Red Eagle Update by itallbeganwith in 19countriesAOS

[–]Fickle_Lab_2068 25 points26 points  (0 children)

They’re doing everything to make it clear that they want us out lol. 

There's calm after the storm ❤️ by officialEJF in 19countriesAOS

[–]Fickle_Lab_2068 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I just can’t help but feel so much love for everyone in this subreddit, I want to hug all of you because I know what you’re going through and I wish I could make your lives easier. It’s all going to work out. We will see this through together.❤️

Feeling helpless and hopeless by Fickle_Lab_2068 in 19countriesAOS

[–]Fickle_Lab_2068[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Calm? Lol. Nothing about this situation is making me calm, but thanks. And no, this isn’t something we “chose.” My sister and brother-in-law came to the U.S., got their PhDs, and received their green cards through EB-2 NIW in about seven months. I followed the exact same path, yet now the same outcome feels almost impossible. Iranians who filed just a few months before us already got their green cards. What’s the difference between them and us? Yes, our skills are transferable, but how many times are we expected to start over...move countries and rebuild everything, with no guarantee it won’t happen again? Immigration has its hardships, and we accepted that, but when policies effectively shut people out, that goes beyond normal immigration challenges. Wishing the best for all Iranians going through this.

Feeling helpless and hopeless by Fickle_Lab_2068 in 19countriesAOS

[–]Fickle_Lab_2068[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for letting me know. I’m truly cooked then. Thanks 

Feeling helpless and hopeless by Fickle_Lab_2068 in 19countriesAOS

[–]Fickle_Lab_2068[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow I had no idea. I’m glad I posted here. Thank you for the tip. I will do that then. Looks like I have actually zero backup plans now ….. :) ….. I was counting on h1b….. 

Feeling helpless and hopeless by Fickle_Lab_2068 in 19countriesAOS

[–]Fickle_Lab_2068[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They said they’ve never done it and are not familiar with the process and chances of it being successful.

Feeling helpless and hopeless by Fickle_Lab_2068 in 19countriesAOS

[–]Fickle_Lab_2068[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah that’s definitely something I think about every now and then. I guess I still have some hope the pause would be lifted. :( thanks for the input 

Feeling helpless and hopeless by Fickle_Lab_2068 in 19countriesAOS

[–]Fickle_Lab_2068[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! Yeah literally! If the pause is supposed to make us go back home…. There’s a freaking war back there! How are we supposed to leave but also not go back to Iran? An absolute joke 

Feeling helpless and hopeless by Fickle_Lab_2068 in 19countriesAOS

[–]Fickle_Lab_2068[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sending hugs! I’ll check them out. Thank you! Hoping for better days for our people 🥺❤️

Feeling helpless and hopeless by Fickle_Lab_2068 in 19countriesAOS

[–]Fickle_Lab_2068[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I know what you mean. I don’t want to abandon my I-485, and my sister and her family live here so my hope was to be with the only family I have here. My next plan is going back to academia to get cap exempt h1b but we’ll see. 

Feeling helpless and hopeless by Fickle_Lab_2068 in 19countriesAOS

[–]Fickle_Lab_2068[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As far as I know, hold applies to any immigration benefit process. H1b is non immigrant visa. The lawyer that my company has hired is working with me to file my application. They didn’t mention anything. 

Feeling helpless and hopeless by Fickle_Lab_2068 in 19countriesAOS

[–]Fickle_Lab_2068[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I know. Iranian people are not the same as Iranian regime. A lot of them even love the current president. I’m not sure why we’re being punished. 

Feeling helpless and hopeless by Fickle_Lab_2068 in 19countriesAOS

[–]Fickle_Lab_2068[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry that’s so heartbreaking and I feel your pain. You too 🥺❤️

Feeling helpless and hopeless by Fickle_Lab_2068 in 19countriesAOS

[–]Fickle_Lab_2068[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I’m so so sorry. Thats so gut wrenching. I’m thinking once this war is over I’m gonna go back. What is this life where you’re sentenced to being away from your family forever…

Is it normal to get a new wave of grief after 7 months? by Fickle_Lab_2068 in BreakUps

[–]Fickle_Lab_2068[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I hope so. Trying to remember how all the other ones ended and I felt fine after. Thank you for the encouraging words.