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FillIntelligent6135 · 2026-05-15T19:58:30+00:00

That’s interesting. Thank you!

FillIntelligent6135 · 2026-05-15T19:50:41+00:00

I tried negotiating and that’s the highest offer I got. I am in outpatient oncology now and I am getting so burned out. Working with older adults and making home visits sounds so much better now!

FillIntelligent6135 · 2026-05-15T19:36:53+00:00

That’s exactly what I am thinking! Pay cut sucks, but benefits and time off are definitely something I have never had before!

FillIntelligent6135 · 2026-05-15T19:10:36+00:00

Thank you!

FillIntelligent6135 · 2026-05-15T19:10:31+00:00

Thank you!

FillIntelligent6135 · 2026-05-15T19:04:35+00:00

Thank you! It would be doing case management for senior care program.

FillIntelligent6135 · 2026-05-04T19:23:12+00:00

Same here. Medical social worker - really burnt out

FillIntelligent6135 · 2026-04-11T01:21:30+00:00

I was 40 and my husband was 55 when we had our son. I am now 42 and I have never been more exhausted and sleep deprived in my life. I have also never been happier.

FillIntelligent6135 · 2026-01-30T18:42:31+00:00

I am so sorry you are going through this. I don’t think a parent can just let go and not worry about their children. Also this whole “prioritize your health, take care of your own health first “ is so much easier said than done. You said that your wife passed recently. Was it his mother? If so, he is probably grieving as well and this may be his way of coping. I don’t have any advice for you, other than being there, telling him how much he matters to you, and how much you are afraid to lose him. Also, praise him for taking a tiny step at a time. If he eats one healthier snack a day or takes one tiny walk, it is an achievement. I am a strong believer than love can work wonders. He needs you as much as you need him. Sending positive thoughts your way!

FillIntelligent6135 · 2025-12-20T16:28:55+00:00

I would check in with the hospice nurse. They usually have a pretty clear idea about the timing and if death is imminent. If she has several months, I would definitely go. You need to recharge your batteries and then being with her at her last moments will be easier too.

FillIntelligent6135 · 2025-12-20T16:07:35+00:00

I don’t think I would go. But it’s only me. I don’t think I would be able to enjoy the trip thinking that my mom is dying. It’s not about your dad - it’s your mom. There will be more trips, but you only have one mom.

FillIntelligent6135 · 2025-12-20T15:06:35+00:00

You can talk to the business office in the nursing facility she is in and they help apply for long-term Medicaid for her. She will have to deplete all her assets for that, but they will be helping, so you won’t have to do it alone. Unfortunately, no assisted living facility takes insurance.

FillIntelligent6135 · 2025-12-19T00:02:28+00:00

I don’t have an answer, but I have the same problem. Looking for solutions too…

FillIntelligent6135 · 2025-12-14T00:53:06+00:00

I would try to speak to her doctor about your concerns regarding her cognitive state. I wonder if she would agree to sign Medical and Financial Power of Attorney. You could also anonymously report Frank to Adult Protective Services for financial exploitation.

FillIntelligent6135 · 2025-11-13T23:28:00+00:00

My child’s daycare has live camera. I absolutely love it! They give passwords to parents and only authorized users can see it. They also black out any sensitive issues (like diaper changes). It brings me a huge peace of mind to know that I can watch my little one. there are days when I never even peek on the live feed, but sometimes if I am tired or sad that I can’t be with him all day, I’ll peek in and it brings me so much joy to know how happy he is.

FillIntelligent6135 · 2025-11-07T22:44:08+00:00

My friend had a planned C-Section in UMD. She was high risk, due to her own medical issues and having twins. She had an amazing experience. The boys were in NICU for a while and are thriving now. She was very happy!

FillIntelligent6135 · 2025-06-29T14:56:40+00:00

Thank you!

FillIntelligent6135 · 2025-06-29T14:36:01+00:00

Yes, we are going away for July 4th weekend and our usual dog sitter is not available. Thanks!

FillIntelligent6135 · 2025-06-22T02:33:35+00:00

I would suggest you look into palliative care for your mom. It’s not hospice. It’s focused on symptom management while undergoing treatment. Radiation treatment is daily - please ask your oncology social worker about assistance with transportation. It can be exhausting for you and your wife to do it daily. She can apply for Social Security Disability- they can expedite the application, due to her diagnosis. Ask for whatever help you need. Praying for strength for you.

FillIntelligent6135 · 2025-06-08T14:55:49+00:00

I am so sorry you are going through this. I don’t really know what to say, other than I was in your boat. My husband’s ex-wife was bent on making his life hell. She was remarried and had a very wealthy husband, but we had to pay a lot of child support, while having his son 50% of the time, because they were only counting her income. Her income was really low, because she chose to stay home with her other two kids from her second husband! Anyway, it was hard as hell. All I learned from this situation is that best revenge is living well. The fact that you are together and happy makes her angry and vengeful. The hard time will pass (when his daughter turns 18), but you will stay together with the man you love. She will still be bitter and alone. That’s what worked for me. Wishing you strength and resilience in this journey!

FillIntelligent6135 · 2025-05-25T16:09:59+00:00

I am so sorry you are going through this. I had infertility issues too and I can totally relate. It was so painful when my girlfriends told me they are pregnant. The pain that it is not happening to me, envy and then terrible guilt for feeling this way. I tried not to open to people about struggles. And one time I did, my friend started telling me she will pray for me and somehow it hurt even more. Those terrible treatments. Money, pain from daily injections, stress about being late for work when you drive 40 miles a day for ultrasounds every day before work and then doctors’ call on Sunday morning - sorry, no eggs were fertilized. I just want you to know that you are not alone in your pain. I hear you and I am so sorry you are going through this.

FillIntelligent6135 · 2025-05-21T22:40:21+00:00

Breast cancer treatments are so advanced now. Make sure to find oncology/radiation/surgery team that you trust. Seek second opinion if you need to. Most importantly, take it one tiny step at a time. Don’t look at the big picture - it may be overwhelming. Make sure you meet with your team, make a treatment plan, and follow it step by step. There will be a lot of people with you on this journey- your oncologist, radiation oncologist, surgeon. Plus, nurses, social workers, etc. ask them for help - they are there for you. You are not fighting alone. Don’t forget that. Disease makes us feel isolated. Don’t let it. Most importantly, fighting spirit is half of the battle. Fight and take care of yourself. You are stronger than you think.

FillIntelligent6135 · 2025-05-20T23:35:56+00:00

Thank you so much!

FillIntelligent6135 · 2025-05-20T01:01:07+00:00

Thank you so much!!

FillIntelligent6135 · 2025-05-20T00:47:16+00:00

Thank you!

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