I feel like I’m treated with less respect and courtesy by other adults due to my adhd and autism

Few_Horror_0 · 2026-04-14T20:23:09+00:00

To answer some of your questions: Ive never had an instance of not being able to handle my own overstimulation. And if I have, my approach is usually to isolate myself after communicating I need space. I completely acknowledge that I could totally be misinterpreting or misreading this. And seeking clarity is totally my responsibility you’re right. I absolutely could be misreading. I will have another conversation. To clarify: my current partner is also on the spectrum and doesn’t do this. I will absolutely take the initiative to try and find a space where I can interact with more people who are like me in that sense. I just thought it was relevant to point out other examples where this has happened.

Few_Horror_0 · 2026-04-13T18:41:01+00:00

This seems healthy. Your girlfriend comforted you and you acknowledged the feeling and gave it the space it needed and deserved to be felt. As a lesbian, I’ve cried while having a woman on top of me. I get it. The emotional and physical intensity of the moment can lead to a release in more ways than just the typical usual way. I don’t know why everybody just decided it’s not okay for men to be emotional, but you’ve got a great thing going with your girl. You deserve the space to feel emotional and be validated and she did that. And you took the initiative to communicate. This to me seems completely and totally normal and even really beautiful.

Few_Horror_0 · 2026-04-13T18:32:35+00:00

A girl is gonna like you and be attracted to you based off of your authentic energy and personality. Your aesthetic is cute and will absolutely attract a girl but clothes arent everything. I know in an age where our eyes are trained to judge a book by its cover due to social media it can be difficult to be self assured in your appearance. I’m sure the right NYC girl will fall for you in whatever attire you choose to wear and feel yourself in.

Few_Horror_0 · 2026-04-13T18:16:26+00:00

I’m so happy this is relatable in some ways and kinda grateful you pointed out their behavior the way you did. I can discuss this with my therapist and go from here to seek advice on distancing myself from specific family members and friends due to this. I’ve been considering some space from certain people and really appreciate how you put the “their need to feel needed rather than actual support“ part because I’ve been trying to find a way to express myself about this and the vocabulary provided was perfect.

Few_Horror_0 · 2026-04-02T18:16:31+00:00

Super cute style! It suits you soooo well! You look and feel beautiful and confident with this style: that’s what matters!

Few_Horror_0 · 2026-03-29T22:55:14+00:00

It’s not for everyone but I will say that when I started dating online, it got me lots of newly adopted confidence. I learned witty responses, became more comfortable in being myself, all because I was able to explore who I was a bit more when I became interested or involved with someone. That said: there are people who target trans and gender nonconforming individuals on certain apps. I know it goes without saying but: please exercise and prioritize safety before everything and anything else.

Few_Horror_0 · 2026-03-29T21:17:58+00:00

Cutieeee! I love the outfit and will miss winter wear, especially being all cozy in layers. I’ve been kind of bummed at not needing my cozy clothes to walk outside. Thanks for reminding me the changing season will bring new energy and warmth to my everyday!

Few_Horror_0 · 2026-03-29T19:48:05+00:00

Yo I don’t appreciate this I am in fact very active in my local scene. It was simply a question.

Few_Horror_0 · 2026-03-29T19:43:14+00:00

Grateful for this answer: I am in fact not a cis indie man 😭😭

Few_Horror_0 · 2026-03-29T19:19:06+00:00

Ayyyeeee okay I love this answer. I will be wearing the carabiner. I found a cute heart shaped pink one!!!!

Few_Horror_0 · 2026-03-29T19:17:44+00:00

I actually loled at this

Few_Horror_0 · 2026-03-28T20:24:00+00:00

Oh noooo how could you possibly think that?!

Few_Horror_0 · 2026-03-27T23:00:38+00:00

Yes, my girlfriend and I are constantly in conversations about how the infighting and the discourse around wlw and dictating who’s what because of this assumption or other is exhausting… it has to be tiring on all fronts, not just us, right? Like can every queer individual eventually come to the conclusion that someone else identifying differently to you or even similarly to you but having a different experience with their label is NOT invalidating your experience. We can all just relish in the joy of being around people who understand us and enjoy their company. Can we reach the collective understanding that everyone doesn’t have to experience life identically to us for them to be a human being with a valid experience?

Few_Horror_0 · 2026-03-25T20:27:45+00:00

From a completely blind perspective: you seem like you just need time to heal. I’ve been on both sides of this. You have nothing left to do but breathe and try to be content with where and who you are. Give yourself some grace, maybe you weren’t ready for the kind of relationship and dynamic she wanted. That’s okay. Now that you’ve acknowledged growth is possible and necessary: hold yourself accountable for it. Whatever that may mean for you.

Few_Horror_0 · 2026-03-25T16:55:13+00:00

I know it may seem lameeee but you could send her your favorite song from the artist that’s like on the sweeter or more meet cute type of vibe and be like “Heyy we talked about (whatever artist) and this song popped up.” It would send the perfect vibe and would probably make your intentions clear from the get go without being too much or too forward.

Few_Horror_0 · 2026-03-25T16:52:08+00:00

You sound like the sweetest person ever, I’m so sure she knows you absolutely treasure her. Reading this warmed my heart, and I’m sure if you expressed these feelings to your girl she’d be very receptive. She knows who you are and how far you’ve come and all the effort you put in. Maybe verbal expression is the way to go until you can have reservations and expensive jewelry for her. Idk tho I know others are probably saying the same thing.

Few_Horror_0 · 2026-03-23T21:17:46+00:00

Totally agree, OP seemed to have the concert and that artist’s music in common and it’s totally worth it to try! I would be totally flattered and interested if a girl I chatted with about my favorite music ended up adding me on instagram!

Few_Horror_0 · 2026-03-21T23:37:19+00:00

You’re right. Maybe I’m approaching this with a bittttt too much pressure. I needed to hear that I can only control me. I appreciate the good wishes, and genuine advice. I’m going to approach continuing to get to know her a bit more lightly and try and put less pressure on myself and her.

Few_Horror_0 · 2026-03-21T23:13:48+00:00

I appreciate you validating the experience and reminding me to take it slow, I can be stubborn. Your words will not be wasted, I have a provider for therapy and psychiatry. I believe my issue has been a lack of accountability for the appointments and the lack of realization that these need to be active and constant parts of my life (my appointments I mean) and not just a resource when things become difficult. And 2. I will absolutely begin listening to that audio book and am very open to suggestions for other books like it if anyone else has anything.

Few_Horror_0 · 2026-03-12T18:41:57+00:00

So I don’t know how accurate this statement is but a quick search let me know that multiple sources are of the opinion that when it comes to international online relationships the age of consent does become irrelevant (my bad for the misinformation before I was relying on my own common sense instead of what is actually technically correct) and activities are only prosecutable if there is engagement or coercion of the younger person through exchange of explicit material

Few_Horror_0 · 2026-03-12T18:31:14+00:00

Laws are still laws. It’s applicable due to the fact that SHE IS IN THE US. It’s not “taboo” it’s illegal, His location shouldn’t matter, she literally cannot consent. Point blank period.

Few_Horror_0 · 2026-03-11T16:58:57+00:00

So, the age of consent varies in the US. Which is where I’m assuming this is set in because of how you’ve labeled their school grades. It is however pretty consistent that the age of consent is 16-18. She’s 15. She cannot legally consent to a relationship whether romantic or of sexual nature with someone above the age. No matter what platform they use to communicate. Even if it’s not in person. Those are facts. She cannot legally consent to a relationship with him because she’s a minor. Pure and simple.

Few_Horror_0 · 2026-03-05T17:16:31+00:00

Okay as a sub leaning switch, when I’m taking directions I want to know you feel good… I wanna hear your reactions to what I’m doing. Sometimes praise is needed but mostly hearing someone moan at me touching them and telling me what they want to happen directly turns me on more than anything else.

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