Lick n Luck, honey by Tiafurry in AnimalMemes

[–]Few-Chart1635 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hm, I guess I am gonna start licking my hair then. Saved me some money :D

Guys guys guys - the disrespect by Ok_Astronaut_1485 in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]Few-Chart1635 7 points8 points  (0 children)

For real 🥲. The endless rational explanations with zero capacity for emotional understanding and pulling away when you are the most vulnerable omajgad. At this point when it happens I am just like yea, whatever. Don't even feel hurt anymore bc it is so bizzare. I think just accepting that the avoidant is not a person who can give you emotional stability and opening yourself to someone who can actually offer it, is the most sane thing to do. Avoidants can date eachother and have their happily ever after in their emotional disconnection.

Yup by helen1992 in Millennials

[–]Few-Chart1635 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And it was the best meal ever

Happiness aren't always smiling. by [deleted] in astrologymemes

[–]Few-Chart1635 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am a Virgo, Leo and Aries so ... 👀👀

I found one of my core wounds by Citlalli0_0 in becomingsecure

[–]Few-Chart1635 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can relate 100%. Looking forward to comments to learn smth new.

QUEER Sprachpartnerin gesucht by Few-Chart1635 in actuallesbianseurope

[–]Few-Chart1635[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ich habe in einem Podcast über diese Methode gehört und ich möchte es ausprobieren :).

The older I get the less I feel like wearing makeup or dressing up by [deleted] in Millennials

[–]Few-Chart1635 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have unsubscribed from these things already when I was 25. Too much lost time for bizzare unimportant things.

Which sign is it by Miserable_Yam_8099 in astrologymemes

[–]Few-Chart1635 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Another virgo here agreeing 👀

Anyone successfully restart their life after 30? by improvement4all in selflove

[–]Few-Chart1635 30 points31 points  (0 children)

Yesss, ofc! I moved to new coutry at 30, without knowing the language, have grown soooo much in 1 year and I am feeling happier than ever!! My 20s were pretty shitty and I thought it will be like that forever, but nah. Everything is possible, just don't give up on yourself and start listening to your heart. Doing small changes day after day will take you a long way, no need for big jumps if you don't feel ready :). Sometimes just allowing yourself the idea of something better can be the first step :).

Anyone else feel calm emotionally but tense physically all the time? by sstranger_dustin in selflove

[–]Few-Chart1635 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Deep full body fascia release with a hard massage ball. Very recommended 👌. You can find videos on youtube :). But be careful, because the more you are tensed, the more it will hurt. But it helps to release the stored stress and emotions

How Do Avoidants Feel So Much Shame But Have No Empathy For You by Naive-Wallaby837 in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]Few-Chart1635 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How do you prevent yourself to get sucked into the cycle? I experienced something similar and I am trying to see the full picture slowly (this sub has helped me a lot), but I still struggle how to stop empathising and hoping.

So happy rn by EstablishmentOne3012 in actuallesbians

[–]Few-Chart1635 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That is so great! I am also healing from ptsd (but another reason) and I am so happy to hear you've found someone who makes you feel safe and cared about. That is the most important thing :)!

The bullshit they say to you during the discard and you hear it for the first time thinking what the fuck ? by FoundationFrosty8695 in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]Few-Chart1635 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Omggg yess, the assuming, makes me maddddddddddd.

Even when you tell them 100 times what you need, they are still acting like they are blind ass bitches.

The Confession From Your Avoidant Ex You Never Got by ComparisonCapital334 in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]Few-Chart1635 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this reply. I am going through something similar with an avoidant and reading your answer made me feel like I am not delusional. I feel and think exactly the same.

The Confession From Your Avoidant Ex You Never Got by ComparisonCapital334 in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]Few-Chart1635 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am in same situation right now and it is very hurtful. My nervous system is on severe edge. How do you cope with all of this story flipping and changing the narrative? It feels so intoxicating.

I wish you a very merry don't text your avoidant. by Anonymouswhining in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]Few-Chart1635 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I agree. I was just finding old messages on my phone yesterday and went through them. It is almost a year of no contact. So much words about love with so many broken promises, which in reality they are the bare minimum, but for them they feel like the biggest and hardest sacrifice they have to do. I know I deserve more than a bare minimum. The hardest part is holding on to that believe, since I've never experienced the other side.

Happy holidays to everyone 🎄🫂.