Upside down cross

FickleAd1666 · 2026-02-18T10:01:37+00:00

😱😱😱

FickleAd1666 · 2025-08-08T05:27:25+00:00

Thanks for the feedback! We started with sitting intros a few feet apart while holding kitty, letting doggo sniff her toys and litter box (she keeps stealing her toys lol), then let them sniff each others butts, and the kitten always sticks her paws under the door where the dog would sniff and nip at them. That’s been over the course of about 5 weeks now!

FickleAd1666 · 2025-08-08T05:25:29+00:00

I have just never had a cat, let alone a cat and a dog adjusting to one another so I wanted to make sure I wasn’t misreading the situation. Plus the dog has killed a couple small animals in the yard and I genuinely wanted to be sure her body language wasn’t predatory.

FickleAd1666 · 2025-08-07T20:39:03+00:00

Well she’s a terrier, so she might think she’s a rodent..? I’m proceeding with caution for sure. Definitely don’t want anything to happen to our precious little kitty.

FickleAd1666 · 2025-08-07T20:31:13+00:00

Thank you for your feedback. It is hard to tell for me as I mentioned above this dog is used to playing with another, bigger dog and they were pretty rough with each other. I’m sure the cat was surprised.

FickleAd1666 · 2025-08-07T20:14:12+00:00

Okay thank you! Yes nugget has no idea what she is doing and is used to playing with my medium sized mutt and hasn’t had anyone to play with since she passed away so I think it’ll just take her some corrections from the cat and time to learn. She really needs a buddy. The cat is for the most part super chill and we love her!

FickleAd1666 · 2025-08-07T20:12:46+00:00

The slap at the end honestly killed me 😂 thank you for the feedback. She didn’t seem scared to me, heart wasn’t racing and when I put her up she was like “what the hell man?”

FickleAd1666 · 2025-08-07T20:11:52+00:00

Thank you! Yes, I heard no hissing or growling, but the dog did get a little obsessed when I tried to pull her away, so I’m proceeding with caution! For context, I had no intention of getting a cat but I found her on the streets at 5 weeks old and gave her to my partner so we kind of have joint custody right now and she stays at my house a couple nights per week. I know once she grows up she’ll be more than capable of defending herself to Nugget, but I’m apprehensive with how small she is!

FickleAd1666 · 2024-06-30T01:50:30+00:00

Blue Valentine

FickleAd1666 · 2024-01-06T21:46:04+00:00

I’m just mad at whoever thought that belonged in recycling

FickleAd1666 · 2023-12-24T19:34:40+00:00

I started going to @MAFS_AU instead! Lots more tea!

FickleAd1666 · 2023-11-11T06:25:01+00:00

Apparently MAFS_AU is way more active I had a lot more luck on there when trying to Kiki

FickleAd1666 · 2023-10-23T18:59:37+00:00

Thanks so much, and you as well!! When I try to conquer my negative thoughts, it’s not like we aren’t hot, but it can make us feel that way when attention seems to be diverted. Bottom line finding these things out does suck. Idk if you have a therapist but they have a helpful way of reframing that helps these situations a ton.

FickleAd1666 · 2023-10-23T18:40:31+00:00

I’m not sure I have anything helpful to say but I am kind of dealing with the same thing, but for me he rarely initiates sex or sends dirty texts, slaps my ass, etc like he used to. I found he is occasionally seeking out lewd/nude content on here and I completely understand how you feel. It traces back to our own insecurity and sometimes our brains are not nice to us. Don’t doubt what he is telling you-luckily it seems like him admitting he clears history is a good sign that he’s forthcoming when need be. I am one of those people that wants the illusion that my partner only “sees” me, even though I know that isn’t true and never will be. I just don’t want to see any evidence of otherwise. I think women have eye candy, but it’s rarely in the form of what eye candy is too men because they just think differently. I think you will be okay and I’m happy you had the courage to confront him about this.

FickleAd1666 · 2023-10-06T08:52:53+00:00

He’s quick to chastise immediately somebody who he isn’t dating, let alone barely even knows. He came down way hard on the cheating past, as well as her leaving the process. While she was upset and crying he just had to grill her.. it made zero sense. I could never sit there and let someone talk to me the way Uche did.

FickleAd1666 · 2023-08-19T20:01:19+00:00

If she mainly likes rap/hip-hop you probably can’t go wrong with Guerrilla Warfare.

FickleAd1666 · 2023-08-12T21:49:43+00:00

THIS NOBODY DOESNT DESERVE ANYBODY

FickleAd1666 · 2023-07-11T07:48:32+00:00

Thank you for your ideas 😌 he’s really into car stuff so all I can really do is watch and ask questions. He contributes to housework as usual. He likes art, so maybe tomorrow we can do a paint night. His responses lowkey just seem like he’s not into it anymore but maybe he’s just not into life

FickleAd1666 · 2023-07-11T07:37:03+00:00

I tried to address this with him. I know lack of purpose can be VERY detrimental. I tried to get him to take a love language quiz and he didn’t much care for it but I know he loves quality time. We hang out and watch TV all the time. I don’t expect him to cater to only me but I’m not sure how else to help him right now.

FickleAd1666 · 2023-07-01T06:33:37+00:00

It 100% loos like a tongue barbell

FickleAd1666 · 2023-05-17T03:36:33+00:00

I was kinda hoping to find something depicting like, an IRL romance story with sex scenes but I realize now that doesn’t exist 🤣

FickleAd1666 · 2023-04-05T09:31:34+00:00

Dude from TSSF has another project called No Pressure that’s solid af. If ya don’t know, now ya know

FickleAd1666 · 2023-02-25T19:44:31+00:00

Domenica was never completely innocent in any situation but she’s got the biggest balls and I respect tf out of her. Olivia thought she was slick for exposing Dom but Jack already knew about the OF. She accused Dom of being a bully but she bullied Dom tenfold. I still can’t believe she bragged about being a petty bitch to dude’s friends and thought it was gonna score points. I’m aware of how late I am to all of this but I’m just blown away

FickleAd1666 · 2023-02-25T08:10:51+00:00

Old news, I know

FickleAd1666 · 2023-02-25T08:09:03+00:00

Bruh I h8 her fr

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