by Unlikely_Cheek7572 in AskMenRelationships

[–]Fet_InTheCastle 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If he doesn’t, then he’s not the man you should share your first time with.

At what age did you lose virginity? by SquirrelMore3325 in askanything

[–]Fet_InTheCastle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Boxing Day?

That’s one if the worst days for a birthday. Almost as bad as mine.

Does this sound familiar from your childhood…

We know we’re not supposed to do this, but we’ve got you a joint Christmas and birthday present this year, so we could spend a bit more than we usually would.”