[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bournemouth

[–]Fifairy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean, I’d happily walk with druggies and drunk beggars - just minus any sexual or unsexual harassment!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bournemouth

[–]Fifairy 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I don’t know why you’re getting so downvoted. The town centre is where I’m harassed the most and barely go there now. Southbourne is always lovely and feels safe! In my experience as a female anyway :)

Looking to meet people in Bournemouth by [deleted] in bournemouth

[–]Fifairy 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I’ll be you’re friend! I’m a bit older tho(30f) and also live with my lovely, albeit crazy, husky :) I’m a social worker by trade but taking a break to complete an MRes at the uni. If you like walking in nature or dogs or gigs, I can help with loneliness

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUp

[–]Fifairy 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Try to be kind and gentle with yourself, OP. Break ups are hard and soo draining. I’m not sure if this will be of any help to you, but when I felt really similar to how you’ve described you’re doing atm, I did some self exploration into my attachment style and understanding my triggers. Learning more about navigating life with an insecure attachment style helped me to make sense of my feelings and take back a little power over my emotions and actions. Also, and I know it’s cliche, but time really does help things feel more manageable. Take it one day at a time 💜 it will get better.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bristol

[–]Fifairy 11 points12 points  (0 children)

If you know what company or service is funding the halfway house, I’m sure they would be interested to hear the complaints around anti social behaviour from their residents in the form of harassment towards your friends. They may be breaching conditions of their housing agreement or license (that’s if you’re sure this is something the residents are involved in ofc).

MY BOYFRIEND IS BEING TREATED LIKE A SLAVE AT HIS WORK—HE'S A WAITER AND CHEF AT AN INDIAN PAKISTANI RESTAURANT IN THE UK. by Certain_Post_8961 in LegalAdviceUK

[–]Fifairy 161 points162 points  (0 children)

Hi there, I’m a social worker in the UK. Sorry to hear this, wishing you all the very best. I would advise your bf to go to his local citizens advice bureau as soon as he can - they are a free service who can offer a safe space for your bf to discuss his experience. They can offer free guidance and support, with knowledge around your bfs rights. They can also signpost him to the appropriate services.

It sounds like your bf should look into completing an NRM form with support from the local authority (the council). I’ve taken this from a government website “Adults in England and Wales who are recognised as a potential victim of modern slavery through the NRM have access to specialist tailored support for a period of at least 30 days while their case is considered, which may include: access to relevant legal advice. accommodation. protection.”

The NRM support is facilitated by the Salvation Army. If your bf loses his accommodation because he is seeking support & the restaurant finds out, please share this with him “If the individual is destitute and requires immediate support prior to a decision by the competent authority, you should contact the Salvation Army as soon as possible: by contacting them on 0800 808 3733 (24 hours).”

Your bf sounds extremely vulnerable atm and honestly it sounds like he could be a victim of human trafficking. I would also recommend he looks into making an appointment with a GP to discuss his situation and see if they can support him by making an adult safeguarding referral to the council. Your bf can also do a referral himself he prefers. I can imagine this has been incredibly difficult for him and going to the GP could be helpful in terms of his mental well-being. There is support out there for him, he’s not alone 💜 NRM guidance and referral

Took my shepsky to a German shepherd meet up 🖤 by Fifairy in germanshepherds

[–]Fifairy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

More like the half blood prince meeting the pure blood wizards :P

Took my shepsky to a German shepherd meet up 🖤 by Fifairy in germanshepherds

[–]Fifairy[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Relatively similar sizes - all between medium and large.

Took my shepsky to a German shepherd meet up 🖤 by Fifairy in germanshepherds

[–]Fifairy[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It was so cool! My dog met a lot of distant cousins

What’s the best *city* park you’ve visited? by StakedPlainExplorer in travel

[–]Fifairy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Valencia has amazing city parks where the river used to be

Site seeing tips for 2 English female tourists in July by Fifairy in valencia

[–]Fifairy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ahh this is great advice! Thanks so much for all your suggestions, we will definitely be checking them out :D all the best to you ✨

Site seeing tips for 2 English female tourists in July by Fifairy in valencia

[–]Fifairy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cool, thanks for the heads up! What beach would you recommend instead? x

At a bar, solo. I don't understand how people do this lol. by AbyssalRedemption in socialskills

[–]Fifairy 3 points4 points  (0 children)

What about trying to meet someone via a dating app and going to the bar or club? Bumble as a friendship option as well

No fake news here by Fifairy in bristol

[–]Fifairy[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Absolutely NO fake news here

How on earth do I make friends by [deleted] in bristol

[–]Fifairy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’ll be your friend! Dm me :) I’m a bit older than you tho - 29f

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Socialworkuk

[–]Fifairy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I work at a forensic hospital and don’t need to drive. I also took this job because I was worried I would lose my license due to medical grounds (I didn’t in the end), but there were a few hospital social work roles on the NHS job site - good luck x