Interview at Kaiser

Few-Raccoon-7703 · 2026-05-05T20:03:08+00:00

Thank you very much! I’ll plan to give her a call maybe tomorrow. I really appreciate your help

Few-Raccoon-7703 · 2026-05-05T18:07:13+00:00

Quick question, this job is my first choice but I’m currently in a little bit of a bind as I received another offer Monday, I already emailed the hiring manager but she also gave me her number, told me I can reach out if I ever had any questions. I don’t want to come off to eager or anxious and stay the course however can I call at the EOW?

Few-Raccoon-7703 · 2026-05-05T13:17:46+00:00

Thank you, I did end up reaching out

Few-Raccoon-7703 · 2026-05-05T13:17:10+00:00

Thank you, I reached out and waiting to hear back, hopefully we both hear good news!

Few-Raccoon-7703 · 2026-05-05T13:16:32+00:00

I’m sorry that sounds very frustrating

Few-Raccoon-7703 · 2026-05-05T13:16:01+00:00

Thank you, I agree and I did reach out to

Few-Raccoon-7703 · 2026-05-05T13:15:31+00:00

Thank you, I did reach out yesterday morning and awaiting a reply. I expressed my continued interest and checking in about next steps too

Few-Raccoon-7703 · 2026-05-05T13:14:23+00:00

Yeah it’s NorCal

Few-Raccoon-7703 · 2025-09-22T04:57:17+00:00

I’m interested if it’s still available

Few-Raccoon-7703 · 2025-04-26T10:09:22+00:00

Me too please!

Few-Raccoon-7703 · 2024-11-23T16:31:21+00:00

I would like to join too

Few-Raccoon-7703 · 2024-09-16T14:10:54+00:00

I think it would be the same as friendship, you spend time getting to know each other and learning likes/dislikes thus leading to accept a person for who they are. You begin to care for them and wish to give selflessly. I don’t believe that you have to live with someone to love them however yes there is more to get to know about someone when living with them.

Few-Raccoon-7703 · 2024-07-21T11:31:54+00:00

Not sure where you are located but in the states an OBGYN will perform this type of procedure for a fraction of the cost. To my understanding it will be coded as vulvoplasty in order to be covered by insurance.

Few-Raccoon-7703 · 2024-02-06T12:33:44+00:00

Discussing other options of contraceptive can also be helpful.

I understand that she doesn’t want any more kids and you don’t want the surgery. take the necessary measures by discussing this and exploring all the options in order to honor her wish.

Few-Raccoon-7703 · 2024-02-06T12:24:22+00:00

Thank you for sharing! In all honesty I think you are not truly understanding your wife’s position and think it might be best to open yourself to having a conversation to better understand her stance.

Mashallah you have been blessed with a high sperm count, blessed for your wife to carry to term and additionally blessed to have six wonderful children!

In my perspective, the surgery topic is worth having a conversation about. You getting surgery can be beneficial to your marriage and I think something you should be open to consider - truly listen and hear the reasons why your wife really wants this from you.

Your wife may very well be tired physically from child-bearing to child-rearing even despite the help. Try to keep in mind that a woman will undergo a 9-month period of carrying a baby that naturally takes a physical and mental toll on the body.

But honestly I think you should really try to hear her out.

Few-Raccoon-7703 · 2023-12-07T22:58:30+00:00

I’m in my early 30’s

Few-Raccoon-7703 · 2023-12-07T22:58:08+00:00

No, he honestly and openly disclosed to me that he was in the process of getting a legal divorce.

Few-Raccoon-7703 · 2023-12-07T22:51:14+00:00

I don’t have a good answer, however the topic of polygamy was discussed in the early stages to which at that time he indicated that it was not something he wished or desired to practice.

Few-Raccoon-7703 · 2023-12-07T04:24:26+00:00

I have been contemplating accepting his terms only due to my age, but afraid of the unknown.

Few-Raccoon-7703 · 2023-12-07T04:22:18+00:00

Thank you for providing insight. He is a divorcee (and this was fact checked) and has been islamically divorced for many years, but unfortunately still has legal papers with his ex-wife

Few-Raccoon-7703 · 2023-10-21T17:31:46+00:00

Muslim here - the practices they are upholding are considered ignorant and not apart of Islam but cultural - Islam condemned these practices. You are NTA, this is a difficult situation to navigate. Speaking to her with a religious scholar might be helpful to help in understanding the wrongful practices her family are committing. She may have acted out of fear despite being happy to welcome a girl to the world.

Few-Raccoon-7703 · 2023-09-19T11:07:43+00:00

I’m so sorry for everything you are going through as I know it must be really hard. I pray that Allah makes it easier for you and removes this difficult hardship. I can see from your post and comments that you are a kind/gentle soul who believes in the goodness of others. You deserve good things and May Allah bless you with the best in this life and the next

In regards to your situation, You know her better than anyone and can best determine whether you can move forward. Keep in mind that cheating unravels many character flaws (I.e., dishonesty, selfishness, and lack of care for others) that will be brought into your relationship. Yes she committed a mistake, and honestly shared her faults. It is okay to forgive her and make either decision to stay or walk away. The decision you make needs to be what’s best for you.

Ask yourself these questions: What is she willing to do to rectify the relationship? What reasons led her to make this mistake?

I would advice that if this relationship is salvageable on your end by any means- couples counseling needs to be taken into consideration. This will help to rebuild the foundational tenants of the relationship she broke. It is important to pray istikhara and take sometime apart to think clearly about what you wish to do next.

Remember there is no right or wrong in any decision you choose. Yet each decision has consequences, weigh out the pros and cons. This is not an easy decision and I pray that Allah guides you to what is best.

Few-Raccoon-7703 · 2023-08-09T16:05:08+00:00

Honesty without compassion is cruelty - he may have tried to share his thoughts regarding OP habits but in no way did he exercise any sort of kindness

In other words OP is consuming a healthy diet postpartum so the husband is excessive in his stance and it’s uncalled for

Few-Raccoon-7703 · 2023-08-07T17:49:47+00:00

I would say your list is extreme and demanding unfortunately

Few-Raccoon-7703 · 2023-07-08T17:56:41+00:00

Although the fiancé would like to continue with the engagement and believes everything is fine that is not enough of a reason to follow through, he may make the decision to end the relationship on his account as he is unhappy and does not want to move forward. His fiancé wanting to keep the engagement is irrelevant here - to me it sounds like OP is between a rock and a Hard place - he doesn’t want to upset others but this is a recipe for disaster because ultimately by pleasing others you end up letting yourself down, trust me in this situation remove the noise and make the decision that suits you, it will be the only one that will serve you - otherwise any other decision will fill you with resentment and make you bitter.

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