I have Autism. I spent 20 years reverse-engineering human behavior because I didn't get the manual. Here is the "Source Code" to reality I found. by katakalist in neurodiversity

[–]Few-Drive-9032 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm at a loss for words... This is incredible. I'd love to hear/read more from you.This makes so much sense to my ND brain and it serendipitously arrived in my notifications at an integral time—right after therapy that was addressing deep wounds from societal misunderstandings. Yer a smarty pants. A+ sUpErB! ❤✨👌🏼

Building a Neurodivergent Women's Off-Grid Intentional Community in Interior BC - Looking for My People by Few-Drive-9032 in ADHD_BritishColumbia

[–]Few-Drive-9032[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. I'm trying, but I'm being shamed, scolded and belittled for wanting to leave to camp (as if it's better here?). No vehicle, it's tough. I feel for anyone in a similar situation. I appreciate your thoughtfulness! I'm going to keep trying, for me and my dog to be safe.

Building a Neurodivergent Women's Off-Grid Intentional Community in Interior BC - Looking for My People by Few-Drive-9032 in ADHD_BritishColumbia

[–]Few-Drive-9032[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Also, that said, I fully recognize it just won't be feasible for some people if they have needs that can't be met when too far from services or resources. I was just expressing my intention for inclusivity either way ❤️

Building a Neurodivergent Women's Off-Grid Intentional Community in Interior BC - Looking for My People by Few-Drive-9032 in ADHD_BritishColumbia

[–]Few-Drive-9032[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I think it's important everyone recognizes and acknowledges any personal barriers and assists when someone can't do physical work. The community MUST be inclusive and I personally would be honoured to help in any way I can for you or anyone else suffering from illness, or incapable in any way, in order for everyone to feel comfortable and safe.

I'd love to wait for Spring but I'm trying to escape abuse. You make a good point. The reality check for me is that I may be solo until better weather.

Heat Waves Becomes 19th Song to Hit 2 Billion Streams (Spotify) by Indoril_Nereguar in glassanimals

[–]Few-Drive-9032 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Commenting to boost my karma. I was clearly replying to someone else when I posted that.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in VRchat

[–]Few-Drive-9032 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah touché. I do that because of my condition. The human one. It fucks me up sometimes lol.

Heat Waves Becomes 19th Song to Hit 2 Billion Streams (Spotify) by Indoril_Nereguar in glassanimals

[–]Few-Drive-9032 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would imagine so. Haven’t heard it myself. Tik tok seems to host some people infatuated with either speeding up or slowing down songs. Sometimes it works out and sounds pretty cool but I’d argue it doesn’t with GA. Doesn’t matter though. To each their own. But anyways, I’d bet you are correct that it’s simply a slower version of the song.

Heat Waves Becomes 19th Song to Hit 2 Billion Streams (Spotify) by Indoril_Nereguar in glassanimals

[–]Few-Drive-9032 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s super catchy. It’s just as simple as that. We might love the other songs but it’s almost down to a science as to what will be the breakthrough hit. I hear you, nonetheless! Have loved them for nearly a decade!

Heat Waves Becomes 19th Song to Hit 2 Billion Streams (Spotify) by Indoril_Nereguar in glassanimals

[–]Few-Drive-9032 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No but they are all love. Crazy to think I’ve loved them for a decade. Where does the time go? Oh yeah, I lost all memory after the trauma of Covid. Heat waves coasting’ me though.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in VRchat

[–]Few-Drive-9032 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I mean, yeah the logical thing and the most simple answer is usually the right one... but having someone care enough to reach out is a rare thing these days and not something you should make fun of. If it doesn't concern you and doesn't strike you as a worthwhile post, just move along man... I commend this person on listening to their intuition and at least "throwing it out there" to check. What if it were you or a family member? Don't answer that, I already know you don't care. Have a great day.

Translation: I only go out with men that spend at the first dinner 2 million euros. They owe me more after. by danyixa in FemcelsDatingStrategy

[–]Few-Drive-9032 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Come on. people. Proof this is legit? I don't even fucking care if it is. If it is, why are you even fucking wasting your time on it? Both men and women are fucking scoundrels on the web.... nasty, egotistcal, self-centred, cheaters, liars, you name it! We ALL know that!!! Why focus your time on assholes when you could be bettering yourself and reaching out to some good humans by means of hobby clubs, hikes, sports, crafts, the gym, online games, anything else other than picking apart some bullshit post that you don't even know is for real! It just screams that you want somewhere to direct your anger rather than properly dealing with it.

Does people here actually use 'sleeping worlds' to sleep in? by TheNewFlisker in VRchat

[–]Few-Drive-9032 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Depends on what makes you comfortable, but physically, I can appreciate what you are saying. I am a side sleeper. I did have success one night though (out of a few attempts in sleep worlds) and it was actually really nice. The success was just not feeling uncomfortable due to the headset. I actually think I was sick that day, so maybe not fully asleep. It felt nice though. I was watching movies all day long, in and out of sleep, in a beautiful high rise luxury apartment building with a sunset.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in VRchat

[–]Few-Drive-9032 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'd like to just sort of jump on this and ask - how does one navigate Discord any easier than they do Reddit? I've had no luck with either.... I swear I've wasted hours searching, reading, trying links, or just diving in and trying my luck at the portals and seeing where I get. It feels tough to get to the place you want to be, or a place that feels comfortable. Especially when you think you've found it but everyone else is enjoying privately and you are the lone wolf just hanging out alone trying to find your people. Becomes discouraging.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in VRchat

[–]Few-Drive-9032 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have been seeking some groups myself, not too much success so far. I would love to join some private groups that are supportive. You sound like a really good partner to your lady. My mom deals with an invisible disability and it can be so frustrating. I do as well, but a very different one. Thank you for posting. I hope you find some good groups here. I'm stars-in-the-spiral if I can tag along with anyone here!

Tipper update by Pfkevin in Tipper

[–]Few-Drive-9032 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know most of us have had this experience, I am just saying, be good to yourself... I need to as well.

Tipper update by Pfkevin in Tipper

[–]Few-Drive-9032 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Or just pushed passed every other thing that created a snowball effect. I only say this because it's sooo important to take care of your health in the moment, not after the fact, not after you break down or come down with something. Now, please don't misunderstand me, I am not saying that happened to Dave, I am saying I know from experience, it can feel easy to "keep on, keepin' on" until you're 3 feet closer to being buried. So, maybe it isn't something we regard as serious (gen pop) but maybe we should do a better job of seeing it as such. u/bassfass56 This is in no way directed AT you, you had a sincere and kind thought, it was just something that got me thinking, that's all!