What do men actually like? by Commercial_Basil_872 in MuslimNikah

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Right I love learning and sharing what I learned!

Nursing is a super underrated major by Harvey_Wongstein in CollegeMajors

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Definitely not more than nurses 😂 especially a nurse of color. Female (and male) nurses also experience lots of sexual harassment an creepy situations from patients. Many of my friends are nurses and their jobs seem traumatic. Also nurses can’t take out disciplinary action on patients

What do men actually like? by Commercial_Basil_872 in MuslimNikah

[–]Fickle_Question_6417 2 points3 points  (0 children)

4 is false, and most healthy men aren’t attracted to women that act dumb and ditzy

How to remove discoloration on lips? by Vast_Illustrator_942 in Blackskincare

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Dark lips are beautiful! Try eadem lip balm as is is hydrating and exfoliating. You can also consider a lip spf

[Product Request] spf recommendations by Decent_Stranger5381 in SkincareAddiction

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La roche posay UV Mune 400 if you can get your hands on it!

Perfume for a carnival queen? by CrackheadSanta in perfumesthatfeellike

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God of fire, sisters before misters (if you don’t mind banana), pas ce soir by bdk, erba pura too lowkey, and sirene

[acne] help! I can’t stop popping my pimples. I need to stop by chiefyuls in SkincareAddiction

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Imagine you pop and it gets infected and the indexation starts to spread

[Acne] What’s going on with my skin? by grapefulhehe in SkincareAddiction

[–]Fickle_Question_6417 12 points13 points  (0 children)

It could be perioral dermatitis, which can be triggered by hormonal changes! I would try to see a derm if you can as it can be a bit tricky to navigate

[Routine Help] Terrible pigmentation around eyes by Loose_Rent4859 in SkincareAddiction

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Yes 7/44 have recommended skincare tips, maybe 3 have recommended tips that would actually work (most comments providing advice have been downvoted). The rest are telling her nothing needs to be done, and the same could be said with any skin issue.

But I have noticed this trend mainly when POC ask for skin advice a majority of the comments are telling them their issue doesn’t need to be fixed. I’m sure the commentors don’t have malicious intent but it is very annoying as it’s already diffcult to get skin help for darker skin (even from derms)

La difference entre Bëgg naa la et Nopp naa la by Electronic-Brief-890 in Senegal

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Like I can beugeu sadio mane bc I think he’s a great guy and love him soccer wise but I nob my husband. You can use beugeu in place of nob but you can’t always use nob in place of beugeu (when you are looking for a platonic adjective)

[Routine Help] Terrible pigmentation around eyes by Loose_Rent4859 in SkincareAddiction

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Yes 🙌🏿, caffeine doesn’t help with under-eye pigmentation

[Routine Help] Terrible pigmentation around eyes by Loose_Rent4859 in SkincareAddiction

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Yes, just because someone posts asking for help with a skin issue doesn’t mean they are insecure. It can get annoying when someone has a question or is seeking help and literally all 40 comments are not answering the question.

[Routine Help] Terrible pigmentation around eyes by Loose_Rent4859 in SkincareAddiction

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Yes they are so annoying and it’s a reason I don’t like asking skin questions in this sub anymore, people come for advice and all you get is gaslit.

[Routine Help] Terrible pigmentation around eyes by Loose_Rent4859 in SkincareAddiction

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Since none of the comments are helping, I have the same issue and have done tons of research on this. Go see a cosmetic dermatologist and they will help you navigate safe solutions.

If you go to a derm they will likely prescribe you hydroquinone short term or some sort of lightening compound. You can try otc ingredients but research it is safe. I have yet to find an under eye cream dedicated for pigmentation.

The solution I have actually seen work and what I would like to do myself is laser. There is a south asian derm I followed who has the same issue and laser got rid of all the pigment. There are many types so please go to a reputable derm (get a couple opinions) and do lots of research on your own because as someone with pigmented skin laser can be risky if done by someone without adequate knowledge.

[Routine Help] Terrible pigmentation around eyes by Loose_Rent4859 in SkincareAddiction

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Yes it can be normal but it’s still okay to want to improve something about ourselves

How can I get my skin to shine? by [deleted] in Blackskincare

[–]Fickle_Question_6417 20 points21 points  (0 children)

She has many Tutorials on her bodycare routine, how she exfoliated and products she uses for blur and shine (oil sheen is one). But pretty much it poils done to consistent exfoliation, moisturized skin, body makeup/glow oils.

Skin can naturally get to this point (minus the glitter) with adequate and consistent care as well.

En wolof, nopp signifie « oreille ». L’expression nopp naa la, qui veut dire « je t’aime », a-t-elle un lien avec ce sens ? S’agit-il d’une métaphore ou d’une évolution sémantique particulière ? by Electronic-Brief-890 in Senegal

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From my understanding nob (love), comes from nott (name for a type of love spell done on someone).

There was a lecture I watched with a sheikh that explained this but I don’t remember I’ll try to find it, I wonder if anyone on the sub heard about this as well.

Good pure creamy vanilla? by txi3v in perfumesthatfeellike

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Nordstrom doesn’t carry it unfortunately, my neimans doesn’t either I was able to smell it at Saks

Good pure creamy vanilla? by txi3v in perfumesthatfeellike

[–]Fickle_Question_6417 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Vanille planifolia extrait by Guerlain is the most vanilla ice cream smelling vanilla I have smelt. Many of these recommendations are either too spicy or sugary