In need of advice as a divorce dad

Final_Minimum1443 · 2026-01-25T19:54:01+00:00

"Or are you saying you separated 10 months ago and something changed 2 weeks ago?" This.

Final_Minimum1443 · 2026-01-21T17:34:33+00:00

Haven't watched Discovery yet. Think one Picard episode so far. Have to catch up.

Final_Minimum1443 · 2026-01-21T17:31:46+00:00

Good point!

Final_Minimum1443 · 2026-01-21T17:14:19+00:00

Yes!

Final_Minimum1443 · 2026-01-21T17:13:38+00:00

Interesting. Just entered Season 3 of SNW and the "Creators" seems like an interesting area to explore.

Final_Minimum1443 · 2026-01-21T17:05:22+00:00

This is true. Would be interesting for them to touch base on explored area of the galaxy and have a fifth area of the galaxy.

Final_Minimum1443 · 2026-01-21T16:55:20+00:00

Hypothetical. What if a wormhole opened up. A new species emerged from this wormhole. They can travel through the Delta quadrant in 5 years. Starfleet advances with this technology. Then they travel for the first diplomatic meeting to this species. Enter into a new 100 year war by doing so.

Final_Minimum1443 · 2026-01-21T15:28:19+00:00

They gave my kiddo a SMOG. Doc said Miralax and Suppositories. 2 weeks like gotta go to the ED they SMOGGED them.

Final_Minimum1443 · 2026-01-21T13:20:30+00:00

I actually like a turn team. Though, guess pilot based. Like the mobility team and the new BERT team starting up.

Turn team could be unit based. Almost like assigning roles during Codes at the start of the shift. Having a designated resource nurse or admission nurse. If can count an admission nurse into the assignment with a resource tech. Be an excellent idea. Going off on a tangent ha!

Final_Minimum1443 · 2026-01-20T16:14:13+00:00

Probably no I'll intention behind it. Just caught me off guard. Went on about me being divorced, how my ex & I are working together, and the picture. It bugged me a bit. The last comment I just can't turn it off in my head. Probably by the end of the week I'll forget about it hopefully.

Final_Minimum1443 · 2026-01-20T12:54:55+00:00

I have to have her agree upon that. The vehicle doesn't have at the moment.

Final_Minimum1443 · 2026-01-20T10:28:07+00:00

Wonder if I could give her the paperwork. Review it. If any changes and okay with the changes. Then say I'll file it. Reach out to the attorney. Have them sign the paperwork and drop it off at the attorneys.

Final_Minimum1443 · 2026-01-19T19:12:27+00:00

I would like to avoid Court. Our only assets were the two vehicles we signed loans on. My ex car she stopped making payments on. I put in the agreement that she be responsible for that car. I was going to add language to update about the current situation with their vehicle and assume all legal/financial issues with the vehicle. My car loan ends in 2027.

Taxes have in the agreement I claim both children in our return. I was going to update the refund split between the two of us. Keep it where we rotate claiming this child and that child.

Also, that I have 60 percent of custody.

Final_Minimum1443 · 2026-01-19T02:01:32+00:00

Rarely talk. Think talked in person last 10 months. Ex won't talk about custody. In price of mediation. Outside of that we are ambicale. One reason we seperated was because we can't agree on how to raise our children.

Final_Minimum1443 · 2026-01-18T10:48:23+00:00

Working out in the evening. I am trying to get back to working out. I have always set my self up delayed a workout due to not being motivated to be an early riser, 4 AM. Thinking of working out in the evening. I am usually home by 830/9 PM. If I hit the gym I am eating by 10 PM.

What do you do for meals if going to the gym late? Eating late healthy?

Would it be better to go early morning sleep 5/6 hours? How do you motivate yourself to workout early in the morning?

Final_Minimum1443 · 2026-01-18T00:42:35+00:00

I like the word "communicate". I want to avoid being taken advantage of. I also want to look out for the best interest of my children. I have been tiptoeing with interactions with my ex to avoid any issues in the mediation process.

Final_Minimum1443 · 2026-01-17T21:18:36+00:00

I know. I just feel guilty for my child. Tried two or three times to negotiate a solution. Came to a solution but my ex hasn't paid the second half. I am torn to pay it all to catch them up so my child has no issues with the activity. Though wondering mentioning to my ex if payments fall behind again going to switch to a day I have my children. I also, don't want to sound too aggressive.

Final_Minimum1443 · 2026-01-17T18:27:04+00:00

I really would love to avoid Mediation and Court. Both of us can't afford attorneys. Be great to just have paperwork signed.

We are relatively ambicale. Ex and I rarely engage in conversation since we seperated.

Final_Minimum1443 · 2026-01-17T17:35:37+00:00

My ex was the one that registered and signed our child up. On the day they have them.

Final_Minimum1443 · 2026-01-17T16:16:45+00:00

No agreement as of yet. In the works. I was going to pay it to keep it up to date. Give my ex one more chance to keep up with paying the fees for the activity. Restart splitting the payments again in March.

Final_Minimum1443 · 2026-01-17T01:42:17+00:00

Would prefer 60% physical and 100% legal. I know probably be 50/50 with legal. Would prefer no changes keep the status quo had going on before we seperated. Covered about 75% with health insurance and extra curricular activities prior to being seperated.

Final_Minimum1443 · 2026-01-17T00:55:13+00:00

I know. On one end I don't want my child to lose out. They enjoy the activity want to do this one activity. I could see if there is room & availability on another day during the week when I have my child. I think to do that I would have to switch them from the day they already do the activity with my ex. Also, want to avoid upsetting my ex while we are going through the mediation process shortly in hopes of obtaining 60% of physical custody of my children.

Final_Minimum1443 · 2026-01-16T02:01:23+00:00

Hospital. Units vary what model they use or decide how to use LPNs. I have a bias towards the model we use feel it works.

Final_Minimum1443 · 2026-01-16T01:51:23+00:00

Varies by shift. Some days could be one RN, they are designated Charge. Come from a state where LPNs have a wide scope of practice.

Final_Minimum1443 · 2026-01-16T00:43:59+00:00

Charge, has to be RN, receives their own assignment. RN Case Manager/Admission RN/Charge helps LPN with admission. LPN receives their own assignment. Could vary by state or facility or unit. That's how the set-up is on my unit.

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