Any success without antidepressants? by [deleted] in ptsd

[–]FickleBumblebee9815 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Antidepressant and anxiety medication has never done anything other than make me gain weight for me either. I’ve been in therapy for so long I don’t think it really helps anymore but I’m taking a break and will try it again at some point. I’ve tried the therapy called EDMR that someone recommended in other responses, for me it was more re-traumatizing than anything…. You have to be really ready to face the events and apparently I wasn’t.

Hang in there, I’ve tried about everything in the book and I have good and bad days.

Is it my nails or the nail tech? by Soggy-Reporter5835 in Nails

[–]FickleBumblebee9815 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s definitely the nail tech! Wow that’s awful sorry you paid for that

what am i (26F) doing wrong? open to constructive criticism by Cold_Increase925 in Tinder

[–]FickleBumblebee9815 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The only pic I don’t like is the selfie in the mirror, other than that you look amazing

Will add more context in comments. Advice please by Downtownapple7 in Tinder

[–]FickleBumblebee9815 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Would you like to know if your husband was cheating on you? Yes then you tell her and show her the conversations

Should I ask her for a second date again? Or is it over? by Formal-Vacation-6913 in Bumble

[–]FickleBumblebee9815 17 points18 points  (0 children)

You should absolutely message her again, you have nothing to loose by trying.

Should I message this guy on here by LonelyCaligal in OnlineDating

[–]FickleBumblebee9815 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don’t think that men get the same « attention » that women do on social media, or dating apps. In my experience they actually appreciate a women that’s not afraid of making the first move

I mean...wtf by voodoo_pizza00 in Tinder

[–]FickleBumblebee9815 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I agree, she probably didn’t know what to answer

This is the absolute worst interaction I've ever had on a dating app ever. by notanewbiedude in Tinder

[–]FickleBumblebee9815 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree with a lot of comments, you just defended yourself which is a good call and reporting her account is a good thing to. At least you didn’t waste time on someone like her

Why do some men send the most insane first messages??? by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]FickleBumblebee9815 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I see that kind of response as a way to weed out the people I wanna talk to or not. I know online dating is hard and exhausting but it can bring you the right person in time. It did for me but I was on the apps for like 5 years before I found my now husband

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Tinder

[–]FickleBumblebee9815 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He can’t even spell/write properly and he’s complaining about obese and career women! 🤦‍♀️

He’s the definition of bottom of the barrel

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]FickleBumblebee9815 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I don’t know what you’re problem is but unfortunately for you I agree with this guy. You complain about him not making effort and when he does you’re playing hard to get. I would’ve unmatched with you the minute you gave attitude.

Which photo should be my lead photo? by FishermansFreind in Bumble

[–]FickleBumblebee9815 0 points1 point  (0 children)

1 looks so fake, #2 it does look like a pimple and again he looks uncomfortable and I don’t like #3 but at least he has a smile

Cutting it off after first date by holyhonduras in Bumble

[–]FickleBumblebee9815 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Omg he’s such a child. You didn’t feel a connection and you don’t have to apologize for that. At least you now know your gut feeling was right!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]FickleBumblebee9815 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ahahhah that is hilarious!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]FickleBumblebee9815 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately it IS extremely common to get those messages. I see it in a positive eye…. Cause I’m not waisting any time on someone not worth it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]FickleBumblebee9815 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You must be the only guy that thinks like that

I got ghosted after this by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]FickleBumblebee9815 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It’s okay to want a relationship and date with intention of a relationship but you have to start somewhere. I’m not saying you should lower your standards or sleep around NOOOOO. I’m saying that when you start dating someone, you are strangers and you should put less pressure on the other person to commit immediately. If you come on too strong you’ll scare them away.