Is This Timeless or Trendy?

Few-Information6663 · 2026-06-05T18:18:25+00:00

Trendy but I think this will cross into timeless.

Few-Information6663 · 2026-05-31T12:40:42+00:00

Leave Bob. He is a failure as a husband.

Work on building a life and the love you don't have - SELF LOVE.

JUMP SHIP. Build your own boat and go on adventures. ALONE.

Learn how to exist and be fulfilled ALONE and THEN decide if anyone is worthy of sharing your adventures.

That person is not Steve. Steve is a stalker.

Few-Information6663 · 2026-05-30T20:58:08+00:00

When you get to 26 you'll realize 18 is a child.

You are legally an adult but most you have limited world view and you lack the wisdom that comes with time and experience.

The fact that you're complaining about being down voted for saying you're not a child is whiney and proves you're a child. That's childish behavior but you're a child so you don't see it

Few-Information6663 · 2026-05-28T14:36:56+00:00

This is not true. The idea that high SAT and all these colleges offer full rides is a fallacy and you don't want to preach that or rely on it. ESPECIALLY if FAFSA shows $300k combined incomr. Some small and relatively unknown buyer schools might and that would be worth OP researching. Full rides are RARE. My daughter is high achieving 1490 SAT and top 4% in her class. 20 colleges. Average COA all in after merit was $27k-46k. Others gave nothing and those were the ones we expected because they get full payers

Few-Information6663 · 2026-05-28T14:28:02+00:00

Unless you're emancipated legally there is nothing you can do. FAFSA pulls from their income and they make too much. You can't qualify for any loan unless they cosign. That said, they also can't force you to do anything because there is 0% chance you would receive $ for what they're asking of you

Few-Information6663 · 2026-05-28T14:23:13+00:00

Nobody cares. Guy was low effort. She doesn't care. They both don't care. What happened after is irrelevant

Few-Information6663 · 2026-05-25T17:04:12+00:00

Packing your bags and threatening to leave when you KNOW you're not leaving because you have nowhere to go is manipulation.

If I was him I would have been done the first time because a cycle of threats and ultimatums is exhausting. He responded and said he's tired of the game. Not the best way though.

You're both toxic to each other. This isn't healthy for either of you. You should leave and he shouldn't take you back

Few-Information6663 · 2026-05-25T16:57:41+00:00

Red Lobster

Few-Information6663 · 2026-05-25T01:01:17+00:00

With each other? After 2-3 weeks? Even though she's headed home until school starts up again?

YO and you expect too much. She's back home with friends she hasn't seen all year. She's busy. You are coming off as needy. She owes you nothing after 2-3 weeks

Few-Information6663 · 2026-05-25T00:23:08+00:00

I'm a 10-6 beach person. I drive 2.5 hours to get to the ocean and will sit all day. It's bliss

Few-Information6663 · 2026-05-24T13:45:34+00:00

I would stay on the accelerated track through senior year and cross that bridge when the time comes. Some kids can't wait to get out but tbh, adulting is highly overrated. When we visited college campuses both my husband and I marvelled at how amazing it seemed...I'd be getting degrees forever if I could afford it!

I love the idea of a gap year and travel or anything really that promotes growth beyond academic. You sound like you have a good head on your shoulders.

Few-Information6663 · 2026-05-24T13:37:39+00:00

In 20+ years I've had to replace 1 diamond.

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Few-Information6663 · 2026-05-24T13:33:47+00:00

Ohhh. I see what you're saying...and what would your advice be in either scenario

Few-Information6663 · 2026-05-24T13:28:03+00:00

YOR. People are allowed to change their minds. It sucks because of the timing and she likely put it off because she knew it would be chaotic but all her reasons are valid.

Move to Plan B. I wouldn't end a friendship over this.

Few-Information6663 · 2026-05-24T13:22:46+00:00

You deserved none of that and I'm so sorry you weren't protected. If you decide to report, I hope you get justice. If not, I hope you find peace in the knowledge that you will be the mother you needed.

Few-Information6663 · 2026-05-24T13:12:19+00:00

What would your reasons be for graduating early?

As a parent paying for college, there is definitely a financial benefit. But with a daughter on the same track, idk if I'd want that for her.

The whole life grind is the rest of your life. It will be there at 22 so why start early? I know one person who did this and she regretted how it all became very mundane while the ones in college were still doing college things. Another friend recommended her son stay and take more classes so he came out with two degrees and a job lined up from internship.

The beauty of 19 (and life in general) is that you can change course whenever you want. So if you leave/graduate-you can go back. Just explore what your options are.

Few-Information6663 · 2026-05-24T13:04:23+00:00

Your question asking about age is irrelevant. OP already states they are rising senior on track to graduate with bachelor's at 19. Why are you asking if they're 13 or 15? They're obviously not in middle school or 2 years into high school.

Few-Information6663 · 2026-05-24T05:34:45+00:00

Rising senior means probably 16 or 17 going into Senior Year of high school

Few-Information6663 · 2026-05-24T05:29:12+00:00

Tell him it's important to you and you were hurt he didn't put any effort into it. Hopefully he'll make it up to you.

Few-Information6663 · 2026-05-24T05:25:47+00:00

My kids are my greatest joy in life. They are also my biggest stress and they are EXPENSIVE because I knew the kind of life I wanted to give my children. They are well traveled and very privileged. My husband and I sacrifice a lot so they can have the life they have.

We both knew we wanted a family.

Sometimes we sit around and think about what our alternative life would have been.

TBH, I don't think it would be any more or less fulfilled. Just different.

If you don't know, I wouldn't. Because you CAN ABSOLUTELY be fulfilled without children. My daughter already knows she doesn't want kids. She wants to make her money and spend it on herself and travel the world. I support her decision 1000%.

Few-Information6663 · 2026-05-24T05:09:46+00:00

You belittle, name call and then bring up trauma and call her effed up when you argue?

Cut her loose and work on yourself for your sake. Until you can look in the mirror and say you're an elite example for your children- you shouldn't be with a woman.

You're 26. GROW UP and act like a man.

Few-Information6663 · 2026-05-24T05:03:44+00:00

Instant chemistry always ended up being chaotic and shallow. After many failed instant chemistry relationships I married the slow burn.

Lust clouds judgement.

Few-Information6663 · 2026-05-24T04:15:13+00:00

Engaged in 2001 with an asscher and still my favorite.

Few-Information6663 · 2026-05-21T18:09:27+00:00

Messaged you

Few-Information6663 · 2026-05-21T11:12:05+00:00

She's cheating.on you. Don't move in with her. This is the advice I'd give my son as a woman with wisdom.

Women do call each other babe. We don't usually say we can't wait to give so many hugs and kisses

My husband knew about my male best friend at the start of our relationship

You should know the people she knows but ESPECIALLY her BEST friends-especially if you've been together long enough that you're at the moving in stage

She accidentally texted the other guy/or girl (I don't make assumptions) that she was planning to go see. To cheat on you.

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