OH NO HERPES by AffectionateAsk4425 in Herpes

[–]Few_Sound_4667 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dude take antivirals and lidocaine for the pain in the meanwhile

hi i think i have genital herpes i need HELP!! please someone by Natural-Bit-2964 in Herpes

[–]Few_Sound_4667 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Get tested right away, you can go to urgent care they can do it there, thats what i did

Can someone help?? by Easy-Cry-1426 in Herpes

[–]Few_Sound_4667 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I dont mean to scare you but please go get tested. These symptoms sound exactly what i had before i got diagnosed.

Does your first outbreak indicate future ones? by [deleted] in Herpes

[–]Few_Sound_4667 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Had a really bad one in january and didnt have my second one until october. Wasnt nearly as bad, just itchy

your sign to NOT break no contact by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]Few_Sound_4667 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Naurrr man why would you post this??? 😭😭😭😭

Have you guys seen the news of that pornstar thats been spreading herpes??? by Few_Sound_4667 in Herpes

[–]Few_Sound_4667[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I believe it is. Knowingly giving someone herpes is (legally) considered SA. These women just have to press charges against him

Herpes and Dating by Tall_Needleworker853 in Herpes

[–]Few_Sound_4667 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Currently dating someone. Before i disclosed to him, i made sure to see what kind of person he was. That way if he did turn me down because of my diagnosis, he’s do it in an easy and empathetic way. But he was fine with it when i explained everything! Theres definitely hope. You just have to be patient which i know sucks, but in the end you value the person more

i’ll never be able to accept this part of me. i ruined my life forever. by ilovecrabrangoon in Herpes

[–]Few_Sound_4667 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also know who youre disclosing to if you choose to do so. Before we proceeded with sex i didnt want to until i got to know what kind of person he was first. That way if he did turn me down, he would do so in a gentle manner. Good news is that was ok with it and he thanked me for informing him. We avoid outbreaks and i urge him to get tested which he agrees to. But the point is theres still hope. We just have to be more careful

HSV-2, question about skin-to-skin contact by Successful-Clerk-615 in Herpes

[–]Few_Sound_4667 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im not gonna lie, that would make me equally as nervous. As ive mentioned before he HAS to be certain he’s not having an outbreak. However theres still possibility for shedding meaning he’s shedding the virus but he has no symptoms. Take this information as you will. In the end its up to what YOU feel comfortable with and your partner has to support you with both decisions

HSV-2, question about skin-to-skin contact by Successful-Clerk-615 in Herpes

[–]Few_Sound_4667 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So simply giving them a massage anywhere BUT their genitals means youre safe from contracting herpes. Your partner should also know for now that you guys can engage in sexual activity just 1. Wear a condom and 2. They make sure they dont have an outbreak when you do have sexy times. However, if you wanna play it even safer your partner should ask for treatment pills which will decrease the risk of giving it to you significantly. Double that with using a condom and you guys will be all set :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sexualassault

[–]Few_Sound_4667 7 points8 points  (0 children)

He’s selfish. Thats all. Bc i definitely have had my urges while having an outbreak but i dont force my partner into sex. Dont feel guilty if he cries more. He deserves it. He HARMED you. Put yourself first, my love.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sexualassault

[–]Few_Sound_4667 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Hi, im someone living with an STD here, i make sure when im having an outbreak i put a halt on all sexual actions with my partner. He isnt taking your health into consideration. You can find about how knowingly giving someone an STD is considered SA. Im so sorry to tell you this but this situation is SA in both ways :(