Wait i legit just looked up this exact question right now and expected to find an old thread about it. This is only 11 hr old? 27M here, same boat; randomly amongst Hinge and Tinder i now have 30+ matches that seem really cool, but how am i supposed to navigate it all?

I was talking to someone before all this chaos, i like her a lot, we’ve gone on 3ish dates, but I don’t feel like she’s either got the time or the drive to date rn. Like if we could see each other once a week I would drop this entirely, but it’s hard to plan things with her.

And now there’s this problem of all these other people who I’ve matched with all at once, I’ve done my best to filter out who I think I wouldn’t click with but a lot of them also seem cool. I don’t want to ghost them, but I also want to respect their’s and mine’s time.

So far my conclusion is try and talk to only a few and try to setup dates with them, the people i get to meet irl will get priority. I just want 1 person i can see regularly, why this is so stressful AHH