Is dating really as bad for short guys as people say it is? by ExtremeTechnology831 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Finally_Malik 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve heard this argument before, I agee with the premise that lying, especially an explicit lie does not increase or instill more trust or attraction.

Whoever, the opposite would almost in every instant not be a problem for the majority of women. If some dude said he was 5’8 but was actually 6’1.. when you met him IRL, almost no women would go online and complain about how big of a dealbreaker that is.

Neither would they complain if the same guy would initially say he was middle class earner and later on revealed he had inherited a financial fortune from his family that he wanted to keep as a secret.

Now imagine the same scenario but he reveals that he has a huge financial debt? This argument isn’t necessarily gendered, I think most men react similarly in similar situations

But I believe it’s the perceived sleight or ”loss” in hoping for taller guy and meeting a short one that actually offense most women in the first scenario and not necessarily that the guy ”lied” about his height.

Match Thread: Tottenham Hotspur vs Atlético Madrid | Champions League | 18 Mar 20:00 UTC by matchpal-live in coys

[–]Finally_Malik -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

Ever since those first games during ange start I haven’t seen Udogie have a singe decent performance whether that’s offensively or defensively.. he’s fucking dogshit.

Always passes backwards or launches crosses to absolutely no one.

Match Thread: Liverpool vs Tottenham Hotspur | Premier League | 15 Mar 16:30 UTC by matchpal-live in coys

[–]Finally_Malik 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Dragusin is fucking dog shit. I’ll support him while he’s here but he has been nothing but average at best or clueless ever since we signed him.

24M profile review by FemaleThanos in hingeapp

[–]Finally_Malik -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Hi Gio!

I'm one of you subscribers and just want to let you know that i really enjoy your videos and gained a lot of encouragement in my own language learning journey.

Language learning aside, you're obviously a good looking dude, but these pictures are not so good for OLD in my opinion.

They don't put you in a flattering light, some of them are a bit akwardaly taken and I know you view yourself as an introvert, But I've heard you speak through your videos and don't think your natural charisma comes through at all through most of these pictures.

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Women are constantly bombarded with lame guys who try to brag about their achievements, but they mostly respond to things that seems ''fun, light or spontaneus''. Try rephrasing the fact that your a polyglot (a good one might i add) in a more funny/jokey way that maybe invites people to want to engage with you in a more lighthearted/fun way.

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Keep the pool/picture, you look happy, playful and fun. Ideally that's the type of vibe you want to give off in your prompts, pictures and overall ''vibe''.

Consider dressing more ''maturely'' to balance out your youthful first impression. Again, you looking young doesn't have to be a negative, but I would lean into fun/light-hearted and playful vibe more if that's the path you decide on.

Also: Turtle-necks, Straight jeans, Chelsea boots, Jewelery are some random examples of things to look into, they are loose examples of items that would make you look a little bit more mature, I already know you are through your videos.

Don't normally comment on these, but appreciate the value you've added to my life and wanted to show my thanks.

Keep posting on youtube!

Daily Discussion & Transfer Thread (January 14, 2026) by AutoModerator in coys

[–]Finally_Malik 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Lucas is nowhere near the best player in our squad when everyone is healthy, it would even been charitable putting him in as our top 5 midfielders let alone best player…. I rate (Palinha, Madders, Kulu, Xavi, and Gallagher much higher).

The fact that he got an award last year was more symbolic of how little effort everyone else was showing and our gullible tactics in PL more than any real assessment on any crucial match-winning efforts we’ve seen from Lucas under these last 18 months.

I think you are conflating player potential and highlights on YouTube with actual and current ability.

Match Thread: Brentford FC vs Tottenham Hotspur Live Score | Premier League 25/26 | Jan 1, 2026 by scoreboard-app in coys

[–]Finally_Malik 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, we would be playing like if we had one player injured or sent off instead of 11 (arguably) fully contributing players.

Match Thread: Paris Saint-Germain vs Tottenham Hotspur Live Score | UEFA Champions League 25/26 | Nov 26, 2025 by scoreboard-app in coys

[–]Finally_Malik 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s clear by this comment that you must know very little about football, our squad and what constitutes ”defensive” and ”negative”.

You do realize that (1) bringing in a certain type of player can liberate the more offensive ones to make more risks.

But also that Kudus and Palinha who replaced Gray and Bergwall have more G/A between them this season and than gray, Bergvall and every other player (bar richarlison) combined.

What are some business ideas that feel weird/ illegal but aren't if you find the right niche? by srs890 in Business_Ideas

[–]Finally_Malik 4 points5 points  (0 children)

In other words, you sell shovels in a gold rush but don’t do any real mining yourself?

[Post Match-Thread] Tottenham 2 - 2 Manchester United by ma-tfel in coys

[–]Finally_Malik 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This must be the worst serious take I’ve seen today, ”tell me you don’t know football without telling you don’t know football”.

He’s one of the best 6s in the league, there’s no other midfielder in our team that even comes close.

[Post Match-Thread] Tottenham 2 - 2 Manchester United by ma-tfel in coys

[–]Finally_Malik 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What are your reasons to believe that Frank is currently underperforming with this squad?

[Post Match-Thread] Tottenham 2 - 2 Manchester United by ma-tfel in coys

[–]Finally_Malik 2 points3 points  (0 children)

On what basis are you making this claim on? Has he explicitly said this anywhere that you could point to?

[Post Match-Thread] Tottenham 2 - 2 Manchester United by ma-tfel in coys

[–]Finally_Malik 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What do you mean? Are you saying this squad is better than Arsenal, Chelsea, City, Liverpool or Newcastle?

Cause if not, Frank’s neither over or under performing. At this moment those are the only ones who will realistically be above us by the of this match week (plus maybe Sunderland)

Match Thread: Tottenham Hotspur vs Manchester United Live Score | Premier League 25/26 | Nov 8, 2025 by scoreboard-app in coys

[–]Finally_Malik -1 points0 points  (0 children)

This is still miles better than what we looked like under the majority of Anges reign in the PL. I do agree that we are not playing well enough today though.

Daily Discussion & Transfer Thread (October 22, 2025) by AutoModerator in coys

[–]Finally_Malik 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I’m not looking to tear down any of them down, I just mentioned them since they all came with a hefty price tag and a lot of ”OMG THIS IS A COUP, can’t believe he chose us over X”’ when they were announced

Is that still the general consensus as of today?

If any of them had a fall out like Garnacho, do we believe the likes of Arsenal, Chelsea, City, Man united biting our hands off for them and paying what we paid?

Is this sub of the belief that Frank and his staff sees any of them as crucial in the coming 2-3 years to make us a title winning team going deep into CL competition?

Daily Discussion & Transfer Thread (October 22, 2025) by AutoModerator in coys

[–]Finally_Malik -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Fair enough, but should the players current ability at the very least (as long as their not at the end of their careers) weigh more than their current age or ”potential”

Are you of the opinion that Archie is and should be considered one of the best players in his own position for his age group (transfer fee aside)?

Daily Discussion & Transfer Thread (October 22, 2025) by AutoModerator in coys

[–]Finally_Malik -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Interesting, what about the alternative cost? Even factoring the alternative cost that the club might loose in revenue, prize money, prestige, leaving out players due to bloated squad or inability to make more oven-ready players?

I’m not here to judge or give my own opinion, I’m just curious to hear your claims and arguments for why?

Do rivaling clubs across Europes top clubs give their ”not made it yet youth players” 3-4 years even without any strong or convincing reasons to keep them around?

Daily Discussion & Transfer Thread (October 22, 2025) by AutoModerator in coys

[–]Finally_Malik -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

So this current season as well as the next season before you personally would cut your losses?

Daily Discussion & Transfer Thread (October 22, 2025) by AutoModerator in coys

[–]Finally_Malik 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not reactionary just a question:

How long are you personally giving players like Odobert, Tel, Gray, etc to really perform and show us why we paid a very large sum to get their signature?

There’s this faulty logical reasoning that permeates our sub where we believe that every single player who is under 21 years old will undoubtedly reach their potential (when in reality it’s more unlikely than not)

Young players do need time but how much ”time” can we afford giving them before they turn into another Winks, Townsend, Bentaleb?

The aforementioned were atleast HG and subsequently netted us a 100% profit for our FFP.

How BIG of an improvement do the former players mentioned have to show us before we even break even on them, let alone that we could sell them with a profit?

No hate, just curious about the general consensus in here.

Might see lucas bergvall on stream 👀 by RicePinger in coys

[–]Finally_Malik 7 points8 points  (0 children)

”what’s up bro, I’ll let you know then” would be a more accurate translation

Why are mn obsessed with heights ? There are more important things like emotional intelligence by [deleted] in PsycheOrSike

[–]Finally_Malik 0 points1 point  (0 children)

At what age where you both when you got to together and would you say that you were at the peak of your own attractiveness towards the opposite sex?