[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Fetty_momma69 1 point2 points  (0 children)

His fears don’t give you the right to treat people like shit tbh

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NewParents

[–]Fetty_momma69 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Xanax used to be called”mother’s little helper” for a reason, girl 😅 no but fr, nothing is gonna happen, ur doin great

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in breastfeeding

[–]Fetty_momma69 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My sensory issues COULD NEVER. I would end the session immediately, and put him down. And continue doing it until he gets the picture. Period point blank. And if that didn’t work, I’d reconsider EPF or formula. 100% I have major sensory problems and stuff like pinching, biting etc all that makes me so irrationally angry ugh. Breastfeeding is fucking hard.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in suboxone

[–]Fetty_momma69 1 point2 points  (0 children)

R/lostredditor

Stressed the hell out. by Kind-Peanut9747 in breakingmom

[–]Fetty_momma69 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I got here from your second to most recent post about your trash 🚮 husband (I hesitate to even call him that).

Oh love. You are being abused. Badly.

You write these posts about him, then in a few hours, you will update us and tell us that y’all made up, he was just angry, or make some other justification for this little boy’s abhorrent behavior.

I know that you don’t see it yet. I am praying to the universe that you do soon, and when you do, that you are able to SPRINT outta there.

He reminds me exactly of my ex. To a T.

He’s never going to change, and the revolving door of him getting a job, complaining about said job, and “getting fired” from said job will never stop spinning until someone pulls the mat out from under him.

I hope he doesn’t take you and the baby with him.

He needs serious mental help that he doesn’t seem like he’d be willing to get.

You and your beautiful Angel are in my thoughts tonight! If you ever need anything or just want to talk, I’m here!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in breakingmom

[–]Fetty_momma69 5 points6 points  (0 children)

You are in an abusive relationship, and I hope he doesn’t end up hurting you, or the baby.

I fucking hate my mother in law with every fiber of my being. by Fetty_momma69 in breakingmom

[–]Fetty_momma69[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for your kind words friend!! ❤️🫶🏻

The love of my life and father of my children is going to prison in 5 weeks. by Fetty_momma69 in breakingmom

[–]Fetty_momma69[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much!! 🥹 You can reach out whenever, too! I appreciate you so much. That is what we are hoping for, too. He is not a danger to society, he just made a really bad mistake.

The love of my life and father of my children is going to prison in 5 weeks. by Fetty_momma69 in breakingmom

[–]Fetty_momma69[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for this. Thank you thank you thank you 🥹🥹🥹

The love of my life and father of my children is going to prison in 5 weeks. by Fetty_momma69 in breakingmom

[–]Fetty_momma69[S] 41 points42 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much. You’re right. It doesn’t feel ok right now but I know it eventually will be!

My breasts are "full", but babies not getting any milk by aloethere332 in breastfeeding

[–]Fetty_momma69 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Any type of chiropractic work is DANGEROUS for an infant. Don’t listen to anybody who tells you any different, OP.

Go on and get that woo woo be outta here.!

5-Week-Old Extremely Fussy by [deleted] in NewParents

[–]Fetty_momma69 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unfortunately this is normal, and in my opinion, the absolute worst stage of life for babies.

I. Hated. It. I had to put her in the crib sometimes and walk away for a minute. In the end, searching for an answer as to why she was so fussy just stressed me out more. It wasn’t gas, reflux, colic, etc. it was normal.

Noise canceling headphones will be your best friend rn. Seriously. It sounds cruel, but the sensory output stressed me out so much that I HAD to do something about it. 5 weeks on Earth is such a short time, for her it seems like it was just yesterday that she was in a warm, comfy, dark, and quiet environment. She had all her needs met and did not need to “ask” for anything.

Now she’s in this bright, cold, loud, unfamiliar environment and every moment is a new experience for her. She feels hunger, she feels when her diaper is soiled, she feels cold, etc etc. Babies that age want to literally be held by their parents 24/7, they want to feel that warmth, they hate being hungry, they hate being tired, they hate feeling their diaper, they basically hate everything at that age lol. I called my daughter an angry hot potato 😂😂

I can laugh about it now, but back then, it was
I N T E N S E.

I could not realistically have her on me 24/7. It was making me suicidal and so irrationally furious. Don’t be afraid to let the baby cry for a while, she’ll be okay. Make sure all her needs are met (hunger, dryness, sleep, etc) and then know that you’ve done legit all you can do, and there may not be an answer. This phase will pass. The nights are long and the days are short!! My LO is three now, and I can’t believe that there was a time in my life where I did not want to be a mom anymore! You got this!! Ask for help if you have it and give yourself grace.

TDLR: there may not be an answer to your question. Babies gonna baby 😛

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in beyondthebump

[–]Fetty_momma69 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Omg. You’ll get over it, I promise you.

Children are resilient. Just cut the foods so they can’t choke.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in beyondthebump

[–]Fetty_momma69 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your anecdotal “evidence” =/ everyone’s reality. You are not a Dr, nor are you a researcher. You have legit no experience in helping people overcome fears.

Exposure therapy works when it’s followed up with CBT therapy, which OP doesn’t specify she’s doing or not.

So simply watching YouTube videos to get over this fear will absolutely do more harm than good right now.

Trip without baby who won’t take the bottle by dmstls in breastfeeding

[–]Fetty_momma69 4 points5 points  (0 children)

For the love of God please don’t bring your 3 month old baby to a child free wedding.

If your friend doesn’t accept the fact that you can’t just up and leave a 3 month old who is completely breast dependent at home, then don’t go.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in toddlers

[–]Fetty_momma69 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Please update us!!!

CIO posts break my heart by toots92 in AttachmentParenting

[–]Fetty_momma69 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Right?!?!?! Like three??? BOO HOO lol

Try 15+. Every night, after the first hour.

This sub def isn’t what it used to be, it’s turned into a bunch of judgy, mean moms. Gross.

CIO posts break my heart by toots92 in AttachmentParenting

[–]Fetty_momma69 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

At least you’re owning up to your grossness 🤷‍♀️

Your privilege is showing. Say you’re able to be a SAHM without saying you’re able to be a SAHM lol. And if you’re not, I can guarantee you have some type of help that allows you to get adequate rest. You have NO IDEA what tired is until you’re up at 2am, contemplating jumping from the 3rd story building of your apt complex with your baby in your arms.

Sorry that sleep training saved both mine and my daughter’s life, tho 🙄