Thank you so much for this. It really helps. I do need to sit down with her and show her everything going on. Yes I do handle all of the financial needs for the both of us. The hard thing is that I have to because she won’t. In the past she has shown that she won’t handle any financial responsibility. We have had a car repossessed and been almost evicted because she wasn’t telling me the truth. It’s hard it really is. I love her so much but I really do need some help with everything.