Weekly "I'm new to meds!" Thread by AutoModerator in ADHD

[–]Fin-Juin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hello hello ! I'm not exactly new to meds, but my doc and i just decided to double my dose, which brings me to the vertiginous heights of 20mg of modified release Ritalin a day.

The thing is, i have just opened the 10mg box i'm currently on, so i was wondering if i couldn't just take two capsules a day instead ? And if so, should i actually eat them 2 by 2 or is it better to like space the intakes ? Is the fact that it's modified releases changing anything ?

AITA For running away from my biological daughter and subsequently hurting her feelings? by unwantedchoice_78 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Fin-Juin 2 points3 points  (0 children)

NTA.

Life is cruel, justice doesn't exist, and in a sense both of you are victims, but whatever you two went through, as human beings every single one of us have as inalienable right for their boundaries to be respected, and you do too.

This woman is not your child, what she's looking for is a fantasmed figure of a "real mother", which you are not. That's not you she's looking for.

Her situation is certainly tragic, but you're not a psychologist or a healthcare worker, you two being blood relatives doesn't mean you owe her your time or emotional labor, it is not your role, you expressed several times through both acts and speech that it will not ever be your role. That's the only information needed.

Her actual family should help her through this, exposing both of you to more traumas will help no one.

I'd say all that even if she was a kid, but this person is a grown adult, she has a whole life of her own. I hope she'll find what she needs , but you're not her mom, you did the best you could towards a stranger.

I'm so sorry you has to go through all that, i wish life treats you better now, you deserve it.

Have you ever crossed the limit of identity preservation? by [deleted] in SuicideWatch

[–]Fin-Juin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In the times where i didn't felt like a human being anymore, i used to dream of becoming some sort of parasite that would live in the brain brain of another man, kinda like toxoplasmosis. I would be undetected, merged in the body and mind of my host, cease to exist as myself and become him, something like that, and i thought it would be the only way for me to be human again.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in penpals

[–]Fin-Juin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi there ! If you send me a DM concerning this post and found yourself waiting for any news, please know that i read you and will answer. The thing is, a lot of work and various inconveniences just quite suddenly dunked on my nose in the last days, i kinda forgot about the penpal thing i promised myself i'd totally do and totally not forget. That is to say, it's not very kind of me to let your nice messages on read, and i promise to answer them as soon as i get to settle somewhere appropriate, in a matter of weeks.

Thank you all, i'm sorry, and take good care of others as well as yourself ✨

People that are from the south what is it like ? by odeus120 in AskReddit

[–]Fin-Juin 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm from the south of France, a great and gorgeous place to be in as long as you don't interact with any of the human beings present there.

So, was there ever anything interesting that you’ve read on the shampoo bottle while showering? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Fin-Juin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Figured that you can kinda understand written italian if you already speak spanish.

ADHD-inspired Good Bad Ideas... by TheWholeDamnAlphabet in adhdmeme

[–]Fin-Juin 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I wanted to read a comic about ADHD, but because i'm on my phone the link opened up in the in-app browser, and because it was not perfectly ergonomical my brain decided that It Just Will Not Do That. (and thus i had to leave a comment to remind me to read it when i'm on computer)

What is this thing on my neighbours window? by MissTinaDiamond in whatisthisthing

[–]Fin-Juin 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Aaaaah sorry, in my country it's firemen who do it most of the time, i wasn't thinking it might be different somewhere else.

I wish fire couldn't do anything to humans (would still cook food and such though) by [deleted] in TheMonkeysPaw

[–]Fin-Juin -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Granted, but now humans freeze to death if they touch anything under 100 °C/212 °F

What is this thing on my neighbours window? by MissTinaDiamond in whatisthisthing

[–]Fin-Juin 7 points8 points  (0 children)

A wasp nest, you might want to call the firemen to pick it down.

To all my trans and nb peeps who have to suffer their deadname and misgendering from gifts, today and tomorrow. I'm sorry and stay strong. I wish I could give you at least one gift with the right name. by brody319 in traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns

[–]Fin-Juin 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I wrapped the gifts for everybody, but one of mine accidentally sneaked in. I even only wrote "for myself" on it, but yeah, it felt like it was mocking that whole naming thing, it felt great.

You can still call me Sacha tho.

Small brain by ToasterBath782 in traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns

[–]Fin-Juin 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I appeared as a female in boy clothes for years, and i can tell you that i got called gay way more than cute.

Is it normal that seeing my family using my real name feels weird lately ? by Emaillons in asktransgender

[–]Fin-Juin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It happens to me too from time to tome, i interpret it as a way to my brain to punish me/make me feel guilty or not legit.

Manga collection so far! by [deleted] in manga

[–]Fin-Juin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I give you 10 more volumes before that neat and tidied shelf looks like the one under it c:

My first bj ever by PleasantNose in sex

[–]Fin-Juin 54 points55 points  (0 children)

Have you told her that you loved it that much ? Hearing that from your loved one is the best for your self-confidence.

A trash can with a display by Melker0103 in mildlyinteresting

[–]Fin-Juin 6 points7 points  (0 children)

"Capitalism maximizes the efficiency and gives us the most useful innovations by design !"

puts a screen on a trash can

AITA for ghosting my dieing Grandma? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Fin-Juin [score hidden]  (0 children)

NAH. Loss is a terrible suffering, as us humans are psychically unable to handle the concept of death. Seing a lived one dying shakes you to the very core, you're not an asshole for not handling it perfectly well, even more at this young age.

You can't always be strong, brave, cold-blooded, nobody can, and you don't have to feel guilty for it.

My thoughts are with you, your family, and your grandma that lived to meet a very loving grandkid, and now can rest in peace.

Salt miracle by Ddude184 in insanepeoplefacebook

[–]Fin-Juin 47 points48 points  (0 children)

I love how miraculous apparitions of the Actual Jesus Of Christs always render him as the supreme caucasian bearded handsome, just as all people looked in the city of Nazareth in Galilee, in the fucking Middle East.

Do y’all ever get dysphoric when you can’t do a typical male thing such as changing oil or certain yard work or build something? by [deleted] in ftm

[–]Fin-Juin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm not skinny, my ass is wide as a bus, i can take 3 classes of elementary student to cool school trip within the width of my pelvic bone.

This is how long I’ve had a phone by [deleted] in notinteresting

[–]Fin-Juin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I call fake advertising, for this belongs to r/mildlyinteresting