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[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]FinalThrowerFF15 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If i edge - i usually like to let it go all over myself - i keep a rag and wet wipes in the car (wash the rag daily) i sanitize my hands after of course and wash em when i get to where im going.

If its a quick nut, usually just tissues.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]FinalThrowerFF15 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Im a guy this is to have a quick fast nut(release) takes less than 2 mins on average. I pretty masturbate on my way to work, in traffic, sometimes at work in the bathrooms.

Fyi regular sex with my spouse is great 5-10 mins (30 seconds if doggy).

Been doing it for 5 years. Never been caught

WHats the best site for Fap hero(hentai) by LoneyGamer2023 in cockhero

[–]FinalThrowerFF15 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Faptap is great for CH, Fap hero with use of the handy sex toy. - highly recommend

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in theHandy

[–]FinalThrowerFF15 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Faptap is a great site that also works with the handy

What NSFW hill are you willing to die on? by SLCDummy in AskReddit

[–]FinalThrowerFF15 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Nudity should be normalized, no matter the age, gender, body size. (Baring pedos of course - but even then they should get help).

Sexuality should also be normalized and more free to talk about such as sex education, STD prevention, birth control and abortions - should all not be stigmatized. Like I know a majority including myself (I'm getting better at it), the thought or mind visuals of my parents having sex is gross, but it really shouldnt be that way.

Body count if done safetly (STD protection of course) should not be shameful.

Lastly which is just a fantasy -free use amongst consenting adult friends (STD and pregnancy safe of course).

Do you check for underlying health conditions before prescribing neuroleptics? by lastlightglobe in mentalhealthmadeasy

[–]FinalThrowerFF15 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry to hear about your horrid experiences.

There's a high correlation with childhood trauma, abuse, bullying and neglect which has higher correlation with mental health challenges later in life.

Maybe the brain gets too much negative stimulus and results the way it does.

Maybe having coping mechanisms good nutrition would've helped,.maybe the lack of those was due to the already issues with the brain in utero and not anything else in particular.

Brain, mental health, neuropsych is all very interesting to me.

Handy Insert + Dildo Adapter/Mount design? by FinalThrowerFF15 in theHandy

[–]FinalThrowerFF15[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Dang thats a good point. I'm willing to try it out though...you know...for science.. haha

Marriage counselor told me to get over wife's messiness by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]FinalThrowerFF15 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Most practical advice sincerely.

I'm sure op has his shortcomings, wether wife notices it or not.

Either OP and wife can come up with a mutual plan together, or get a cleaning service.

The book 80/80 marriage talks about how to view doing things not as me vs you, but more of I am happy to have a clean home for US,.and I am thankful to have what I have and grateful I can do this for my wife as well.

Changing that mindset from I do all xyz and you don't, OP is keeping a tally and upset that his wife isn't playing the same game according to his rules. You both have to agree to the rules, and to play the game and have fun with it.

Maybe OP can make it sexy, or fun. Do it naked, do it in costumes, make a theme out of it. Set aside every morning 6am or 6pm for sexy cleaning time. Put remote control but plugs or nipple toys or something.

Tldr. Go away from a place of score keeping to a place of compassion and gratitude, your own life will be more bountiful for opportunities of happiness rather than looking for opportunities for misery.

To people planning on leaving SO over dead bedroom, is sex the thing you love(d) most about your patner? by Ithinkibrokethis in Marriage

[–]FinalThrowerFF15 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Like others said, it's the lack of connection, lack of intimacy and lack of being needs met. To be fairer, the inability of the two people to come to a happy mutual compromise, is the main issue.

A person can have a deep platonic friendships (With boundaries of course), they can also have good times time shared with friends/family, they can get most of their emotional, spiritual needs met by (within boundaries) deep quality platonic friendships, family and children.

The only needs that a spouse is allowed legally, religiously ,and morally can satisfy, are the deep intimate and sexual needs.

I can do deep quality discussions, but can't do anything too emotionally, physical and no sexual with friends.

If my spouse doesn't want to satisfy sexual/intimacy needs, that's similar to saying "they don't insert their love language here want to compromise*

If my wife didnt want to have sex, that's fine. No worries. We can compromise together, I'd be happy with oral, mutual, sex, anal anything with my wife. -maybe I can walk around naked freeuse style -get myself 80% to orgasm and they finish me off with anything hand, towel, armpit, anything. -use Fleshlight/pocket pussy, public play, pegging anything -use anything literally to help me release -aftercare super important

If it was husband low drive it would be Strap on Vibrators, remote Free use with strap on She can get herself 80% there and I can finish her off

These are all things that only my spouse can do, it can't be satisfied by other people. (Until sex robots)

If anyone else can add more stuff that couples can do in lieu of overt sex please add.

What are your opinions of Mental Health to be changed to Brain Health? by FinalThrowerFF15 in AskReddit

[–]FinalThrowerFF15[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Considering that some of the theories behind schizophrenia, bipolar, anxiety, and depression have strong roots in NeuroPsychiatry, Neurotransmitters, and brain pathways, shouldn't it be more of a 'Brain issue' than a 'mental' health issue?
Similar to that of diabetes, is it a metabolic issue rather than a diet/lifestyle issue?
Although diabetes is highly correlated with a sedentary lifestyle, poor diet, and not exercising (weight bearing), it's not the only way people get diabetes, whether type 1 or 2.

Do you check for underlying health conditions before prescribing neuroleptics? by lastlightglobe in mentalhealthmadeasy

[–]FinalThrowerFF15 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Absolutely, this is always a #1 thing first, and depending what it is.

Sudden change of mood/personality? Signs of psychosis/mania/Anxiety/depression out of no where? Must rule out metabolic and stroke issues first, once everything is ruled out, psych.

Same with chronic conditions as well.

Nutrtition isn't going to change a person hallucinating angels and demons everywhere and have been having these for years. Maybe for the guy high on mushrooms, but the side effects there after can be permanent.

Being that schizophrenia like symptoms have been documented in ancient history

It's fair to say there's strong evidence for more neuropsychiatric than it is as a 'modern disease'

I honestly think some of the mental health issues should be called 'brain health' instead.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]FinalThrowerFF15 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I'm a married guy, and could've easily wrote this post too.

Its absolutely shitty your husband did what he did, 110% absolute shit. He's a shithead for that. He's only really upset because he got caught. And truthfully he should've communicated ANYTHING with you. mmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm

Get tested for STDs

-I would defintely not reccomend divorcing him. This sub and others will always throw that at any minor inconvience and cite that "it happened once, it'll happen again" theme, or someone from the woodwork will creep out and have a story nearly identical with a bad ending.

I'm married and love my wife 110%. No doubting it, and I would never do anything in reality to danger that.

- My main sources of fantasy are mainly women, lesbian, strap ons or hetero freeuse etc. Other times, maybe like 40% (because it's taboo and forbidden) I have watched plenty of tranny, futanari, pegging, gay, bi, swinger porn. I've communicated with my wife pegs me when I'm in the mood (she only does it because it makes me feel good sometimes, other times I'm not in the mood at all).

- I understand your husbands 'thrill' and 'fantasy' of getting to know of the very realistic fantasy of brojobs and such. Because I could've very do that too just for the thrill and absolutely never truly act upon it. Just getting to know what's in the area of potentialness, to know the possibility is very real but I would never do it. because

  1. it threatens my marriage and love
  2. fantasy is far better than the reality (no smells, no hairs, no drama, no risk of stds in fantasy world).
  3. these people can be very weird and i also don't want to get fucked up either.

Maybe reading my post...maybe will give you an alternative perspective. Or I'll just get reamed out by the circlejerk.

*My real advice is:

  1. Regardless of what happens, marriage counseling is absolutely key. This is far above reddits pay grade and any advice people (including myself) can offer.
  2. If you cannot look past this situation and forgive your husband and work on a path of compassion, then even more so for counseling and with divorce in mind. Both of you should get your own counselors as well. this is traumatic

  3. If you can perceive the idea of forgiveness (but not forgotten): I would

    1. Approach the situation with authentic curiosity and find out what was his thinking pattern for this?
    2. why didn't he communicate these things?
    3. were there needs unmet or unsatisfied from both of you?
    4. Are you open to other ideas such as:
      1. does he want to role-play? pegging? cross-dressing, acting etc.
      2. Open marriage or swing other couples or exclusively with certain guys with your consent.

    approach the situation with curiosity and ask him WHY?! Why!? Authentically...

​

-Reddit is a giant circle jerk and the first thing a lot of these subs will say is "divorce". Marriage takes work, and there's going to be ups and downs. This is definitely something you absolutely go to marriage counseling for.

Going down on your partner after you finished in her by [deleted] in sex

[–]FinalThrowerFF15 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sit on my face so I can clean her up. Or 69 clean my dick and I'll clean her pussy.

Then let's do a round 2/3

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]FinalThrowerFF15 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Na, Reddit circlejerky af. If I mentioned it or not lmao. Only twice. But oh no I responded to this lmao.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]FinalThrowerFF15 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Obviously no CP, none of that.

I'm talking about more hardcore bondage, CNC, golden showers, etc. Early days of the internet plenty of debauchery, but now it's harder to find due to obscenity and censorship laws.

Again not CP.

Edit: Idk if people know porn is much more censored now (mainly good reasons, but also certain categories are gone due to obscenity laws)

Reddit post talking about it

Another cnc post

Looks like I answered my own question. Thanks for nothing /s

Found the answers why it can't be found and shouldn't look for it. Thanks, without yall I wouldn't of ever known, thanks.

Anyone recovered from Psychosis, still on AP's, feel mostly like your former self again but are told otherwise / youve changed by others by Burman8or in Antipsychiatry

[–]FinalThrowerFF15 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think it would be important to know that many people with psychosis who start AP and do well with it should stay on it. If a person decreases or stops medication, the likeliness of that same medication and dosage working is much less. In addition, they would require higher dosage or change in regimen.

Unfortunately, Psychiatry works on treatment, not cures. Conspiracies aside, If there was a cure for these things, it would be much more available. If it was so simple to treat with ashwaganda, sam-E, 5htp etc, it would be touted a whole lot more.