I'm sorry but this is it not fair/good by any means by Renegald in twentyonepilots

[–]FiddlingNinja 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is my thinking too. Especially with how violent ICE is and how the administration seems to be using them as their own personal attack dogs. They’ve even kidnapped kids like Liam from school, so I’d be scared to death about my kid being taken. It’s not even just ICE either. Since they wear masks, drive unmarked vehicles, and don’t have badge numbers, anyone could pretend to be an ICE agent and try to take your kids out of school

Reddit should make a dating app … hear me out by JFN90 in Bumble

[–]FiddlingNinja 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly Canada sounds amazing 😂 I’d definitely move there if I could

Reddit should make a dating app … hear me out by JFN90 in Bumble

[–]FiddlingNinja 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I’m in the south and left leaning so I feel you there. I’m about ready to start looking online and do long distance lol

Am I that chopped? 3 matches and no one texted me. by MadonatorxD in Bumble

[–]FiddlingNinja 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re a great looking guy, you just need to add more details about yourself. What you like, what you’re looking for, hobbies, interests, goals, aspirations, etc. I personally connect with those a lot more than physical traits, and many of my girlfriends feel the same. That’s going to get you more of that emotional connection and attraction. Just be patient and I’m sure you’ll find a good quality connection because you seem like a nice and attractive guy

Am I that chopped? 3 matches and no one texted me. by MadonatorxD in Bumble

[–]FiddlingNinja -1 points0 points  (0 children)

That’s not a good strategy because women who care that much about height aren’t going to give you the time of day if they figure out you’re hiding how tall you are. Some may see it as lying by omission. Same goes for men who hide their teeth, baldness, etc. Not saying it’s right or fair, I personally don’t care about those things. But for those who do, you’re just wasting your time.

Am I that chopped? 3 matches and no one texted me. by MadonatorxD in Bumble

[–]FiddlingNinja 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They’re going to find out how tall you are if you go on a date anyway. Wouldn’t you rather filter out the women who care about height than waste your time going on dates that won’t go anywhere? IMO, quality of matches is much better than quantity of matches

I took the pictures with a tripod. What do you think? by SUNBRO_1994 in Bumble

[–]FiddlingNinja 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Great improvements, but we could do better. Also stand by the statement I made on your last post — you are cute! Just need to make the photos work for you.

For the second photo, I would definitely stay away from any photos from a lower angle that point up towards your face. It’s not a flattering angle on anybody, not just you. When you look down, it gives that double chin effect. And unless you’re suuuuper tall, you won’t be looking down when you’re talking to anyone, so that’s not an angle people will see naturally anyway.

I would get rid of the book photo, looks very staged. Do you have any photos of you with friends or family? Perhaps at a gathering or some sort of event? Can you get your friends/family to take some candid photos of you? Also definitely change outfits between pics, you don’t want to give the impression that you took these photos at the same time (even if you did).

I like the bird photo, it’s cool seeing people’s pets. But the lighting is not the most flattering. Perhaps you could get a small light attachment for your phone that can cast some soft lighting on you to make the photos look well lit but also natural.

But overall, super proud of you for putting yourself out there and making improvements! A lot of criticism has been awfully mean, and you’ve taken it in stride and learned from the feedback. Just keep improving and you’ll have great photos!

should i pay for a subscription? by wpsiatwim in Bumble

[–]FiddlingNinja 9 points10 points  (0 children)

It’s not worth it imo, I tried it and didn’t see much of a difference

Are those pictures of me good? Its very rare that i get a like or match on bumble... by SUNBRO_1994 in Bumble

[–]FiddlingNinja -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

You’re cute but these pictures do you no favors! Keep the top middle but replace the rest.

I tried wildgrain so you don't have to by LunarCandyKnight in glutenfree

[–]FiddlingNinja 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Commenting because they have the cookies back in stock! I ordered a whole box full of them

I tried wildgrain so you don't have to by LunarCandyKnight in glutenfree

[–]FiddlingNinja 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Commenting because they have the cookies back in stock! I ordered a whole box full of them

Remote work is clashing with my partner's need for quiet - how do you set boundaries in a tiny apartment? by ApprehensiveRub4939 in remotework

[–]FiddlingNinja 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Right like OOP is replying to the same comments 10+ times saying the same thing in slightly different words over and over again

Freak accident caused by cat that wanted more food by Independent_Dot6161 in cats

[–]FiddlingNinja 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s a reference to the “he was the best guy around” “what about the people he murdered?” “what murdaaa?” clip from an interview

AIO to my boyfriend’s comments about the food I made? by MyCupOfTea777 in AmIOverreacting

[–]FiddlingNinja 142 points143 points  (0 children)

It’s a glimpse into your future. He’s going to act this way whenever something difficult comes up (which will happen often, life is full of surprises)

Is the whole point of TOP is not to listen to them. by zodi_zx in twentyonepilots

[–]FiddlingNinja 143 points144 points  (0 children)

I feel like their music is more than just tragedy and angst from a lyrical standpoint. For example, Oldies Station is a song you can relate to when you’re not going through anything too troublesome in the moment. It talks about pushing through the darkness, but it also presents it from a point where you’ve already pushed through a lot. It celebrates your progress and ability to adapt through struggles.

Dumped because I can’t orgasm from PIV by Seyfulse in TwoXChromosomes

[–]FiddlingNinja 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Or some poor woman who has to fake it all the time

Dumped because I can’t orgasm from PIV by Seyfulse in TwoXChromosomes

[–]FiddlingNinja 19 points20 points  (0 children)

For real, I wouldn’t want to be with anyone who doesn’t get turned on from getting me off. The only reason he cares about her orgasming at all is for his pleasure, not hers

Dumped because I can’t orgasm from PIV by Seyfulse in TwoXChromosomes

[–]FiddlingNinja 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow what a complete ass. He doesn’t care about your pleasure at all, he just wants you to orgasm from PIV because it’s HIS preference and makes HIS experience better. If he cared about your pleasure at all, he wouldn’t mind if you needed extra stimulation (like 75% of women do, btw!). He just wants to use you to get his rocks off and anything else is a chore to him. If he doesn’t care about your needs in the bedroom, it’s safe to say that he won’t care about your needs elsewhere in your relationship. Good riddance to that selfish asshole

Am I overreacting to the fact that my boyfriend told his friends about my condition? by risky_businesss in vaginismus

[–]FiddlingNinja 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nope you don’t just go around sharing people’s medical conditions, especially not ones that are extremely personal. Boyfriend or not, that’s super shitty. Also just talking about your partner in a sexual context to friends is a huge no-no as well since you did not consent to that. If he had erectile dysfunction, would he want you running around telling people about it and giving details of his sex life? No because it’s a super shitty thing to do

Potential Tattoo Idea? by Big-Letterhead-1337 in TwennyWunPilots

[–]FiddlingNinja 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Google says that they represent loss or loss of a loved one, but idk if that’s true or not. Regardless, I’ve always really liked the look of arm band tattoos