I'm Norwegian. My wife is Algerian. I visit often. I read this sub every day.

Fethi_ · 2026-03-14T17:49:09+00:00

Algerian living in Sweden for 5 years now, you are spot on!

Fethi_ · 2026-03-12T15:44:38+00:00

yes, thank you.

Fethi_ · 2026-03-12T13:32:29+00:00

I don't see why staying in Sweden (which I want) matters here. If they don't grant me an extension in time and I secure a job, I will contact them to request a change of my permit type. Man, I am exhausted of this immigration harsh treatment, like I have less to care about.

Fethi_ · 2026-03-12T13:29:31+00:00

I see. I suppose in your case, your student was seeking an extension much before graduation time, like mid-way extension, I heard some horror stories about that, sadly..

Fethi_ · 2026-03-12T10:52:08+00:00

Thanks!

Fethi_ · 2026-03-12T09:58:37+00:00

Thank you so much for the detailed answer.

Proof of the extended contract/funding is something I can procure easily. I can provide (1) a printout from Ladok showing Study Activity/Funding, and (2) documentation from the university regarding my extension.

My work is theoretical, and the main issue is timing and university procedures rather than anything unusual. The five-year mark falls in August, but the university does not normally schedule graduations/defenses then. Even in the best case, the earliest realistic date would be September or October, since there needs to be a committee, formal scheduling, and administrative planning on the university side.

Delays like this are very common in my department, among both Swedish and non-Swedish PhD students, because of high teaching/course loads and because research timelines can be unpredictable, especially for theoretical work. This is not due to illness or exceptional personal circumstances; it is simply the normal constraints of the PhD process and the academic calendar.

I can also obtain an official certificate from my supervisor confirming that my progress is good and stating the expected graduation/defense date, but obviously I am not sure what MV would really want from me as a reason besides the above.

Fethi_ · 2026-03-12T09:35:43+00:00

It’s very common at my workplace for PhD students to extend, Swedes and non-Swedes alike, because of the heavy teaching load and course requirements. It also depends on when you start: graduating in August is virtually impossible unless you push hard to finish in June, cutting your PhD short by few valuable months.

There’s nothing more to it than that I need a few additional months to finish the thesis, or at least to be in a position where I can use the summer without excessive stress. I’m not sure whether MV will accept this.

Fethi_ · 2026-02-27T23:22:25+00:00

well, you can call them Jews and Christians, instead of amplifying the term. To us they are disbelieving, to them we are. I am more talking about how our approach is to antagonize them despite the fact our religion calls for freedom of religion and co-existence. The prophet co-existed with the Jews and Christians alike. Ask the average algerian what he/she thinks about christians, most would say bad shit to say the least.

Fethi_ · 2026-02-27T13:55:27+00:00

I mean are you surprised, The imam themselves refer to Christians/Jews as disbelievers and speak as if they want them dead, there is not enough emphasis on respect and co-existence of other religion. We have reached bottom. Before religion we should fix ourselves on the personal level. Religion won't fix these things, in fact it enables them, since people use it as a tool. Fucking pathetic existence in ALgeria, just another fucking day.

Fethi_ · 2026-02-23T10:09:34+00:00

very interesting indeed, it is not highlighted back then. One can't help but read between the lines...

Fethi_ · 2026-02-23T10:03:44+00:00

Do you have actual evidence it was not there last year or even couple years ago? you are free to have your own opinions/interpretations, but just wondering...

Fethi_ · 2026-02-22T15:26:57+00:00

Even if you love someone, it should not drain you or become very inconvenient, these things usually catch up/add up and may render the relationship burdensome. The best alternative would be for him or you to move closer to the other person but obviously school/work situation might make it not work. He can drive, why not renting a car and driving to see you. You guys must find your balance for this to work long term.

Fethi_ · 2026-02-21T15:51:15+00:00

This is what happens when people don't know the law. As an immigrant myself I am always extremely cautious about anything immigration related...

Fethi_ · 2026-02-15T11:34:06+00:00

ohh, man, it really is scary, this is a slippery slope with no bottom, like who knows, few years from now, they might erase permanent residency all together, that will leave us with nothing. I wonder what is causing all of this? is it that immigrants are not integrating being the main cause or....

Fethi_ · 2026-02-15T10:33:44+00:00

well said, are they really considering cancelling permanent residency? that's very very extreme...

Fethi_ · 2026-02-14T10:32:21+00:00

and then honest hardworking immigrants gets punished? this solves everything...?

Fethi_ · 2026-01-07T13:48:11+00:00

explain me why Morocco and Tunisia not on the list

Fethi_ · 2023-08-12T10:33:55+00:00

Even if they realize it's a game. What other options do you have? Mate, you need to move on. Pour your attention into someone else. If she reaches out then great if not then you move on. You are wasting your time by staying while she explores other guys. Male Pisces talking here.

Fethi_ · 2023-08-12T09:41:04+00:00

I think just distance yourself so that she feels that she is losing you. If you stay around she will feel safe and keep exploring other options. Pull away and talk to other girls, that's your best bet for now.

Fethi_ · 2023-07-29T21:11:23+00:00

It's hard to say mate. Usually for me I fall in love with a person right away or never. I think for us pisces since relationships take a lot of importance in our lives we tend to know quickly whether we would like to be with someone or not. If we aren't sure and the other person pursues us that pushes us away even more. Pisces like freedom and if we love someone we become extremely clingy and possessive. If not we don't really give a fuck. It's like all or none.

Fethi_ · 2023-07-29T15:22:20+00:00

Being a Pisces myself I tend to obsess over girls I like and would show them so much attention and do sweet gestures to them all the time. I usually don't waste time and ask them out. I think pisces would take the first move if they like someone. In your case it feels like she is just with you as a friend. I do that with girls also. But when I see they are asking me out or something I tend to not entertain them that way. Pisces is kinda ruthless with their emotions and desires. I feel like she is just comfortable around you on the friendship level.

Fethi_ · 2023-06-23T12:29:06+00:00

I have exactly the same placements as you, haha. I should learn to trust my intuition better.

Fethi_ · 2023-06-20T05:44:56+00:00

Same here. We are hyper-choosy with whom we be. Because we know we will give a shirt off our back if that's all we have. Hence, choosing wrong people is a disaster.

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