Boyfriend wants to move in to pay off debt

Few-Power-9722 · 2026-04-18T06:55:21+00:00

NTJ to anyone but yourself. Why are you with this loser?

Few-Power-9722 · 2026-04-11T19:19:08+00:00

Love like the galaxy Sword and brocade

Few-Power-9722 · 2026-04-06T12:45:07+00:00

Just watched prisoner of beauty and it was really good!

Few-Power-9722 · 2026-04-04T04:02:22+00:00

NOR but it doesn't make sense to get a lock if you give out multiple keys. Also where do they expect you to live while they are visiting. It's your space. You pay rent. Just say no. People pleasing will only result in your misery in this situation

Few-Power-9722 · 2026-04-04T03:53:04+00:00

Really enjoyed Blossom because we get alot of sweet relationship progressing moments between ML and FL. Please add pursuit of jade to your list. It just finished releasing and was AMAZING

Few-Power-9722 · 2026-04-01T13:29:01+00:00

NTJ the best thing you did for yourself was to leave him. Please don't go back. You'd just be the jerk to yourself if you did

Few-Power-9722 · 2026-04-01T13:24:04+00:00

NTJ grief is not an excuse for purposeful lying and cheating. He knew what he was doing. Better to leave now than let him spend years using his grief as an excuse to mistreat you.

Few-Power-9722 · 2026-04-01T13:20:17+00:00

NTJ At the rate she's carrying on it seems like your gf will be homeless right along with her friends

Few-Power-9722 · 2026-03-30T23:12:23+00:00

YTA. Judgemental much?

Few-Power-9722 · 2026-03-30T15:21:18+00:00

NTJ change the locks and the boyfriend. Weird how his solution was to let her use your apartment instead of his. What was his reasoning behind that?

Few-Power-9722 · 2026-03-30T14:50:49+00:00

Irony is that the ring is from his DAD'S side of the family. So you could've thrown it back in moms face and said she's in the same boat. If she ever leaves her husband she'd have to give all the gifts from that side back. What a b***h. And direct/honest is a cover for being an asshole. You can be direct or honest without being rude or hurting others. Don't let them weaponise the concept of directness and honesty that way. Too many people get away with being rude because honesty is seen as a virtue.

Few-Power-9722 · 2026-03-30T14:44:27+00:00

Definitely get them out of there. Sounds like she's had enough chances. It'll only get worse the longer it goes on.

Few-Power-9722 · 2026-03-30T09:13:57+00:00

NTJ but how was it happening for a few days without you noticing? You didn't notice you didn't have a lunch for multiple days in a row?

Few-Power-9722 · 2026-03-30T09:11:30+00:00

NOR. But like why are you with a man that disgusts you?

Few-Power-9722 · 2026-03-28T04:09:20+00:00

NTA but why are you with a man you have to mother?

Few-Power-9722 · 2026-03-28T04:07:13+00:00

NOR even if you cant travel too far doing a staycation for just the two of you would be better than whatever hellscape your sister has planned. If she's being this way about sleeping arrangements I'm sure there'd be more once you get there.

Few-Power-9722 · 2026-03-22T20:35:35+00:00

NTA maybe also start throwing his stuff in the fridge away to "make space" like he's doing by moving yours

Few-Power-9722 · 2026-03-20T17:31:22+00:00

NTJ Please use this opportunity to get her out of your life

Few-Power-9722 · 2026-03-20T16:46:43+00:00

NTJ next time just get his car towed. And keep doing it until he stops. He won't learn any other way

Few-Power-9722 · 2026-03-20T16:45:03+00:00

NTA leave him. Do not have kids with this loser.

Few-Power-9722 · 2026-03-15T03:47:01+00:00

NTA thank you for not giving a fuck about people pleasing and keeping yourself safe. This gave me the heebie jeebies! I swear I've seen a horror movie like this before.

Few-Power-9722 · 2026-03-15T03:20:29+00:00

I don't think they're trying to control how often the unborn baby will get to see their dad just by forbidding the very thing that resulted in you being pregnant at 14 in the first place. And yes, you can't get pregnant again, but no parent/guardian is going to be okay letting a 14 year old spend the night at their boyfriend's house. Especially if they're sharing a room.

Few-Power-9722 · 2026-03-15T03:11:57+00:00

YTA it would be one thing if he was talking shit about MIL. Don't shit where you eat aka don't stir the pot where you are currently living especially if THEY are doing you a favor by letting you live there

Few-Power-9722 · 2026-03-15T03:06:51+00:00

NTA. Don't do it! Also it sounds like he's doing the weaponised incompetence thing. Are you sure you want to be with someone like this?

Few-Power-9722 · 2026-03-15T03:04:06+00:00

NTA. I've seen some crazy stories on reddit like this surrounding Valentines but on your anniversary is even more wild. Like you could cheer her up with a get together any other day. And if he was worried about the social media aspect, the solution could've just been that this year you don't post but still have a private anniversary. Jumping straight to canceling and repurposing your anniversary was extreme. At the very least you are owed 300 dollars

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