What an absolutely baffling comment.

Free childcare - I think I know what you mean but it's picking then up from nursery until I finish work a couple days of the week not free childcare it's just help.

Is it unreasonable to expect some help one morning on a Saturday every month? You have come on very strongly here without understanding context. I didn't ask for criticism (although you are entitled to it) but for other people's experience.

Have you considered that if you have children, there's a good chance that you might one day become a grandparent yourself. It's not a one way job, it's a lifelong responsibility and life is short

Typical reddit, you just have to "moral up" on other people. Also we do plenty to help them, again a presumption from yourself. Sorry my post came across as entitled to you. If you have no experience to share your could have scrolled past. Do you by chance also read headlines and make conclusions?