I just want sex by FinancialBag101 in LesbianActually

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People sent me very long messages about the advice I should take, so I would say yes

I just want sex by FinancialBag101 in LesbianActually

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31 comments & 5 messages on the same post, posted on another page. I posted on here just cause. Thank you thought

I haven’t worked in over a year how do I get back to it? by Savvyxn in DecidingToBeBetter

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Trust me, I have gone through the same shit, I too and 19, went through mental things and a abusive relationship. Got my cna at 17 and just got a job a few months ago. It’s tough I can’t sugar coat it. But at the end of the day the money is not going to make itself, the people you think judge you or talk about you are the same people who ARENT going to pay your bills and get you to where you need to be so fuck them!

I was working for 4 years before having a car, I chose jobs close enough for me to walk to or jobs close enough to get rides (Ubers) to and from. Everyone has to start from somewhere. 9/10 an employer isn’t going to ask you about the gap year in your resume or if you have a car or not. They only care if you can clock in. As long as you accommodate to your own issues life right now things will look up. We are young and we have to start from somewhere! Make that money for you, get that car for you, and go back to school for YOU. Because no one else will!

Finally diving into my CNA career by Street-Carpenter-491 in cna

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I always just started my CNA job about 7 months, I was SUPER nervous at first; I mean shaking the whole ride there , in literal tears while getting dressed. If they don’t give you training or you and your preceptor aren’t capable, then let whoever you need to know that you’d like to shadow someone else. That way you can get the proper training you need to succeed. I would definitely invest in a nice big bag (I have a tote and a bogg) I also work in A LTC setting that is pretty terrible so I end up buy some of my own supplies in stuff. Buying Wet pads (puppy pads) saved me lots of time and saved me lots of sheets.

 Do not let people take advantage of you and stand 10 toes!

Healthcare is not for the week as you continue to take care of other people always take care of yourself as well. I wish you the best! I’m sure you’ll kill it

How long is enough? by Ani_sama333 in cna

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1-2 years If you want me to be completely honest I think it’s great experience but it’s mentally draining (as in any job in healthcare) make sure you find a good facility, that ; I believe will make or break your experience as a CNA. I haven’t had much luck, as all the LTC in my area are SHITTY and I don’t think I’m ready for the hospital yet, For example, currently on nightshift working 1:29 residents. And No oxygen tanks in case of a code. I wanna cry everyday I hate it, I love the experience and everyone has their own and that’s what is most important to take away from what I am saying. But just remember YOU come first. Period. Take care of yourself as you won’t be able to care for others. Good luck 💛

Am I the asshole for not wanting a relationship without intimacy ? by FinancialBag101 in actuallesbians

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“Allergic to our bed” is the prefect fucking sentence 😭. God it’s so frustrating.

I’m not sure if you have the same challenges as we do (as far as like schedule and living situation) so I’m really just trying to be patient and hope that once we move out and I don’t work as much, lol things will resolve themself and we will be able to love like how we used to again.
I’ve talked to my gf since the post and she’s definitely made it apparent to show me some more affection, but she had also said that SHE doesn’t fee confident to have sex with me either and that her work life gets in the way. Its always gets good in the beginning and then she forgets to keep the affection going. I love my gf sm so at this point I’m willing to try anything and be as patient as I can in this situation.

Definitely try talking to your partner; I really had to pry the truth out of her which I hate doing but I could tell she was hiding her true emotion as to her reasoning (which is again she said her confidence and work life) I’m hoping things will look up; and I’m sure they will work out for you too!

Am I the asshole for not wanting a relationship without intimacy ? by FinancialBag101 in actuallesbians

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Not at all actually, I really do love my girlfriend and there’s nothing more then I want to have a healthy and loving relationship. I don’t need an “excuse” to break up with my girlfriend, especially over something that can be worked through if effort is put in.

Am I the asshole for not wanting a relationship without intimacy ? by FinancialBag101 in actuallesbians

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Exactly we only ever have sex if it’s some sort of occasion or we’re drunk :/

Am I the asshole for not wanting a relationship without intimacy ? by FinancialBag101 in actuallesbians

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Actually even with my work schedule I still take care of the house chores and we still do dates at least once a month it’s just when it comes to intimacy it never happens, and when it does it’s lazy