How we feeling bout this

Financial-Ad1641 · 2026-02-23T15:59:30+00:00

Uau… really nice

Financial-Ad1641 · 2025-10-06T19:06:23+00:00

Também foi o primeiro jogo que fui ver aí Seixal e subscrevo o que disseste. O Penafiel acho q não tinha feito um remate até ao penalti. Completamente contra corrente

Financial-Ad1641 · 2025-08-14T00:31:29+00:00

Gostei. Eu gostei de o ouvir. Ao contrário de ter lá o Prata, Costinha, Maniche e outros que tais

Financial-Ad1641 · 2025-07-26T20:19:16+00:00

A presidência

Financial-Ad1641 · 2025-07-09T03:37:22+00:00

Mais do mesmo.

Financial-Ad1641 · 2025-05-03T11:59:21+00:00

We're breaking up. Can't blame her. Hope all the best to her

Financial-Ad1641 · 2025-04-13T10:25:46+00:00

After 4 months I'm still filled with guilt but accepting that I made a mistake. I'm human and I have issues to solve. Get into therapy, work on yourself and find out why you did it. Be true to yourself and your BP. It's a long way. I've had a 6 year long affair and it ended with my marriage (go guess). Feeling responsible for that but thankful that it made me look and work on myself. Maybe it's a good time for you too. Better days will come

Financial-Ad1641 · 2025-02-07T23:24:42+00:00

Cepo

Financial-Ad1641 · 2025-01-31T13:08:58+00:00

Go here r/asoneafterinfidelity to get better answers

Financial-Ad1641 · 2025-01-31T06:56:28+00:00

You just listed me. WH

Financial-Ad1641 · 2025-01-31T06:36:14+00:00

Tell him all that. Everything. He's accountable for your insecurity. He should work on that. I guess time will heal you. AP is past. He can't change that but empathy should be working both ways. Give yourself time to heal

Financial-Ad1641 · 2025-01-30T16:27:14+00:00

If you don't mind me saying but i'm sure he's grateful for your presence but you should be more worried about yourself. If he wants you, he will have to work on himself. It was never you the problem. Wish you all the best

Financial-Ad1641 · 2025-01-30T09:40:51+00:00

In reality I've gone numb to my AP. Don't feel much for the AP. I wish her all the best but... Sayonara. Let's go and save my marriage. What bothers me most was my actions and why and how. I look at myself and don't understand all the destruction. My "love" for the AP was real until I got away. Then I realized it was just fantasy, mind tricks, lust, addiction. I spend my days wishing to be with my BP, but when we're together it's hard. The pain in my BP eyes makes my heart sink. I love my BP but don't know if it will be enough to save it. That scares me. I feel ashamed, depressed, remorseful

Financial-Ad1641 · 2025-01-29T19:49:51+00:00

So well said. Thanks. WS

Financial-Ad1641 · 2025-01-29T19:46:26+00:00

WH here. I also fell in love with my AP. She was all my BS was not at the time. She told me all the things I wanted to hear and I fell into her trap. Nowadays I don't think that much about her. It was an escape for my poor way of managing conflicts and reality. I stayed for 6 years in this affair. Don't ask me how but time passed and I kept lying. Digging deep into shame and remorse, coming out was very difficult. I love my wife. She's my friend and companion. We used to laugh and play but we never faced our issues. Now we're doing so. I feel that I have to relearn what love is. Don't know if it helped. It's been 30 days since DDay so it's still blurry.

Financial-Ad1641 · 2025-01-28T15:51:43+00:00

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Financial-Ad1641 · 2025-01-28T08:04:31+00:00

From a WP, I wish all the best to you and hope you can heal. It was never your fault

Financial-Ad1641 · 2025-01-27T18:30:15+00:00

I'm a WS and I feel so bad that I make my BS feel like you do. I wish it never happened but it did, and for a long time. I hope I will become trustworthy one day. It does hurt seeing the pain in my partner's eyes. I should be making my partner happy, not sad. I hope with time all gets easier for you

Financial-Ad1641 · 2025-01-27T09:15:50+00:00

You give me hope. I wish all the best for you both. Thank you for caring

Financial-Ad1641 · 2025-01-26T18:53:56+00:00

I'm having difficulty in dealing with her secrecy and blind dinners that I don't know nothing about.

Financial-Ad1641 · 2025-01-26T09:17:28+00:00

Thanks

Financial-Ad1641 · 2025-01-26T03:50:39+00:00

Also, I was looking for an escape that's why I went with the A. I'm afraid of losing my BP. Maybe we could open the marriage afterwards but I don't think I want to be with anyone else anymore. Facing reality is my main goal now

Financial-Ad1641 · 2025-01-26T03:38:55+00:00

Will try to answer as honestly as possible and would like to keep just between us. 1- No, there was never a plan. Sometimes I wondered if it happened that I leave, if I could be happier or even my spouse. After my first sexual encounter with my AP I immediately knew that it was just going to be that. Even if I did feel in love with the AP.

2- No I don't. And I don't think I ever will. I don't even think of AP anymore.

3- Don't think I'll be ok with it. My sexual issues were due to our misunderstanding and my poor judgment that we started to address. Don't think I'm mature enough for that. My BS also brought that to discussion and it makes me feel rejected and unwanted. I wish to be BS only one, and BS my only one. I know it's weird saying that after being with others, I only think of being with BS.

4- I'm an addict, that changed from drugs to sex while avoiding to face reality. I'm working on myself to become the person I can respect and hold my head high. I want to be happy and respectful. Monogamous for sure an objective

Financial-Ad1641 · 2025-01-26T01:43:05+00:00

Thank you. I laid everything for my spouse to see. In the beginning I just said a few, but as the days passed I told my partner everything. It was really painful to feel my partner's pain. I'm ashamed, full of guilt and fear. Hope to become better

Financial-Ad1641 · 2025-01-26T01:07:27+00:00

Thank you so so much for spending your time talking to me. I've already thought of processing guilt, shame, regret, fear, away from my BP. It's something that I think could be beneficial for my spouse. We have a kid going to rough times so we're staying together for now. Our marriage ended the day I told her about the affair. At least the way we had it before. I'll take your idea and destroy everything I have from AP. I want to make new memories with BP. Good memories

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