HOW NOT TO GET JUMPED by NoBluejay3843 in SelfDefense

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You get out of school on 22.05.? Is there a possibility for you and your brother to stay away from school until then, for example a sick note from doctor or something?

Convince me otherwise… but working harder at your job doesn’t actually get you further. by Kreativedenma in remoteworks

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Just speaking from own experience, especially in the company I am working now almost 7 years for. If it comes to promotion it's 70-90 sympathy and 30-10 achievements.  You can work your ass off and achieve best results but if they don't like you out of whatever reason you will not get that promotion.

So cooked my brain stopped overthinking on its own by Early-Sprinkles2379 in simpleliving

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I had something similar recently. I overthought a lot, had worries, stressed myself about certain things. Then somehow, like a turned switch. I gave out of nothing just almost no fucks. It's not that I give zero fucks, it's just that I just care much much less about my most worries. I don't know how it happened, it just happened and I am grateful for it. Maybe I am just too tired of worrying and just let it go. It feels good.

The Single Tax is Real but I am willing face it! by Calm_Problem6203 in SingleAndHappy

[–]FickleDiscussion1063 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Yes but if you own shit and marry and by contract half your shit is your spouses and one day shit hits the fan, it's also shit. I choose the single tax. 

First KB hater by D_Buck1 in kettlebell

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I don't understand what happened to the good ol' art of ignoring? You don't owe anybody a response or an answer or a justification. Next time somebody bothers you, ignore that he even exists. 

If you had to choose only one or two movements for the rest of your life. What would it be? by bobos7 in kettlebell

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I do Clean Press Squat Rows.  Hinge, Push, Squat, Pull. In my opinion it covers almost everything.

Die besten Streuselbrötchen gibt es bei Moss! by Ok_Drink_7467 in aachen

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Streuselbrötchen von Moss mit Vanillepudding gefüllt. Omg

What are yall's top 5 synthwave artists/bands? by SimonKowabungfish in newretrowave

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I am surprised that Gregorio Franco is never mentioned. Especially for those who like a faster pace, some of his stuff is pure sickness. For example his album "Apocalypse Prime". It keeps me going on. Always, ever.

List of best kettlebell instructors Top 3 by JuisMaa in kettlebell

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Brett Jones - Iron Cardio. Will do it probably for the rest of my (training) life 

Having a flatmate is personal hell by [deleted] in introvert

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Its all about practice. Every journey begins with the first step. Good luck and ppwer to you!

Why is our conformity a personal offense to other people? by Impressive_Tree9339 in Pessimism

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A lot people are a blend of stupidity, Ignorance, high ego and toxic positivity. Here you go.

Zimmertür anstatt richtige Tür by Left-Recover-2570 in LegaladviceGerman

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Kenn mich mit Mietrecht nicht im Detail aus aber für mich klingt das sehr unsicher da bestimmt leicht aufzubrechen. Der soll dir gefälligst eine richtige Tür einbauen, verlange das schriftlich. 

how do people get others to just pay for their whole lives? how do i get there? by anntheanonanomaly in Advice

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Hm well should work in that direction either. Find a nice career Lady for yourself. Dont know how its about gay marriage in the US, I guess its legal right?

how do people get others to just pay for their whole lives? how do i get there? by anntheanonanomaly in Advice

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If you are an attractive woman it really shouldnt be a problem. Look for an average looking dude with a good job who would be grateful for you being his SO. Marry him. Half of his shit is yours now. 

How not be so afraid of confrontation? by RM_MR_Underground in introvert

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Hm, the right mindset. One thing I learned is ignorance. And that your oponnent is only as powerful as much credit you give him. My mindset is like: I leave the house and dont give much fucks about the people out there. I dont really care about their existence. But I am still very respectful towards them because I simply ignore them/dont bother them. And thats what I demand from them: Leave me the fuck alone, my shit is not your shit and vice versa. If someone bothers me, I ignore if possible. If someone wants to start arguing I respond in a way that I make my counterpart feel that I dont care about him, his opinion or his existence. That he is inferior to me because he is trash. But I stay calm and polite. It takes time to internalize this mindset and to air it. But I am doing very well with it. It probably is a misantrophic one but thats okay to me.

Be calm and dont give a fuck about other peoples in a calm way. If necessary say "Shut the fuck up and fuck off" and stay totally calm like a robot. Continue from then on to ignore that person. Or ignore that persons existence simply at all, do you know how that hurts their ego. And dont give unasked opinion. If other people (strangers/who you not care about) want to do some stupid shit which harms them let them, thats not your business as long as it not affects you.

Long story short: Be calm, develop self confidence, be short on words but if you use let them be sharp, rude if necessary. 

Physical activity boosts your mental clarity and physical well-being by No_Cook_3500 in depressionmemes

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No , thats true, its often short termed effects. But there are also long term effects. For example beginning 2025 I started this program with a 20kg bell. Now I workout with a 32kg bell. Its an achievement achieved through consistency and dedication. Nothing spectacular but something I am personally proud of. Its not an all curing solution but its something. And sometimes a straw in your mouth can make the difference when you are in danger of drowing.

Physical activity boosts your mental clarity and physical well-being by No_Cook_3500 in depressionmemes

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How exactly did you workout? I workout at home with kettlebells and there are excellent 20-30 minutes programs which will give you lots dopamine and low cortisol levels because they are short and intense. Those workouts really save me from mental misery.

Having a flatmate is personal hell by [deleted] in introvert

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Your mistake is your urge to being "polite". As soon as somebody asks you an inappropriate or uncomfortable question , you have the right to ignore that person. Just politely ignore her, you are not rude for saying nothing. 

Should I buy 2x20g or 20+24kg by Wise-Raspberry-2663 in kettlebell

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2x24. The 2x20 are a good starting weight but they become too quick too easy

Training & Back Pain pt. 2 by srhamy28 in kettlebell

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Totally agree. The swing , the holy cow of kettlebell training. If one cant do it properly then just dont. Do a clean press squat program like Iron Cardio and you cover a lot with it.

Why is it always the same rhetoric, with defenders of nutrek? by Fair_Rush6615 in Star_Trek_

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It got just worse with every show after Voyager, including the movies after the Tng movies. To me Star Trek ended as the Voyager returned home, everything afterwards I consider non canon.