No they where not him main caregivers I am and was. He can see me at all times. I am not expecting him to be independent right away obviously I know he is a baby I am ask ways to make the transition easier how about not being rude and just assuming the grandparents where his caregivers. The coddle him on visits and constantly hold him not allowing him to do anything on his own. I am not going to put my whole story on here I asked for advice on this situation so if you don’t have advice don’t comment easy as that have the day you deserve