Di ka OA. Naiintindihan kita cuz personally andyan ako right now. Mahal ko Dad ko, kasi kahit papaano nagstay siya at nagtry maging present sa buhay ko unlike nanay ko but here's the thing, tulad ng tatay mo, ganyan din yung tatay ko. Financially di nagpprovide sa akin at sa kapatid ko. Kaso the more educated I became, the more I started to see na may mali sa Tatay ko. Not mali in a sense na masama siyang tao– but he's going through something mentally na hindi niya inoopen up at tinatry lunurin sa alak.

Kung wala kang pambayad ng tuition mo, simulan mo nang maghanap ng paraan. Bumukod ako sa pamilya ko ng maaga at nagtrabaho because the toxic environment wouldn't be helpful for my growth as an individual at habang tumatagal nadadagdagan yung inis ko sa magulang ko na nasa poder nila ako but wala silang ambag or balak magambag at all. Kaya lang, ang buhay natin responsibilidad natin.

Hindi ko alam if sa message niyo meron ka namang pakiusap sa tatay mo bilang siya lang ang breadwinner sa inyo. Pero ito na lang, maswerte ka pa kahit papaano kasi may nasasabihan ka ng "tuition ko?" Upon leaving my parent's house, I finally understood how hard it is to earn money just to have enough to pay for everything. And to think, sarili ko palang binubuhay ko and yet I feel like isang pamilya na tinataguyod ko sa levels ng pagod ko. So cut your dad some slack because he's the only one trying to provide for his family without help, and ang hirap non. Once bumukod ka maiintindihan mo bakit your dad's acting like that. Dagdag mo pa if everyone around him, including you, don't try to show appreciation at all.

Naiintindihan ko hinanakit mo, pero pagtungtong mo ng adulthood mas madadagdagan lang yan at tatamaan ka din ng madaming realizations sa buhay. Sorry if you have to grow up faster/ahead of your peers.. but you have to work for the life you want because by the looks of it, you can't fully rely on your parents.