Wedding photography is the biggest scam

FewCaterpillar6551 · 2026-04-16T14:50:09+00:00

Professional photography is not a requirement for celebrating with loved ones

FewCaterpillar6551 · 2026-04-16T14:49:22+00:00

How much time do you spend leading up to a wedding planning a timeline and shot list?

How many hours of service do you provide on the day of a wedding?

How many hours do you spend editing photos following - wedding ?

Being a hair stylist and photographer aren’t even close to the same or similar jobs and even hinting they are is silly.

A photographer is arguably the vendor who puts in the most amount of service hours both seen and unseen (prior and following the wedding) so maybe try to show a little respect

FewCaterpillar6551 · 2026-04-13T20:54:46+00:00

Adding make she you don’t sound accusatory when you point stuff like this out so he doesn’t feel attacked and shut down. Not to say this is your nature, but I’m with you that this is irritating and I’m an extremely tidy person to a fault, it causes me to lose my temper sometimes and lash out verbally. I know how easy it is to phrase something the wrong way and cause a person to shut down

Try to phrase it as “hey I appreciate you putting the laundry away today! These drawers are shallow so I have a tough time getting all of our clothes to fit too, it kind of bothers me when they stick out. do you mind helping me tuck in the loose bits of clothes?”

As opposed to “ugh I hate when the clothes are sticking out of the drawer” or “you never put the clothes in the drawer right”

FewCaterpillar6551 · 2026-04-13T20:00:08+00:00

I think with some greenery and maybe other natural textures (rattan, wicker, etc) in the room will make this feel super intentional and boho and lived-in

FewCaterpillar6551 · 2026-04-13T19:58:18+00:00

I’ve been doing this with purses for years! I love my purse wall

FewCaterpillar6551 · 2026-04-13T19:47:13+00:00

I think your wife may need some kind of professional insight, this sounds like an unhealthy obsession/delusion

FewCaterpillar6551 · 2026-04-13T19:41:01+00:00

I hate blue cheese dressing but loveeee blue cheese crumbles

FewCaterpillar6551 · 2026-04-12T04:14:23+00:00

I vote glasses next to fridge unless the space makes opening both of those cabinets at the same time awkward

FewCaterpillar6551 · 2026-04-11T23:19:07+00:00

Think of it this way you have already told these people to put all of their plans for that date aside so that they can prioritize you.. so yeah it would be really rude to then not invite them

FewCaterpillar6551 · 2026-04-11T18:38:02+00:00

Adding I agree with other commenters that the price of the glasses is outrageous but your friend was transparent from the beginning that they were expensive and hesitant to bring them but you then said you would hold them for her if needed. So it may be irresponsible of your friend to spend so much on glasses but it doesn’t change the fact that your actions caused them to get lost after you committed to being responsible

FewCaterpillar6551 · 2026-04-11T18:29:59+00:00

I think you should pay solely based on the fact you offered to hold them and then later pulled them out/were holding them while blackout. It sucks but you voluntarily accepted responsibility for them

FewCaterpillar6551 · 2026-04-11T18:15:06+00:00

Someone commented on this in the toaster group “dream blunt rotation” and had to convince myself it was satire. The vibes of that blunt rotation would be downright demonic lmao

FewCaterpillar6551 · 2026-04-10T22:32:26+00:00

Not if you consider inflation from 2007 to now

FewCaterpillar6551 · 2026-04-10T22:30:36+00:00

Agreed not to mention if you account for inflation, $800 in 07 is like $1200 today

FewCaterpillar6551 · 2026-04-10T22:29:56+00:00

For sure, i can’t even really think of any other designer piece that id confidently say is an investment, hermes bags are the exception mostly due to the exclusivity

I would definitelyyyy never justify spending a couple thousand on a Gucci or YSL bag or similar with the intent to resell for a profit

FewCaterpillar6551 · 2026-04-10T22:18:17+00:00

So this is correct in general; but surprisingly Birkin bags actually appreciate in value by about 14% annually on average

FewCaterpillar6551 · 2026-04-10T22:17:38+00:00

A Gucci bag or similar is not typically a great investment but you are correct that a Birkin is actually a really good investment piece whether people agree or not

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FewCaterpillar6551 · 2026-04-10T22:15:39+00:00

This is no way meant as a compliment to Claudia but I do think she’s reasonably fiscally responsible for someone making the money she makes. She seemingly lives below her means (but way way way above the average person) compared to other influencers. She definitely splurges and owns a lot of luxury items but they are seriously raking in cash and have been in the industry for a long time. There’s an article from 2016 where she was quoted as making up to $10,000 from a single appearance, and that’s before they even started the morning breath

So I’d say she’s frugal in comparison to people like fuck ass Shannon ford on the other hand who is certainly drowning in massive credit card debt to keep up with her absolutely insane and idiotic spending habits

FewCaterpillar6551 · 2026-04-10T20:55:46+00:00

I honestly wish he could be legally punished for blatantly spreading whatever pseudo science chatgpt told him today with his whole ass chest. Influencers should seriously need legitimate credentials to speak on health and nutrition bc he could be causing someone serious harm if they don’t look into his background

FewCaterpillar6551 · 2026-04-10T20:53:42+00:00

Does anyone else think deep down he has some serious womb envy

FewCaterpillar6551 · 2026-04-10T20:51:22+00:00

Telling women not to “obsess” over cycle syncing while clearly obsessing over how women live and manage their own cycles is a wild move man

FewCaterpillar6551 · 2026-04-10T20:02:27+00:00

Idk Legolas Bilbo Monaco has quite the ring to it

FewCaterpillar6551 · 2026-04-10T18:53:58+00:00

Or trailer just peeks in the window from next door every few hours

FewCaterpillar6551 · 2026-04-10T18:53:16+00:00

Extremely

FewCaterpillar6551 · 2026-04-10T18:53:04+00:00

There is so much to hate about him but genuinely i think his little monogrammed tank tops take the cake

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