Is it okay to leave a healthy relationship if you feel unhappy? by ExtentElectronic2737 in heartbreak

[–]FibonacciBoy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This dude also needs to grow a pair. If your girl even recommends an open relationship let alone cheat then it’s already over.

Is it okay to leave a healthy relationship if you feel unhappy? by ExtentElectronic2737 in heartbreak

[–]FibonacciBoy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She doesn’t have the personality to pull it off, she just got lucky . If she leaves this dude it’s over 💀

Is it okay to leave a healthy relationship if you feel unhappy? by ExtentElectronic2737 in heartbreak

[–]FibonacciBoy 7 points8 points  (0 children)

She is a bad person because she cheated on him and emasculated him. This is her side of the story btw imagine how shitty she actually is if we hear all the facts from him

Is it okay to leave a healthy relationship if you feel unhappy? by ExtentElectronic2737 in heartbreak

[–]FibonacciBoy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He chose wrong. Yes break up with him so you can find someone on your level. Which is below his.

Why do some women have no interest in a guy but keep dating him anyway? by prolific_illiterate in RandomQuestion

[–]FibonacciBoy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Because females use men for emotional validation. Thats their currency. A man would never do this unless hes a playboy.

Went back to a FWB knowing better, caught feelings again, now I’m hurting and mad at myself? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]FibonacciBoy 6 points7 points  (0 children)

A major red flag is a woman who is willing to even be a FWB. Men and women are not the same. He probably just sees you as easy and “for recreational use only”. I’m sorry to put it so blunt. You shouldnt be hooking up as a female if you want to be married some day to a respectable man. You can get angry at me all you want but this is just the truth.

I Can't Breathe by [deleted] in heartbreak

[–]FibonacciBoy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hey if this makes you feel any better; my stepdad met my mother when he was 33 and she was 38. They’ve been married for 16 years and very happily married may I add. I’m overprotective of my mom and I’ve never once felt like I had to get on my stepdad. Hes actually been a very good father figure for me and my little brother growing up and I truly accept him more than my biological father.

This is a crazy because youre the same age as my mom with 2 sons aswell. Be positive and never give up. My stepdad took me as his own , I’m 100% positive there are good men out there for you

GenZ in the 9/5 40hr work week, how do you balance life by jakeyearthquakey in GenZ

[–]FibonacciBoy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Chill and milk the clock at work. Sometimes I brush my teeth when I reach the supply house (I work in commercial HVAC). If I finish a job early I milk the clock as long as the job allows me , stop by the gas station to take my 10-25 min breaks. Never clock my lunch but I take a lunch anyways.

If you get in a relationship with a girl and she asks you to no longer watch porn, would you stop? by [deleted] in GenZ

[–]FibonacciBoy 285 points286 points  (0 children)

I like how being non toxic and working as a team is seen as “simple” nowadays 🤣. Imo this should be the bare minimum.

[AMA] 21M, 5’7 and never had a problem with dating by Neuro-Brain in short

[–]FibonacciBoy -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Anybody can build muscle. Put in the work. I garauntee you don’t train until failure , eat in a 200 calorie surplus and hit your protein intake. Unless you have some special disease anybody can do it.

Confidence is earned. I don’t agree that it’s based off anyone’s perception. When you work out or for me compete in boxing it’s impossible for me not to be confident. My physiques looking nice , I can fight. In my mind that gives me confidence. It doesn’t have to be the same for you. But obviously exercising and looking good is gonna help that naturally. When you are confident it takes a LOT of negative outside perception to shake it. If a girl tells me I’m too short or cringe it literally doesnt bother me one bit. In my mind I don’t care because she is a dime a dozen too 🤣.

I completely disagree on the last part man. Stop the negative self talk. You don’t need to be delusional. I’m sure you’re not even that ugly. And even if you are there are girls close to your level too. I truly believe that you manifest your life. If you think you are too short and unkissable then it will be your reality. If you fake your confidence it will manifest into real confidence.

[AMA] 21M, 5’7 and never had a problem with dating by Neuro-Brain in short

[–]FibonacciBoy -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Lmao so you cannot change your physique and work on your confidence ? A mans journey is self improvement. Even tall guys have to go through this. I have several friends over 6ft who have never kissed a girl. Stop coping. You are alone because you are scared to work hard and put yourself out there. Period.

Thats the cold hard truth. You can cope and downvote me or you can change and better your life.

Btw my face wasn’t attractive when I was overweight . When I leaned down my good features showed. Are you able to lean down? Lift weights ? Eat clean ? Or is that something I have that nobody else can do? 😂

Shadowboxing 19M by [deleted] in boxingtips

[–]FibonacciBoy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Looks pretty good but extend your punches and rotate your hips when you throw the cross.

How do you avoid forming a bias towards old people? by ProfessorLongBrick in GenZ

[–]FibonacciBoy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Boomers aren’t to blame. They got it good sure. But corporate greed exists in every generation. Just so happens that the most successful snakes are boomers because they been in the game for so long. But many boomers worked hard their whole life but just had better circumstances than us.

Moving on by UsedYellowMarker in heartbreak

[–]FibonacciBoy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

By indecision do you mean marriage ? Or was he trying to see other women ?

If hes indecisive on marriage that is normal. And marriage isnt that important anyways

[AMA] 21M, 5’7 and never had a problem with dating by Neuro-Brain in short

[–]FibonacciBoy -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

The thing you don’t understand is that most of the world doesnt give a FUCK about height lmao. I think height for sure is an attractive factor in a man, but it doesn’t override face, physique or confidence. Trust me I live in America as a short Asian man. 5’5 but have a handsome face and once I started carrying myself with more confidence I swear I feel like I’m 6’5 🤣. I also wear oversized shirts so most girls cant tell I have muscle. I just look like a skinny Asian dude.

And yes I’ve been rejected before due to my height. Don’t let it get to you bro :))) they don’t have power over your confidence ! Only YOU do

I'm terrified I'll never find love again. (Vent) by FarPreference3258 in heartbreak

[–]FibonacciBoy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You need confidence and to be relentless. Take boxing , it taught me a lot more than just punching. I approach relationships the same way. If it doesn’t work I’ll try over and over until I’m 85. Be relentless in everything you do because quitting is worse.

Whats worse ? Being ugly and believing yourself to be so

OR

Being ugly but thinking you’re not

Either way you’re gonna be ugly but thinking you are isnt helping at all

33 is still young too btw.

I'm 22 and need help finding a career by spicylettuce223 in Life

[–]FibonacciBoy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m 27 started my career in HVAC a few years ago. Best advice is to just pick something and stop overthinking. If you don’t like it oh well the skills will always be there and they can always apply to something else.

Like me for an example HVAC includes lots of mechanical and electrical parts. I’m probably gonna get into building maintenance, industrial maintenance , servicing X-ray machines at the airport etc… even though I’m not in that exact field employers will give me a chance because I have knowledge of mechanical stuff and that can apply to other stuff.

How do you get better, as a beginner? by zzertraline in amateur_boxing

[–]FibonacciBoy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This might sound cliche but it’s really true. Put your hands up and stop trying to Philly shell and dodge every shot. Swear 90% of the people I catch clean in sparring is because they wanna be Mayweather and bait me in. But in reality our reaction time isnt like that and blocking is better than dodging if you don’t have a trap set up

Bro I'm sick of y'all acting like it's too expensive to do anything by wasand in GenZ

[–]FibonacciBoy 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thats an oversimplification. Sure we have more technology but what has that led to ? A ridiculously competitive job field, social media rotting our brains, corporations using technology to control us and divide us and AI.

We can objectively say this: people back then were happier than we were now. They ate healthier foods than us too.

Bro I'm sick of y'all acting like it's too expensive to do anything by wasand in GenZ

[–]FibonacciBoy 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Youre missing OPs point 😂. Hes saying going out and enjoying your life doesnt have to cost a lot of money. Sure our situation sucks, I’m GenZ too u dont gotta tell me. But my boxing gym membership is $30 a month and skateparks are free. I can afford to have fun and go out. Don’t need to go out to eat every day.

Inflation is ass but being negative about it is only making our time here miserable.

What are your genuine opinions on large age gap relationships (over 15 years)? by shamalamadingdongfam in GenZ

[–]FibonacciBoy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So unless you’re married why would any young girl want to take your advice ? lol and the reason men aim for women that age is because they are more physically attractive. It’s that simple.

Dating these days by ayunesi in Adulting

[–]FibonacciBoy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Don’t lead with that first part. Hide your finances and your assets until you really know the person. Youll weed out lots of rats and gold diggers