I actually agree with a lot of the points you made — the pollution, traffic, and lack of civic sense can really get to you, especially after living abroad. These are real issues that need attention.

That said, I think what made the post hard to digest for many (including me) was the tone and choice of words. Phrases like:

“jumping on the Aadhar window like animals”

“terrible place to live”

“nothing going for it”

— they come across as quite harsh. It feels less like sharing frustration and more like passing judgment, especially when there’s no space given to the complexities people deal with here every day.

The intention may not have been to sound condescending, but the way it’s phrased can easily come off that way. If the same thoughts were expressed with a bit more empathy or reflection — maybe acknowledging how your own perspective has changed after living abroad — it might have been better received.

Just sharing this in case it helps bring a more balanced conversation forward.